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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I lost my best male friend 5 years ago but I still miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Me and my male best friend haven't spoke to each other in about 4 to 5 years. We were very close for almost 12 years, and I loved him so much. We would tell each other everything. We had even kissed a couple of times but we never had sex. We had ...

Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and ...

Does my ex still love me? Advice would be so much appreciated here...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I broke up with my uni boyfriend over a year ago now, but we've stayed in touch. We had been together for about 2 and a half years and looking back, I think breaking up was hasty. I did need to do some 'work' on myself (which I feel i now have) ...

I'm married, she's married!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a female friend that ended up telling me she is attracted to me and she really likes me. She is an attractive woman and I do like her and her personality. We hang out every weekend with our neighbors. The only thing is I'm married a...

I want to trust him but I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and about 2 months ago i found out through his friends that he had slight feelings for this other girl, who is meant to be his best friend. He told me he loved me but had a 'soft spot' for her. I ...

Should I write a letter telling him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I've been trying to tell my friend how I feel about him by saying it online because I'm very shy and don't want to say it in school. I told him that I like him and other things like the way he's been distant is hurting me. Would he be offended? I'm ...

Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible ...

Why does he not talk to me but try to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - This guy had this huge crush on me. We're 16 (year 11). He used to show all the signs (staring, glancing, copying, imitating, stands closer etc.) and I showed signs back.He shows few signs now. We used to flirt with each other all the time but now ...

Was my dream trying to tell me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm a lesbian teen and last night I had a sex dream about my best friend. In real life my friend knows that I'm gay. So in my dream my friend was seducing me and I was trying to get her to stop because I told her that she was probably...

He dumped me because of his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - There was this guy back in highschool, who I really liked. But I knew that we'd never be together because he didn't see me that way, if you know what I mean. He was really interested in a friend of mine, and even when she told him she wasn't ...

How do I get her to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - i need some help on how to deal with a very annoying problem. i work at a restaurant and there's a girl who comes in very often and hits on me like there's no tomorrow. the problem is she is only 16 turning 17 (she is extremely attractive for her ...

Do I make him feel guilty or pretend I'm fine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ignore the age, I'm actually 17. I need some advice, I have this friend and I love him but somehow he really doesn't seem to know. About a week ago I slept with him and then he said not to say to anyone what happened to avoid scandal. He is qui...

Having a hard time forgiving myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I recently had a foursome with a woman and two men that I am not in a relationship with. However, I am in a relationship with another man whom I love very dearly. I am 20, and have always been happiest in relationships, as I've only been single ...

Ideas of what to do in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - i have this friend i have know forever we went to school together. We lost touch after high school and have reconected again. She is happily married and I am divorced. She is in an open marriage and I have been with her husband several times. Once ...

Dating an ex of a friend..is it too weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ok so basically i have this friend who used to go out with my high school best friend around fours years ago. He has basically kiss the group of female friends and slept with one and for the past year he has been coming over (as friends in the ...

He wants to go to Amsterdam with his mates yet we've never been on holiday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of three years blurted out after being asked a week ago "I've been asked to go to Amsterdam for three days" i asked why he has only just told me this and he replied he didnt know how i would act. He has not had a job for ages and can ...

Do I stay single or give him one more chance even though I don't really think he's cute???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and just had my first boyfriend. I broke up with him over the weekend (we dated for a week) b.c I was unsure of what I really wanted. In the past, I've kinda hooked up with guys thinking that I had a chance with them. I've always wanted a ...

I'm paranoid about people using me! How can I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I,m very anti-social. and I dont like goin out to pubs or drinking. It all started when i started secondary school i was bullied coz of my weight and My glasses. I was even used as a prank by I boy. He said he fancied me and stupidly I believed him ...

I'm worried if I leave my boyfriend for his best friend I will ruin their friendship

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4 May 2010 (F) - I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with ...

How can you make the jump from being friends, to more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I have got a friend that I like a lot, and I know she hasn't got a boyfriend! Can I have some ideas please on how to make the jump from being a friend to being more than friends?...

Two friends, too friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] She's female. I'm female. We're friends. I get a certain feeling from her. I don't know if it's a mutual attraction or what! A vibe anyway! But when she and I are out together and have alcohol taken, we both h...

Is it normal to feel this way after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Missing my ex, and trying to remain friends.... My bf and I broke up almost 3 months ago. He is the nicest man I have ever dated. He is going through a lot of family problems, and, I think he just couldn't deal with both the drama at his family, a...

I don't feel like I'm good enough for guys I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - SO I wanted to do something different... well let me first start off by saying the story: Guy in my class, we are friends, he's a bit shy in that he doesn't initiate things, but i always catch him constantly looking over at me (my friends notice it ...

In love with a friend, but it's delicate and I need suggestions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm new to this site, but it seems like it has a pretty active community, full of helpful people. I'm curious to see what other people think about a situation of mine. I have very strong feelings for a friend of mine. If it's not love, I'm ...

Tony wants me to talk more, and Mike likes me! Help!

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4 May 2010 (F) - I hang out with a small group of friends(names changed of course.) Mike, Tony, Chris, and my cousin Sara. Well, Tony and I have been talking about going out and he's considering it, but the other day Mike, who is a year and a half younger than me ...

What can I do to fix our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hi I am currently 15 in high school. Right now I like this girl and she likes me too but for a couple of days I have been thinking that she is lying to me and probably never liked me. So I ask her if she had every lied to me and she says she ...