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*immy09
writes:I've know this guy 4 five years and we've been hanging out off and on. Well everything was going fine until one night i texed him and he ignored me and i smarted off. I said u don't like 4 people 2 treat u badly, so u shouldn't treat them that way, u might as well delete my number because i'm doing the same with yours. He says right on. Well i decided 2 write his friend and ask him why his friend was being so mean. He says you'll have 2 ask him. I said i tried but he won't talk about it. Then his friend says i'm sorry he's being mean 2 u but we can't be talking it's just not right, if he knew he would be really mad. Well his friend goes back and tells him that i had been asking him questions. So he gets mad and tells me 2 stay away from his friends. I've told him sorry a bunch of times, but he's still not talking 2 me. I know it was wrong 2 say the stuff i did 2 him. I know it was wrong 2 ask his friend about it 2. Do u think he will ever forgive me 4 this? Reply to this Question
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reader, loops  +, writes (28 May 2010):
I think your worrying way to much about what this guy thinks of you, it will come across as needy, which is possibly why he has backed off in the first place. Back off for a while and let things simmer down then if you really want to be around this bloke reapproach him in a few weeks when things have calmed down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): He sounds like a drama queen looking for any excuse to moan and looking for a way to get out of being friends with you. I'd say you're better off without him in your life.
You did make a couple of glaring miscalculations though, sending him that message and talking to his friend were not the best of ideas but hey, if he was really a friend then he'd talk to you, work it out and he'd stop acting like a baby.
Good riddance to him.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (28 May 2010):
 A_G_E. age, not ago.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (28 May 2010):
I'm looking at your indicated ago of 30-35 and I'm sitting here in stunned disbelief after reading your post. Are you sure you've indicated your age correctly? Frankly, I'm aghast that anyone in your age bracket could or would conduct themselves in such a regressed manner. These are grade school level exchanges! I think you should grow up and act like a mature woman in her 30s before you seek advice on relationships, honestly.
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reader, raiders +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Don't worry so much if he forgives you or not, move on with your life.
If he is angry than let him be and don't let him carry you with him, you be happy, worry free, and live your life. Misery loves company don't let him drag you down to his bitterness.
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