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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why do I get hooked on guys so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I get hooked on guys so fast. Theres this guy i see on the bus now and then on the way to college. i think hes really good looking, we normally kind of look at each other. He just randomly added me on myspace. I sent him a comment like thankyou fo...

How do you know when a man is telling the truth or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - How do you know when a man is telling the truth or not? This guy I saw for a bit a few months ago spoke to me on msn last night and was saying that he was looking for another job and I said are you looking abroad and he said he might. I just said ...

What does it mean when a girl starts calling you "honey?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been getting close to this girl, but I wouldn't call it a relationship just yet. She was sick a few weeks ago, and I was nice and offered her water and to carry her stuff. She was very happy and thanked me. Since then, she has start...

Should I have 2 sleepovers instead of one? Suggestions please...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - My 16th is coming up in a 2 months and i am just having a sleepover with about 12 people and a chinese which im looking forward too as i cannot do something mega big due to finances. However, i have two completly different groups of friends and w...

My friend is jealous of my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I have a really good friend and I can trust her with anything. but i now have this new boyfriend and she keeps getting jealous of the time i am spending with him. I am always with her and try to tell her that i need to spend time with my boyfriend ...

Relationship troubles is he a dick and is he worth it? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt(i know its long please help me! im so upset) Latley, i've been experiencing alot of problems with my ex-boyfriend he used to be quite mean to me but then things got better and latley he dumped me i'll start from the top to say h...

Is he really staring at me all the time or is he just daydreaming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Erm you know how people say when guys stare at you it means they like you? Well how can you tell if he;s actually looking at you or just generally staring in that direction because he;s daydreaming? How can you tell if he;s actually looking AT you? ...

I'm confused between them both and don't know what to do, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - hey this is something i really need help on so please answer asap as my bm (best mate) who i always turn to for advice i cant get hold o :( well the thing is me and my ex b/f broke up nearly 1 month ago and then i got with some 1 new, i still ha...

My two friends are putting me in a fix!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Well im 14 and There is this guy (15 years old) who ive liked for a few years and i still really like him.. We stoped talking last year when he found out i liked him then things were sorted out in May between us but we didn't start talking until ...

I feel lonely, I am shy and always concerned about my looks! How can I surpass my shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - My life is all messed up... My best friends are on other schools, I like a girl who I currently I just can talk with by phone, and I never feel happy... I hate to be lonely, but when I'm with friends I'm always smiling even tough I don't say many ...

I feel used by three boys all wanting sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity last year and ive slept with 2 more guys since that, i know it sounds bad being 15 and slept with 3 boys. But its messed me up compleatly, the 1st boy i still talk to and im in lessons with him and everything, but he doesnt know ...

I am married and in love with my best (female) friend! It's a mess!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Ok I am a mess! I am 26 and married, I love my husband with all my heart and can't see myself without him. I also am inlove with my best friend (famale), we have been best friends for 12 years. I am not attracted to girls, I am straight. It's not so ...

I'm really confused about this boy's behaviour, he teases me a lot... any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - okay.. i am 14 years old and i have just left my highschool and now im in year 10 at a college. i've been in year 10 for only 5 weeks and recently i've been really confused over this boy in my tutor he didnt go to my old school. We had indu...

I'm so confused about my feelings towards this guy... and does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (?) - I am really really confused.. I dunno if I like this guy from my college.. I mean I liked him... although I didn't know him too well.. later because I realised.. he had no feelings for me.. I tried to forget him... but since I see him every day in ...

Does my friend like me like I like him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - hello im 19 and its been a few months since iv been meeting up with my old best mate from high school weve always been gud mates and weve told each other a lot of secrects, but recently iv been starting to have feelings for him. Iv felt this way ...

My friends have been stolen.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - recently i started high school, and i am in the same form as them (theres 2 of them), but theve found a new friend and i can tell she hates me by the way she looks at me and behind her back they dont link arms with me any more and there totally ...

So should I stay friends with her or should I go with the plan of never seeing here again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - I have a problem with a girl. Me and this girl have known each other for around a year now and we enjoy talking to each other and spending time with each other. Now the problem lies in how we think of each other. I did ask her out but got a no ...

I'm nearly 16 and look about 12 years old because I have chrons disease.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I'm nearly 16 and look about 12 years old because I have chrons disease. I find it hard to be confident about myself. I am dreading going to college, having my prom etc because of the way I look. It's not only my face but my body as well so I can't ...

I don't want to get in the way if they are having a relationship but I don't want to get more attached and end up hurting more later.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Jermain (brother) 21 Natasha (friend)18 Selena (brother's Girlfriend)21 I met a friend of my older brother about 6 months ago since then I have been in love with her and I can't get her out of my head, it drives me crazy. My older brother has...

Girl fear! How do I make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - hey folks, I am 17 young and live in Sweden. I am originally from Iraq, had been here for 9 months and I have my first love during this while but won't make u bored by the story just my problem is this. Before I met this girl I had a problem ...

I like him but can't date him because I was abused in the past. What can I do when I so badly want to be with him and just can't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone So among the guys im a pretty hot girl that they all like and also everyones best friend. When i was a little girl i was abused by a friend of the family and i cant seem to understand it but it has afected my ability to have a rel...

We're best friends, but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Okay I know this is gonna sound so bad but okay. I dated this guy about 5 years ago, and 4 years ago.. and we had a thing about 3 years ago (before my bf). I have a boyfriend who i've been with for 2 years and 7 months. Me and my boyfriend ha...

What are his intentions...is he desperate or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - I hooked up with this guy a month ago. He said after the incident took place that he had a good time, but that he wasn't looking for anything more than that. Since then, every couple of days he has been texting me or emailing me asking me about what ...

My boyfriend's sister acts like she suddenly hates me, should I talk to her or leave her brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and his sister and i where close i know her secerts and all. i use 2 take her to uni but once our classes did match she stop talking to me she hates me for her birthday i brought her a present and she didn...

Is it wrong to love your mother's girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - i am so deeply in love with my mom girlfriend and i know that sounds a little crazy but i never thought that it could happen..i have always been attracted to both man and woman but woman more so and i when i met her it was something that i just ...

Should I ingore her or just be her friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Ok everyone I'm SO confused and need major help and advice THANKS! I met this girl at my bowling alley (we bowl in the same league and have been for years). I told her how I felt about her, and she liked me too. she was dating this kid and they bro...

Is he..straight, bisexual or gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - My best friend and I live together. We love each other very much, to the point that we function as each other's significant other. Many of our friends (and enemies) think of us as a couple. This has only been going on for 6 months. We are also in a ...

I want to 'come out' but how do I tell my best friend without losing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

4 October 2008 (M) - Im 18 years old, and i have known i was gay for a while now. I have yet to tell anyone about my sexuality and im worried that alot of my friends and family may not be ok with it. Particulary, the person i consider my best friend, i already think he ...

In love with my friend but he has a gf and I have a bf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Hey! well.. i have the next problem, i think im in love with my best friend!! but... heres come the problem... he have girlfriend and i have my boyfriend!! but.. i dont know what to do, he´s so cute! but also i love my boyfriend, but the time i ...

I cant tell whether hes just naturally flirty or is he even interested in me at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - i met a guy about 3 months and that night we began texting each other and talking on msn. we got on really well but the next week i went on holiday but not before we arranged to go to a gig together. throughout the holiday he emailed me and when i ...