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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Am I a man whore???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not ...

Am I not good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Heyy Peoples! Recently i started dating one of my childhood friends and everything is going great! I'm so happy! We both gave eachother our bebo passwords. One day i decided to check his private mail. I probly shouldnt have invaded his privacy...

He's ignoring me, what do I do? He was my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - please help me i really need help because i dont know what to do i feel so ill and sick. i have been texting a guy for nearly 3 months and we were getting on brilliant he was kinda my boyfriend! until 5.30pm today uk time. i messaged him saying what ...

It seems like I'm going to lose her... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hey,Guys, I have some problems with one of my friends, And i need you help. This is the thing,one of my friend's a girl, who has been my friend since high school, is going to celebrate her birthday, and asked me if i can give her a prese...

Is he keen or just luke warm...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have two children with a guy i was with for 8 years we broke up in january. 3 months later a friend of mine hooked me and his friend up we started dating and have been together for about 2 months. he doesnt lie to me or hide anything but he never ...

Stressed in case we lose contact after my holiday...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been talking with a guy who is currently in another town. We cannot see each other every often but last time he was here he asked me out and we had a blast. He is talking to me very often and he is consistently contacting me. I...

Friend problems... I'm really confused, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I have this problem with my female best friend (I'm a guy) for the past year, everything went so smoothly. We were with a small group of friends. Then one day, my best friend fought with another friend in the group and they decided to stay away ...

I am scared to death... Am I pregnant???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Ok. well i was hanging out with my best guy friend. and he was in the mood, so i jacked off, i had a little bit of cum in the middle of my hand but i wiped it off, about 2 hours later i was masturbating home alone, i put one finger in but not all ...

Does she have feelings for my brother over me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i ...

Do I leave my boyfriend for this other guy even though I might not end up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - this is a very long and complicated story lol. so i was very good friends with a guy named "j" and i always had feelings for him ever since we met but i never said anything until 10 months after meeting. he admitted he like me as well but there was ...

How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too... But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I ...

I am really certain that this is the one for me, but am afraid I may be wasting my efforts and will only lead to heartache in the end.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I really like her, no wait; I'm falling in love with her. She knows how I feel, but maybe not to the extent of my feelings. She also knows that I want to date her and she’s told me she really likes ...

Why can guys not learn to communicate properly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have this guy who is a friend we mail/text back and forth almost on a daily basis, then today outta nowhere he is like an anti christ . . He is hung over but surely thats not going to change him into a nasty piece of work is it???? Why is it...

I feel like she owes me a proper explanation of how she feels at least!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me after we started University last November, saying she didn't want to be in a relationship at that time. We were together for around 5 months after a friendship progressed and I had helped her through a suicide attempt and ...

How do I make this into a booty call relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I met ran into an old friend that I picked up in a bar and we had sex. I am not in a position to have a relationship. I travel all over the US for work, and communicated this to him. He made sure to get my phone number. He texed me 30 minutes ...

My ex seems to be using me as an ego-boost, how do I get through to him that this is not acceptable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been split up for 4 months after just under a 2 year long-distance relationship. We agreed to remain friends and have done so, due to the fact we were really close and told each other everything - more than we have told our cl...

Would getting a guy a teddy bear for his birthday be stupid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - He always tells me he's lonely and so I always tell him teddy bears help. So finally his 16 bday is coming up (we're just friends) and I was just wondering if getting him a teddy bear would be too embarrassing for him? He's a nice guy, I think he ...

I'm so confused, have I made the wrong choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - So i kind of need some advice, i dated my ex for 7 1/2 months and we broke up because he made out with my ex bestfriend and now im with a new guy and i love this new guy but when he is away i brake down in tears i feel like my heart was ripped out ...

Why did I have to fall for my friend who is in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - One of my really good friends and I knew each other since high school but we really didn't start talking and getting to truly know each other until this year, which is our senior year. My friend, she's gay, and I really got close, we're so ...

A tough love triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - hey everyone! zeelyle here. i have a situation and i would really appreciate some advice. see theres this girl that im totally in love with and im positive that she is into me too but she is always dating someone else. there is an age difference o...

Don't you consider this a cruel game?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (?) - My friend was at the mall with her family and her dad started a game where they had to "find chubby people." I said that this was a mean and cruel game. She said that it wasn't and it was just a game- just something to do. But still- isn't this mean ...

How do you best manage being friends after love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - How do you best manage being friends after love? My bf and I broke up almost 4 months ago. It was his decision to break up, though things had been rough between us for a while---namely, he was dealing with a lot of stuff and the relationship see...

Help!!! Are these rumours true???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - On Friday night I was out celebrating with friends as we've just left college. I'm a lightweight compared to them as I don't drink often, and had close to nothing to eat that day. Now I can't remember much from the night, but stories have got back...

Does it sound like he still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend ...

How do I make the next move...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Please, I need some help here! I like my boss, I like her a lot. I'm 32 and she is 36 both single, you might think that I'm crazy but I don't know, how did this happen to me. The thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. She works 24 hours a day ...

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a ...

Something always gets in the way of our meetings, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hello. Thanks for reading. Okay, so me and this girl have established that we like eachother, but when trying to meet up with her something gets in the way, and then she says how she wished we had met up. I think it has something to do with her l...

Stupid or just plan silly in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am hurt. I recently reconnected with my high school crush. He indicated strongly that he is interested in me. I feel same way about him. However we do not live in the same town. He lives in a smaller town. I recently learnt ...

Who do I choose between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - There are two guys and they are both so wonderful in different ways, they both love me and I don't know what to do. What should I look for in the way they act around me and treat me???...

What's the right approach to ask her to be my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I've known this girl for about 3 years and she just broke up with her bofriend about 2 weeks ago and during those 2 weeks and still continuing we have been hanging out 3-4 hrs after school, we also hang out during school. she is always close by me, ...

Is he scared because he's never been attracted to a woman before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Basically my gay bff and I used to be super close, practically like a couple. Over the past week or so he's started acting a bit off with me, we're more like passing strangers or people who have just met than the friends we used to be. He sent me ...

How can I make small talk with strangers? What should I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I don't know what to do about this situation. It has nothing to do with being in a relationship, but I'd appreciate some help here. How do people make small talk or conversation without feeling awkward? I want to make small talk with ...

Manager flirts and chats to everyone but me, have I done something wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of an odd question which I hope I can get some answers to. I get on with most people I meet, I'm friendly, funny etc... So I been told! Somehow though my male managers seem to shy away talking to me. In my current job my male...

Do we like the same guy? I"m depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok well i'm 14 and bisexual. Well, i have a crush on this girl, she's really cute and evil sometimes but i like it. She's bi too and like's one of our only guy friends, they both are camping with another girl (she kissed my crush and so did the guy ...

Boyfriend spending alot of time with this girl and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Recently, my long term boyfriend lost a good female friend of his and has since "replaced" her with another girl, whom I know semi-well and also work with. They have been spending a lot of time together and have been going to bars together, are ...

What does she mean when she says "love ya"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I am in love with my best friend, she is amazing and I would die without her. When were texting and stuff she always says "love ya" when she leaves. Is this the same as "love you" or is she meaning something different....

I'm jealous of my friend and want to rant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i think i am upset about things in my life..everyone i know except for maybe a few is basically with the first guy they really loved and in a relationship for years and on their way to getting married. I am in my mid twenties, went to college and ...

13 when I fell in love with my straight guy friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - it was mid July when I knew that I was in love with my straight friend I told my friends about it and it was fine with them his friends told him about the matter but he didn't want to believe till the day came that I felt he was about to believe ...

Don't trust men, but curious to meet my biological father

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - im 17 and have been living with my mama and stepdad 4 about 13 yearz. he isnt sexually abusive but he is abusive in every other way. i hate him. cant wait till next febuary so i can move out and although he has resentfully provided 4 me financially ...

Should I bother pursuing this co-worker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hey there, I have a question about a girl at work. She started working here like 2 years ago. I liked her a lot, and felt it was pretty mutual. However, I never asked her out and another co-worker got to her first. I was very bummed, but got ...

Will he ever forgive me for this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I've know this guy 4 five years and we've been hanging out off and on. Well everything was going fine until one night i texed him and he ignored me and i smarted off. I said u don't like 4 people 2 treat u badly, so u shouldn't treat them that way, ...

Need help to sort my head out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - hi i broke up with my ex bf about a month ago and we remained friends but ever since we broke up he keeps sayin that as soon as he is single he wants 2 get bk with me n that he still loves me n misses me then these lst few weeks my m8 has been ...

I've fallen for my best friend, but I feel to scared to talk to her about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Here's the deal. I've fallen completely for my girl best friend. She hasn't been with anyone in over a year, and isn't the type to walk around with a guy on her mind all the time. We hang out all the time, always talk etc. I'm just confused as what ...

Being ignored by a boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - well, I was really good friends with this guy at school, we used to play on the piano together at lunch, he would come and find me in the library and he often asked me to go with him to the cantine or teachers with him. Then he he started stari...

Help!!! How do I know if he REALLY likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Hi ! Just long story short, we live in different places so we do not have that many opportunities to see each other but we talk on IM every day. But the thing is we just talk when we are at work, NEVER outside (during evenings or week ends). I li...

How do I get over someone who I've had feelings for, for the past 9 years??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I was 8 years old when I first met this guy, i am now 17. Our mothers work together and are best friends. We used to go over their house all the time. And me and him used to take their dogs for a walk. One time, when we did, he asked me to be his ...

Should I be friends and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - hey. There is a guy i go to school with that i've been knowing for a bit but it has always been a hi and bye type of thing.He is 20 years old and im 18. Until a month and a half ago when my girl and i went to a club and i bumped into him there. We ...

We laugh and joke around, but does she like me as a friend or boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I have a coworker she really cute and funny, we talk and spend our breaks even scream to talk to each other shell ask me where am I going we joke with each other she does this alot does she like me back as a bf or friend ...

My best girlfriend's boyfriend is withdrawn, but seems to like her a lot, is this reasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My best girlfriend has been seeing this guy but it's been really hard for him to open up to her. Whenever she ask him questions, he chooses not to answer them. He seems to really like her. What do you think?...

Is it odd for a girl to go clubbing with groups of guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I was just wondering what people (guys and girls!) think about a girl going along on a night out with mainly guys? Twice in the past I have gone out for drinks/clubbing as the only girl in a group of guys - the first time it was pretty good fun, ...