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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before. I believe he is my soulmate but doesn't want to get involved with me as I am so young but he claims he still likes me Please help :(...

Do you think the reason I don't have a boyfriend is because of my weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I feel RANK! I'm 5.7" and nearly 12 stone... I don't go round saying "eugh I'm so fat.. look at how fat I am" to everyone but I have told a couple of close friends how I feel about my looks and they say I'm not fat, but I think they're only saying i...

My friend is putting doubts in my head...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well my boyfriend and I dont go to the same school, so I only see him 2-3 days a week (usually friday, saturday and sunday) During the school week (mon-thur) it seems like we're so busy that we barely talk (we talk about 1-2 days between mon-thurs) ...

Should I move or should I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Should I stay or move? I moved to Bolton to look after a family member, my aunt took very ill and i couldnt look after her anymore so she is in a care home. I found myself a job and a partner of 3 years, we bought a house last year and got eng...

I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...

I'm getting mixed signals from a coworker.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm getting mixed signals from a coworker. He's my age and all summer we were just friendly. Two weekends ago he got really flirty with me and it was so comfertble I went along with it. He touched me softly and made a few jokes. He mentioned hanging ...

Love of my life or just fatal attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I been with my guy for some years now (more than 3) and the realtionship is ok and all.. I love him to death and he loves me too but this new guy that attends my school is a sweet heart respectful and is so interesting to me. for some reason i feel ...

My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him? He used to go out with a girl. But he finished with her. He still likes her but doesn't want a relationship and he gets jealous when she is with other lads. He kissed her earlier on and i...

I've found his profile on facebook, would it seem wrong to ask him to be my 'friend' or 'poke' him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Theres this guy, (a rep from a company) that came into my workplace who I thought was good looking we had a bit of a chat and a laugh he then left. He returned a few days later to speak to my male boss, who at last minute wanted me in on the ...

I don't want to complicate our friendship, do I tell him I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm in love with my best friend, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. I'm certain nothing will come from telling him, since he's told me himself, he's not interested in a relationship. So I'm not sure if it would be a good idea ...

What can I do to help keep these friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - This year I am starting to make these really cool friends but every time I want to be with them it seems like I did something for them to get pissed at me, or like might be a bother. I'm not sure if they're just in a bad mood or something else..... ...

What should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I had been married to Hindu girl. Before marriage, she got herself converted to Muslim and accepted Islam as per me and my guardian’s wishes. We got married on Jan ’08 and started staying ourselves ( only me and her ). She got pregnant within t...

It ended over bad communication... there's tension, do I say hello?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got a...

Should I tell my best friend that I had sex with her, at then, boyfriend in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Basically two years ago in uni i met a guy i really liked, which subsequently was a factor that made me decide to split with my then boyfriend realising i was looking for someone new. However soon after a close friend started seeing this guy, in a ...

Is it okay to ask a girl's number if you just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I met this girl at a party and she was really fun. I asked for her number cause I really wanted to hang out with her again. But now I'm wondering if I did the right thing cause I'm not interested in her sexually, I just want to be her friend. Is it ...

Should I just try and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hello, i'm new to this but i just don't know what to do about my problem? Me and this boy have been basically on and off for about 3 years. I like him so much we were going out but we agreed to stop going out because we both thought we were better ...

BigSis and Bitchology

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - {Please read to the end} When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch, and when I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way...they call me a bitch. ...

How can I regain my confidence and get out there to meet people again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 22 year-old guy who previously enjoyed going out and found the ability to have sexual relationships a relatively easy one. Unfortunately, I hit a bad patch regarding that matter about two years ago, one that I have not been able to recover ...

The only place I feel I fit in is at home with my mam and dad. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well this is a bit stupid to be honest. I just don’t feel I fit anywhere, I think, would people notice if I wasn’t here? (I’m not suicidal or anything like that). I do get involved with friends but I always feel like I’m the odd one out. I’m quiet ...

After 12 weeks, would you say we were a couple or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi aunts just a quick question. I met a guy off a dating site around 12 weeks ago. He is amazing. Cute, funny, kind etc. If we dont catch up he calls me every day, we go out to dinner all the time and have met each others friends. I'm just about to ...

My best friend's involved with the married women, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - My best friend involved emotionaly with the married women, who is working in his own office. they were having a gud relationship from last 4 years and he was protecting her from every bad thing just like her husband do. from last eight months they...

I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...

He seemed surprised I'd called him, should I take this reaction as a rejection or see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have a male friend with whom I haven't see for about a year and a half, since he moved to a different state. We have kept in touch by emails. I decided to call him to finally make a different contact. He was very surprised and almost speechles...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to forbid his girlfriend to make new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - tottaly dig this girl but she chose to remain in her current relationship. All is fine , I found peace with her decision as i do have a crush. Tho , I would like to know her and hang around as friends, not that strange feeling right ? I don't de...

Are guys ever nice to girls they arent attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy who I sit next to in class and he is super sweet to me. We dont really know each other that well but we do talk a lot, he always asks me what i did/what im going to do. Today, he offered to give me a ride to my house. I know he is ...