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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Can't make friends or make any impact on anyone. No-one cares for me as I do them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem with making friends with people. I get nervous around people and don't know what to talk about. I don't do much minus work and sleep and it takes a second to say I went shopping at the weekend or went to church. Peopl...

This is not your typical FWB situation... I'm in desperate need of advice and insight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Well, it all started a few years ago when I met this guy. We became instant friends and we have been really close ever since we met. Since we met we have almost been inseperable. Sure, we've had our fall outs, but what longterm friendship wouldn't? ...

How can I drop hints to let her know that I like her and how can I prepare for possibly asking her out in September?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she...

Why is my husband comparing our marriage to my best friend's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hi there, i've been married for merely two months and already I'm miserable! For the past two weeks we've beem arguing none stop. last nite he told me that I should be more like my best friend (who also recently got married) and be more of a woman ...

Friend's brother is ignoring me because I like him and there is an age difference between us. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have a really close friend , She is perhaps one of my best friends. But every time I'm with her i think of her brother.He's the problem. She has no problem at all with me liking him well except she calls it gross and you know the family thing. We ...

If he likes me, why is he flirting with other girls??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - So my best friend recently told me that her older brother likes me. I have always liked him so i started flirting w/ him a little; nothing too obvious though. She told me he wanted to make a move. But for the past couple of days now it seems like he ...

If I tell him how I feel, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - So, this guy and I have been texting for about...a year now. He goes to my school, and is a few months older than me. He's in a younger grade (only because I went to school early.) Anyways, a few months after we started texting last year he admitted ...

How should I respond to a roommate who forgives but very rarely forgets?

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30 June 2011 (F) - How should I respond to a roommate who forgives but very rarely forgets? I am entering my second year of living with my old roommate and one other person (3 bedroom apt.) We are all college students. Quite frequently, when we have a disagree...

Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...

Found out my friends are a little two faced - what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My bestfriend who i have known for around 4 years now had started turning a bit cold recently and its been bugging me. We still go out and have parties and talk about everything, but i was on her social network account tonight she left unattended at ...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Why does my friend act like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - There's this friend of mine that i really like,he's really confusing.He day he talks to me,the next day he ignores me.He texts me at midnight to wish me happy birthday,the next day not one "hello". For example one day we were talking online.A...

Do I follow the advice of others or listen to my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I ...

I always said I wouldn't and then I did, and I would do it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long response but please bear with me. So here's the situation, me and my friend recently met this guy. In our town he is very well know as being quite the eligible bachelor. He is everything a girl could ask for (he ...

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i ...

I felt ditched and now I'm angry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she ...

Is he really in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Ummm, well, there is this guy and we've been friends for more than a yr n we're so open with each other. Recently he asked me out n said he's in love with me. But he doesn't call often or txt n he says he loves me but i don't know what to believe ...

I'm interested in being more than friends. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have a friend and I like him a lot. I know that we would make a great couple. We are really good friends and our other friend as well as strangers say that we are or could be a great couple, but he has been through some stuff with his ex and I get ...

I only see him fleetingly. Will my solution to get closer to this cute guy work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So, there's this cute boy that I get to see every day for like... five seconds. That's all. We are PERFECT strangers, and because I really don't have the time to talk to him (my bus gets in basically at the same time as I see him), it's probably ...

Is he being sincere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So I hooked up with my guy friend when I was drunk. He was sober though and my best friends yelled at him for it (cause it was my first kiss and they thought he took advantage of me, which wasn't true). My best friend even slapped him in front of ...

My best friend's wife hates me when there is nothing romantic about my relationship with her husband! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - ok i have a male best friend i mean we are even closer then best friends more like brother and sister hes 9 years older then me. he calls himself my gaurdian angel and thats what he is. he helps me i help him. anyways hes married and has 2 kids. in ...

Should I confront my former friend about the comments he made about me online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My friend at least I thought they were and I got into a huge fight. We kind of had crushes on each other but things got really bad between us. I really made him mad. I tried apologizing and giving him space. The thing that hurt me is that after I ...

My friend is extremely emotionally dependent on me and I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Okay, so I have a friend who is extremely emotionally attached to me and I don't know what to do. She tells me constantly that if it weren't for me and her boyfriend, she'd kill herself. She is extremely self-loathing to the point where every time ...

I lied to my best friend to try to help her, and it backfired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for the past 3 years. It is a really unhealthy relationship. He mentally abuses her and is very controlling and manipulative. The last year they have been through so much. Off and on. It has gotten ...

I feel like the only person I have is my gf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - If the only person you feel has your back is your significant other? All my friends are no where to be found. Everybody is oh so busy. My family doesnt understand me. Anytime they call me or come to see me is when they need something. I feel like ...

Am I an ass?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Honestly am I? I've realized something, I can't seem to get over my ex. She was my first serious gf. Like I really loved her. We had a good year 1/2 or 2 together. We broke up bc I found out she cheated. It took a year before we were able to be cool ...

My good friend is into my fiancé, I think he loves her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my good friend is in love with my fiance for a number of reasons : 1. We went out as a group for her birthday and he bought her drinks and they were talking most of the night ( they both speak french) then when it came to leaving and goin...

I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, ...

Are all men like this? He says I make it too obvious we are dating when we are out togther. My parents don't like him either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - hey. ok here goes. i have this bf for almost a year and i love him a lot, my parents do not want me to have anything to do with him cause he's from a different country to mine and they do not trust people from his country. They say they are all bad,...

Should my married friend text with another guy who loves her?

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27 June 2011 (F) - My friend is married and have two kids. She said she have some problems with her houseband. There is this another guy who told her he love her but she didn't accept his proposal. She told her housband and he told her to cut her contact with him as ...

My troubled circumstances have been preventing me from dating and making friends.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I am a 22 year old man with some very serious social issues despite the fact that I have been very successful otherwise. although this may be extremely hard to believe [it is for myself quite often] but I have never dated, hugged, h...

Should I give my friend another chance or call it a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Like to know what you'd do in these circumstances, Aunts and Uncles. I have a friend of about 4 years. We both act and met when we did a show together and we hit it off well (she's female). We met up for lunch occasionally and when she and her...

Ethnicity Problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I am a 16 year old boy. I have a big problem with my ethnicity/background. I was born in Sweden and lived there for a few years, my mother is Swedish, then I moved to Canada. My father is Nigerian-African. However, I have a much closer connection to ...

I am not sure the guy I like and have been talking to respects me!

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26 June 2011 (F) - How do I get him to respect me? I am not sure the guy I like and have been talking to respects me! That is because sometimes he'll talk about me with his friend and tell them things about me and our relationship. This especially made me upset when...

Getting mixed signals from a guy I like, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

26 June 2011 (?) - I have recently become good friends with a guy that I met through my brother's girlfriend. He told my brother's girlfriend he didn't like me but changed his mind a week later saying he was too scared to ask me out. We hangout out at my flat almost ...

In love with someone 30 years older.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - For just over 2 years now I have had feelings for a woman about 30 years older than me. At no time over these two years have i at all understood these feelings, she is like a best friend and a second mother to me. I dont want to feel anything other ...

She loved me first then she says she has no feelings but she cares about me so much....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Hello, this is my first time asking a question like this. I mostly like to deal with my problems on my own but this time I need some help. I hope some of you read this and give me some advice. 5 months ago I've met with a foreign girl on a meetin...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl, and I feel jealous when they hang out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. She's a good friend of mine and really nice and we're pretty close. I don't want to, but every time he hangs out with her (which is like everyday) I get jealous. Recently, I've been on a 9 day trip and every day ...

I think he thinks I hate him or something

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - So last winter break, by chance, my friend and I ended up hanging out together for a whole day. We really got to know each other and I mean, I had always had a tiny crush on him so things moved fairly quickly, but it was the worst timing. The next ...

If she breaks up with him what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I guess i should first give a little background. My friend James, has been going out with a girl for almost a year now. I at first had no feelings for her, but over time I started developing feelings for her. Now the relationship has not been all...

What should I do about my drunken mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Okay, so I don't really know how to explain this, so I'll just jump right in. About a week ago, I met the guy one of my friends is talking to. We all hung out with some of our other friends one night. Since me and the guy(let's call him Dave) w...

I try rationalizing it in my head but her horrified response really messed with my head. Opinions? Anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Alright, I don't know what to think here. I'll make it short, but I dated this guy and things just did not work out for several reasons, but we're still attracted to each other and have remained great friends since our break up. He calls me his ...

Most girls worry about other girls trying on with their boyfriends. I worry about his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we're planning on going on holidays, moving in etc etc :) but he has this friend. its a man friend. and he is very weird! i look at the messages he says, and some of them are like really...

I like a guy but my best friend loves him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - I like a guy but my best friend loves him too, he liked my best friend before but now he says he love me again. But he don't know that I love him because I do not want my best friend learn that and the guy once told me on facebook ' I'm gonna try ...

So does she fancy me or is she just being super friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - Hi I work for a big organization (1000+ workers) , anyway for the past two months or so i've been emailing a woman that works here. I cant even remeber who started the emailing, but i've got to know her quite well, she has told me about her fa...

I've made a mess. How do I tell my best friend I had sex with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - I have been dating this guy for two years. (Lets call him, Kyle.) And everything was perfect. He would send me flowers just because... not many guys do that! He also is very big on his religion and respects me. Kyle is sweet and amazing. All my ...

What can I do to cheer up my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids This is not a Bf/Gf relationship thing but a friendship thing. My best friend, E, told me that her first friend, C, lied to her, like: she planed all this stuff that she knows E is not allow to do and went on doing stuff without in...

I told him the friendship was over, but I regret it. What's the best thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - i have ended a friendship with a guy ive known for 3 years. at the start he was amazing and was a caring attentive friend. as time went on i knew i had feelings for him but never showed, then i started noticing other stuff like he would tell half ...

Every time I see a beautiful girl, my mind takes me to her and I always feel she is the best girl I have ever seen and is ideal for a girlfriend/wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - Hi All, Hey guys and girls, please help me out. I am in a situation where I need your opinion/help. So here is my story I work in a organization for past 2 yrs . An year back I saw a girl who just sits at some distance from me . First time I ...

He's Un-Contactable And Somehow Impossible To Be Friends The Least!!!!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - There's this guy from a party. He seems to like me. He talked to me, we had fun.. etc. He didn't really talked to other people, more to me. (According to my friends) He even said to a friend that I was still a minor. So he said that probably ...