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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm getting mixed vibes from him but I like him a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hoping people can help me here. I like a guy a lot and am getting mixed vibes from him... not sure whether he likes me or not but seems like he does. Today I got a long email from his buddy pretty much asking me to contact him. Is this guy trying to ...

I will never like my bisexual friend as anything other than that... a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem... I have a male bisexual friend.... I am a straight female. He wants to have sex with me but I'm not interested because he is bisexual. He keeps asking me to come over his house but I keep telling him no but he is my best friend ...

What's your definition of love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Can someone please define love for me? Because I have this strong feeling for someone and I don't know if it's love or just infatuated love *-) xxx...

He asked my friend that I contact him which I did but he hasn't replied, now I feel stupid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy recently through one of my friends. We seemed to get on well and after that he asked my friend to get me to contact him. I decided to so I emailed him but he hasn't replied back to me. Now I feel stupid for getting in touch and also ...

How do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for several years?

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7 October 2008 (M) - how do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for 3 years now?...

I'm so confused. Is my flatmate flirting with me? I want to know where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Im curious for other peoples opinions on where I stand with my relationship wth my flatmate. Now before anyone goes off on a "you should never date your flatemate" thing - that's not what I'm asking. Im simply asking for opinions as I'm not 100% ...

What did he mean by this comment? He would if he could?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hello guys, quick question. There is this guy I liked but he has a gf. But we were talking about me and how guys don't really see me as thgf type. He text me back once saying "all I can say is I would if I could". I just said to him I do...

If my ex said he wanted to be my best friend, why doesn't he talk to me at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

7 October 2008 (?) - My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to best friends....i broke up with him almost 2 months ago, and he wont talk to me. I asked if he was mad at me, and he said no. But if he says he wanted to be my best friend, why do you think he doesnt talk to me? Its ...

I am gay and frightened to come out... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I am 17 and gay. I have been since I was 15, I have a boyfriend, I have slept with him but no-one knows about us yet. I want to come out but I am frightened to death about what my friends and family will think. Also I haven't a clue how to come ...

Do I play the waiting game for my mum's married friend who is the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I'm seeing my mum's friend and my mum and dad are totally cool with it, this woman is 35, seperating from her husband, has 2 kids 12 and 5 and has told me she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me, I am 18 and I can see myself ...

Please help this stupid shy girl...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - The problem is that I'm very shy around the guys I like. I am too shy to start a conversation and sth like that. At the moment there's a guy I see quite often, he sometimes works in a nightclub I often go to. So was the last week. I went with my ...

How can I improve our weird relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hay everybody, I need advice because I really don't know what to think anymore. There's a guy in my class (let's call him Mark) who acts really weird. I'm not sure if he hates me or he likes me. We're both 18 years old. I like him because he's...

Should I ask my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Me and my best friend have been really close, she makes me smile and help her when she's down. My little sister recently started to get to know her and they've become fast friends. But she started telling me that me and best friend seem like we ...

Are we just friends with benefits or are we more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Maybe someone can give me advise. I have a friend with benefits and I feel like I am in love with him. He has told me that he loves me too but that we are friends not bf/gf. Since the day we met we spend alsmost everyday together. He wants me to co...

Am I expecting too much from people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some thoughts about this, I have been with my boyfriend 9 months, he has introduced me to his friends, I cannot say that his friends are bad people but they are people that I wouldn't choose to be friends with me because they dont have ...

How should I handle this woman who is a danger to our household?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I have a situation that I need advice handling. I'll try to summarize as best I can for sake of shortness. My wife has a friend. This friend of hers is a long term friend so they are somewhat attached to each other. Her friend has a long history of ...

I'm under 21 and can't go out for a drink with him and his friends! Shoutd I be hurt or embarrassed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 39 and I am 19. Despite the age difference, we have a good relationship. We have been together almost a year. The only age related problem we have is that he doesn't want me to meet his friends because they may ask us to go "grab ...

Was I drugged and raped?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - my friend is the same age as me and we have been close friends for about four or five years. he recently developed a problem with cocaine. i wanted to offer him my support and friendship and help him get off the drugs, so after he agreed that he ...

I think this girl is amazing and a personality to die for and I want to be with her but what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hi I have known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like this girl and I eventually asked her out. We saw each other all Saturday and Sunday and we were brilliant together. But on Sunday night I got a call ...

Should I tell him and risk our friendship, or let him find out from someone else, which would perhaps lead to an awkward confrontation between him and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - There's this guy at college, who I've become close to! At first I hardly spoke to him but now we never shut up and really get along - as friends!! But the thing is, I don't see him just as a friend. From the moment I saw him, I instantly had a crush ...

Can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Ladies, (or gents) can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl? I have been spending some time lately with a girl I like a lot. We have a lot in common and want a lot of the same things in life (home in ...

I'm obsessed by this girl... what to do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Long story. It began in early 2005, I had recently moved and joined a new school in the 11th form. I used to take the bus to school, and well, there was this girl who was on the same bus... and during every ride we took on the bus, every day, over ...

I love her but now she has moved away! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - hi, i have a friend who i have known since 5 years. i love her to the bottom of my heart. she know i love her. i should not say this but i have always helped her going out of my way. now she's taken me for granted. she' shifted to another country....

She seems so distant with me now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hi. It has been 6 months since I worked and move to a different country. The first month I got here, the distance makes her miss me more and more. I feel great and for a moment, I think long distance relationship isn't bad at all. To save phone bi...

Do I just block her out of my life completly or should I do something to try and get a relationship to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hi im 18 I think I'm love with a girl but I can't be with her. I met this girl 2 years ago and we went out for 3 months. But she lives over 5 hours away by car. We tried a relationship but it didn't work and we broke up. I thought it was just a c...

Crush in the workplace...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I work at a hospital as a RN. There is a physician that I find so attractive. He is always touching and rubbing my arms, shoulders, hair, and hands. He is around 59 years old and I am only 30. I can't stop thinking about him. I heard he flirts ...

My husband's friends are "coming on to me" and it's making me uncomfortable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm not sure where to begin with this without making it a long drawn out story, so I'll do my best to make it short and sweet. My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now and during that time we have aquired mutual friends. I'm not ...

I'm bisexual and my "friend" is coming to spend the night.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and I'm bi. I haven't really done a lot with girls but this Friday my good friend is coming to spend the night her and we are planning on doing stuff with each other. I'm kinda nervous. Does anyone have advice on what it will be like? and if ...