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*bii_Whitlock
writes:I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend wants me to be his girlfriend.He does some things that confuse me. I can't work out whether he likes me or is just being nice. So, im going to tell you guys them, and see what you think.At our prom/after party, we went to camp at the beach. He only lives about a minute away, so we where going to change in his house. My mum said:"Where are the girls going to change?" To which, he replied, under his breath:"Abii can change in my room." Im sure he was just joking but is it possible it means more?Also, he gave me a lift home once and when my mother thanked him, he replied."Any reason to get your daughter in the car."Also, when we're in college, he's only in one day of the week but when he is, we hang out in the same place.His friends normally sit opposite mine and when we're both their, i see him looking for me. Is it just because im a friend or more? And when we're alone, he acts so different to when theres people around. He acts the way i remember him and he gives me this shy smiles i don't see any other time. It's always been tense between us but he still asks me to hang out with him and his friends, whether out of obligation or because he wants me to, I don't know. Ever since we where little, it's always been difficult to look at him. As i tried to ignore how i felt. I'd notice him avoiding my eye aswell but i don't know if it was for the same reason. Only resantly, I've started talking to him and seeing him more. And after 9/10 years, i still shake when he's around me.Does it sound like he still has feelings for me? Or is it just because our mothers are friends?
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Hello again :)
If you like the one boy, then stick to him, life is too short for someone to decide that they want you straight off and if you have liked the original for a long time then you might as well stick to that :/ But maybe that's me being cynical!
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reader, Abii_Whitlock +, writes (9 June 2010):
Abii_Whitlock is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey, Thanks for answering :)
I have been spending allot
more time with him resantly. And it's helpped allot actually.
But things have become more complicated...
He's still showing some signs. Like we playfully flirt a little or he makes his friends sit in the back of his car so i can sit in the front.
But now, one of his friends wants us to get together.
He didn't seem that happy about it and i frequently
find him looking at me in a strange way but when i look at him, he looks away and runs his hand through his hair or somthing (It sounds really cliche!!) His friend is really nice. I don't want to hurt him. But he seems like someone I can get close to, so I don't want to throw that away for somthing that may never happen. Any Ideas on what to do?
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (9 June 2010):
Hey sweetie :)
It does sound like there is something there, however I'm not quite sure as to what extreme it is, see if you can hang around more often, as it's obvious that there may be a connection there but you both need to relax around each other. With summer coming up why not try beach parties and bbqs as a way to see how he feels. Don't pressure him into it though- if he's like most guys they'll run off even more shy than they were to start with and we can't have that!
Good luck :)
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