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anonymous
writes:hi i broke up with my ex bf about a month ago and we remained friends but ever since we broke up he keeps sayin that as soon as he is single he wants 2 get bk with me n that he still loves me n misses me then these lst few weeks my m8 has been tellin me that he is thinking of asking her out and he is single and has his facebook status as in a relationship 2 stop girls from askin him out but he has a gf. I went swimming on wed nite with my friend and he went 2 then when we finished he said 2 my friend he wanted a private conversation then he said 2 me dont tell anyone about this, will u promise me and i said no i wont say anything and then we ended up kissin and b4 i left his changing room he said luv you and then gave me a necklace. Later that nite i told him i was confused about it all and he said he is messed up in the head which we are both messed up in the head and none of us knows how 2 sort our heads out. I still love him i just need help asap 2 sort my head out and he wants me 2 help him sort his head out. please help me asap
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reader, loops +, writes (28 May 2010):
The only way to sort both your heads out? Walk in completely opposite directions until you can both deal with yourselves easily,never mind each other. You will only carry on causing both of you hurt and pain in the meantime if you let it continue. I don't think either of you can handle this relationship right now, it doesn't mean its over forever. but for now I would put it on hold until you are both capable of managing it.
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