A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:For just over 2 years now I have had feelings for a woman about 30 years older than me. At no time over these two years have i at all understood these feelings, she is like a best friend and a second mother to me. I dont want to feel anything other than that for her, but at times I find myself wanting her. She is part of my group of friends (from work we are all of different ages!) and we always going out as a group together and it makes it so awkward about the fact she is all im thinking about.I dont have a great home life, so i sometimes wonder whether i actually fancy this woman or whether i think of her as a comfort because things at home at bad. Either way, i know i need to work out these feelings and either move on/accept them but they are driving me mad.She is married (happily) and i know in no circumstances will she ever feel the same way and i accept that as much as i sometimes wish i could change that! (these are split second thoughts!)How do i move on? Figure out my feelings? Im stuck now.Thanks
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (28 June 2011):
 hi its nothing to do with age so i will not tell you to find a gf your own age. first things first shes happily married so there for best to put your feelings to the back of your mind as you may lose her as a friend then realise it was just a crush after all. and you would of lost her for nothing. i think you may have your feelings of friendship mixed up with feelings of love. try dateing a few people you may find the right one and realise that way thta this is just a crush. if you dont then drop me a message to help you out some more.x
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