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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I met a boy a year ago on Facebook. We were only Friends when last week he asked me to meet him. I was really excited to meet him for the first time, he is 21 and am 16.he is very friendly and i started liking him a lot but when we met yesterday, his friend saw us and said 'what are you doing with a school girl?' I was really hurt..he didnt noticed that..he doesn' t call me anymore,doesn't text me neither and has gone offline to me on Facebook. I am really hurt..he even commented somewere that he was with a school girl yesterday.i liked that comment and he then removed the photo. I am confused.. I need help. I cant stop thinking about him even though I know he doesn't like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess,you are right..
but we met as a friend..i thought he was a nice guy..
i know him for a year..
i am feeling so foolish fr trusting him :/
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 September 2012):
 honey you ARE a school girl
and there is no way I would let my 16 yr old daughter date a 21 year old MAN.
21 and 26 is not that big a difference but 16 and 21 is HUGE.
and even with age of consent being 16 here where I live any sexual activity between a 16 yr old and a 21 yr old lands the 21 yr old in jail and branded a child sex offender for life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2012): His friends kind of have a point. He is an adult after all, and you are at 16, a school girl. Although you are above the legal age of consent (16 in most countries), in moral society, its not really seen as moral.
Its probably just hit home what his friends have said, and realized how him at 21, meeting school girls of 16, would look from a 3rd person perspective.
I know you feel hurt because you like him, but try not to take it too personally. If this is the end, then it just wasn't meant to be.
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