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writes:If the only person you feel has your back is your significant other? All my friends are no where to be found. Everybody is oh so busy. My family doesnt understand me. Anytime they call me or come to see me is when they need something. I feel like the only person I have is my gf. That sucks! She's a great gf, don't get me wrong. It's just sometimes we may need our space. All her friends come out of nowhere to hang out with her but not mine. So when we do get our space. I'm alone. Sorry to be a Debbie Downer. What do you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you guys I actually spoke to one of my old friends and we're gonna catch up every week on our days off and when we aren't busy spending qt with our gf's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): Yep, I feel the sAme. My life is much the same, except I am 15 years older than you. It started though when I was your Age. I started making choices that were right for my ability to provide for my family, but over time separated me from my friends, both geographically and in available time to hang out. Most of my guy friends made the same choices. Our wives however were able to make different choices. They get to work part time, at jobs they find interesting. They have plenty of time to socialize with their old friends and new. Meanwhile, most of the men I know have been trPped in this role of robotic provider. They get to lead very full lives, while we lead lives of isolation.
I realize I am not being very helpful here, but I am trying to be honest. I guess my advise would be to put in max effort now, while u r young, to remain close with the friends you have. Hitting on guys in the gym won't help, and it's gets harder when u r older
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