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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I actually believe I am in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Update. I actually believe I am in love. I am not going out with this guy, but he means the world to me. He has a gf so I haven't told anyone my feelings incase it caused trouble which isn't fair on his gf. But I just don't stop thinking about h...

I want him to have the freedom he needs but also for us to spend quality time together too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and 4 days ago he split up with me. The main reason for this is because of a problem that has plagued our relationship for a long time. He works away from home Monday to Friday. This means our ...

I need help, I am obsessed. I want relief please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi, there. I love a girl so badly. I am obsessed. I cant think anyone else. I guess that I am so weird. She doesn't even love me but I am the one waiting for her for long. She acts wid me so normally,but i believe i can wait for her my whole life.i ...

Was I being overly possessive in defining boundaries with his ex this early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy that works at the same company as me only in a different division (but in the same town). We actually met through an online dating site (one of the sites where THEY match you based on your values, etc, and you can’t search for matches on ...

Should I tell him how I feel, based on this information?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy I work with, we flirt alto, and he calls me every night to see how I am and stuff, we've been one date, and it was great and were planning on a 2nd date this weekend. He says he wants me to come shopping with him then he's going ...

Why do I regret NOT sleeping with this guy after knowing him and his friends for 10 seconds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Well I know this might seem daft but I went out on Sunday with a friend, call her *T* and we went out as we do, met up with some other people, walked into town, hung out for a bit and stuff, had a good night, and then we walked back up to T's and I ...

If he was interested in a relationship, he would have told me, right? Or do I have to pursue him a little more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I hooked up one night. I asked him later if it was just a one night thing or if we were going to be casual, or if it was something else. I told him I liked him a lot, and either option answer would be fine with me, but that I would ...

John now thinks we should start a relationship, but I'm feeling incredibly guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - A year ago a guy who used to date my friend (let's call him Joe) suddenly announced that he liked me while we were both drunk at a party. We ended up kissing, but the next day I regretted it and thought that it must have just been a strategy to get ...

I feel he is having second thoughts about a relationship as he has become most distant and angry over nothing apparent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have recently split with my partner of one year. I am quite upset by this yes, however his best friend told me that he would be interested in starting a relationship with me. Having had strong feelings for him in the past I said I would be most ...

I saw my ex's girlfriend naked on some other guy's mobile phone! Do I tell my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'm a 25 year old woman and am totally stumped on this one so please give your opinion, my ex boyfriend who I really care about and still love has moved on with his life and got himself a new girlfriend, I'm okay with that to a degree but I won't ...

This boy and I kissed and my friend spread the gossip so he is now upset with me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - hi, meand this guy at my school kissed but he is 3 years older then me. i told my friend and she told every one and now all his friends are making fun of him and he tinks that i told them, i have tried to tell his it wasnt me but hes just not taking ...

We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral ...

My online friend has become arrogant and disrespectful since he found a girlfriend. Should I get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - dear agony aunt...im a 17 year old girl. i have an online friend since the last one and a half year. we used to very attached to each other. and were the closest friends. but since the last couple of months since he has started dating this other ...

Was she flirting with me? She will be my new room mate soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - ok so it turns out we are getting a new roomate and I finally gotto meet her at a party we had. I fall In love with this girl the moment I see her cause she reminds me of this girl back in high school I had a major crush on. Well it turns out that ...

I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I ha...

Should I emigrate with him? He has shown his cruel and cold side to me, but I want this to work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Following good advice before i have recently spent some time with my boyfriend who emigrated away from me and life in the UK 18 months ago to be in Melbourne, Oz. During my stay I tried to live as if I was living there - not doing tourist things etc ...

My manager makes me feel uncomfortable while watching me. Is he jealous because I now have a boyfriend?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I work in an entertainment based job. i see my coworkers every couple of months depending on which show we are working on. At one point we got together and my lead stage manager sort of ran the show, which came out to be a huge success, ...

I just found out I have a teenaged son I knew nothing about - how do I tell my wife and our children, and how do I talk to this other child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Alright im going to try to make this short as possible. Ok, when I was in my early 20s I had a friend that I was really close to. He had a sister that was I'm guessing 6 years younger than him (I can't rember). So she had a thing for me, but of c...

I don't want to be seen as her best friend anymore - I want more, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - There's this girl I've really liked for 2 years right? She considers me one of her best friends. She's so open with me, she tells me EVERYTHING, (bra size, what she does, fantasies, everything). I could do anything and she wouldn't care. But she ...