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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I am insanely in love with her but am terrified to say in case it ruins what we have as friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I've got this friend. I'm 21, and she's in her early 30's. We're quite close but not in a 'talk to her every day capacity'. But, I know I can trust her to go talk to her if I'm trying to deal with something. I met her about 5 years ago, and we i...

Did I do something wrong? HELP Please advise!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Well, I´ve being having a long distance friendship with this guy I met in person quite some time ago. It happens that I was the one emailing and he replying every time. There I was battling to know if he was just polite or what. Until he sai...

Are we just great friends with the passion gone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, although we only live together part time due to his work at the moment. I always knew he liked porn and we were very active in the bedroom initially, although this was short lived after the ...

Is she just being really flirty with no intent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I've known a girl for a few years but we've only started speaking to each other properly in the past few months. It started off with flirting on Facebook and then we swapped numbers. We get on really well and joke around with each other a lot...

Open relationship... what does this really mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I have become very good friends with a man I met on the internet. We have the same likes and dislikes. We talk every day on the phone and sometimes twice. We have seen each other twice. He is a long haul trucker. But we live only 30 minutes away. We ...

Issues with being with my best friend's ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - For the last few months, me and this girl have started getting really close and we've just come out and said that we like eachother and we've started getting yet even more closer. I'm so willing to take the next step but the only problem is.. She...

Scared about my first kiss!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I'm really freaking out. Tommorow I'm meeting this guy who i like and i think he's going to kiss me but I'm sooooo nervous and worried that when he leans in I'll turn my head away as i have a habit of really freaking out about these things! W...

I really need some help with the age gap!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - right I need help quick! I have just turned 18 and I started to talk to this girl on msn and on the phone she lives 10 minutes away from me and I started to really like her but I forgot to ask her age and I just asked her and found out..... s...

Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight after 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, ...

Is there more going on with my boyfriend and his female best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a best friend that is female. Which is fine with me, my best friend is male. Heres the thing.They dated about 8 years ago and now are best friends. When me and him first met(not knowing we would be together) he sad if there was ...

I am really small and people take the piss out of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am REALLY small. I am 16 and only 4ft10/11. People often take the piss and I mostly knock it on the head but sometimes it gets to me. I would like some cool quotes that I can say back to these people so I can put them in their place :). than...

Please help, I want him to think I'm the hottest!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year, share a best friend. He was friends with him at the same time as i was. We have no problem with us both being best friends. So...When my boyfriend goes round to Josh's, josh, will tell me a lot of what Kyle has said to ...

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on my current relationship. He is a great guy I think I am in love with him. I am not sure if it is for the right reasons. My husband committed suicide in front of me 1 year ago. I am sure sure if I will ever really get through ...

He likes me but he has had an on / off relationship with his ex who is also my friend! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - my best friend who is a guy says he has feelings for me. weve been friends for 8 months and we talk and txt all the time. we enjoy each other's company. when he said that he has feelings for me, i thort it would ruin our friendship because his ex is ...

I think she doesn't love him but is after his money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hiya today ive had my ex bf on the phone crying his eyes out basically the woman he left me for is treating him like crap,she says she doesnt trust him and that she loves him but not sure if its in a friendship way or a gf/bf way, i really feel for ...

How can I help and support my friend in an abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I think my friend is making the biggest mistake of her life. She has been seeing this guy she knew from work for just over a year now, and when they were together for 2 and a half months, she moved in with him in his MUMS house. We had a long ...

Without full penetration can she still get pregnant or STDs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - So yeah. My best friend just had sex for the first time. Her and her boyfriend have been dating(on and off) for just over 2 years. He's had sex plenty of times(they're polygamous and he's a whore) These 2 kids are both teenagers and 2 of my best ...

I'm afraid other people will believe what they are saying. What to do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, a group of girls in my college are making my life hell, i was going out with a guy who was in their "circle" and they cant stand me, i dont mean to be cocky but theyr not pretty or anything and i am a part time model and people say that they are ...

What is up with his touching other women yet not touching me in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 22 years. Recently, in the last two years, he has been being a little too friendly to women when we are out in public. He is not a touchy kind of guy and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are both 58. ...

Why would he sleep over if they didn't sleep together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hi this is based on my mate I'm really worried about her. She's recently been linked back to her old ex the father of her daughter I'll call marc they had been split for 10 months, anyway there not actually going out together but are seeing how they...

How do I show her it's friendly with body language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with 'Rick' and my friends, 'tish' and 'john' are in a relationship. things are a little rocky with me and Rick and i like John and he is always flirting with me and compliments me quite a lot. A different girl and I fell out...

How do I introduce her to him and get things rolling for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - Hello everyone! I have this female friend of mine who would really like to meet a guy, problem is she's a bit shy. Her and I have been friends for 6 years so I know her quite well, I feel I have a good idea on how to help her but I would like any...

I am a "Walking Disaster"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - In advance, thanks for anyone who replies to my question; it means a lot to me :). At the moment I am a "Walking Disaster" I broke up from my girlfriend a few months back and I'm still trying to get over it. To me, their was serious relationsh...

I don't want to leave my job but if it comes to it I'll have to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hey, i asked for advice about 12 days ago, concerning a meeting with my boss and how my work was affecting my health. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-work-is-damaging-my-health.html Intially I was really pleased about my meeting. He real...

Would he still want to go out with me after I played his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - The guy that I am in love with just found out that I am in love with him, he loves me too but I also used to chat with him using someone else`s identity not mine, he also told my friend that he has a feeling am the one he was chatting to. The ...

I've had boyfriends but have never been kissed properly and he thinks I have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I've been good friends with this guy for a while and recently he's asked me out and I said yes but there is a a small problem. I've had boyfriends but have never been kissed properly and he thinks I have. If I kissed him would he realise I'd not ...

What do I do to break her out of the shy shell and to convince her to go to the same college as me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and me are heading off to college next school year. She just told me that it's probably best for her to not be in the same college as her. My girlfriend is very shy. She says that when I talk to people, she feels like she belongs to ...

My girlfriend is constantly jealous of a girl I once had a crush on.

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28 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend keeps becoming jealous of a girl that I had a crush on. I previously had a crush on a girl for a span of about a year. My girlfriend used to be "best friends" with this girl that I had a crush on. My girlfriend and my ex-crush, plus ...

I slept with someone I consider my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Well what happened was me and some of my friends were hanging out and the plan was for the night that we all were supposed to get laid.... me and my friend and my brother and his friend... it was going to be my friend and brother (he's not really my ...

Betrayed, hurt, confused and angry too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Betrayed hurt confused and angry was my last question. It's been a couple of months since I asked that question. And I'm realising that as much as I want to forgive I'm still at stage 2 anger! And she's taking control! It's killing our relation...

My Blackout Ruined Everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I met the man of my dreams over a year ago and we became fast friends. We shared everything; our love of creating art, our personal politics, past relationship woes, our taste in music and... our love of alcohol. About a year after meeting, w...

My guy friend tongue kissed me...do you think he 'really' likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - well, my guy friend tongue kissed and cuddled one night. now, he said he was sorry for kissing me and that he was sleepy. he also said that he did not want to give me the wrong impression. when we kissed it did not feel like he did it on an ...

Why do some girls go out with losers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I found out yesterday that this girl I'm in love with likes this total loser, no one really likes him. This happened before too when my ex had history with a loser and got back together with him. I'm a cool guy, I have lots of friends, and I h...

Frustrated at my akwardness and confused about what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - This weekend I went away on vacation and randomly met up with a friend of 2 years for drinks at night. We always considered each other just friends and never thought of it as more, until this trip. Somehow, we both got drunk and confessed that we ...