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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should I cut my mother out of my life for ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have a really hard life, including kids problems, health problems and all other aspects. Seemingly unrelated and I blamed it on bad fortune. As there is things I have done wrong, but nothing to deserve this outcome.... I cant get into details,...

Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to ...

Sensitive subject and at a loss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she ...

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not ...

I want my children to finish College/ University and I want them to have a good upbringing too but how can I have these both without risking my work and children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am married with 3 children, ages 15, 10 and 5. Since 2007, I left my children and work abroad since my husband couldn't help me financially, I would rather say, he is very irresponsible and wouldn't like to work. He take...

Should I hook up with my cousin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and ...

Wife was mad at her father, then he died, now she is mad at me

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30 July 2010 (M) - My wife's father died 2 months ago. She didn't really get along too well with him and in fact was mad at him about something at the time, although she did take care of him toward the end. She used to like me well enough but now she seems mad all the ...

Love or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for 7 months but he never cared about me and would dog me and he's moved on but the thing is his cousin and me wanna be together do you think thats wrong???????????? to be with his cousin......

Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads alwa...

How can I make myself so mom won't be nasty to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - my mum is always nasty to me and just picks on me for nothing. she has just come home and i am sat on my laptop and just asked her how was work? and she said as if you care! now get upstairs! i dont understand why she is like this. i do well at ...

The Psycho In-Laws

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and his parents still hate me. :( I'm 15 and so is he.. and we are both virgins. We want to have sex, but there isnt a time and place for it. We never get to spend time together outside of ...

I don't feel valued by my family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Is it any wonder that im angry with my family? ok heres my problem. i have a host of 'supposed problems' - including ADHD. well i have two sisters Maira and Sarah, both of them fight like cat and dog and mum often favors Sarah. Sarahs ha...

How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...

My mother is eating herself to death!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My mother has extremely unhealthy eating habits, and I'm very concerned about her health. She refuses to see a doctor, even for a normal check-up, and hasn't seen one for over ten years. She keeps saying she'll go once she loses some weight, which ...

What things can I do to make this awkward moment more relaxing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - i just met this super cute guy and his dad would like me to come over to his house. what do i say to him? what do i do when we're alone together? ...

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me...

Pregnant and hurting over his selfishness, how can I make him appreciate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. And my question really is when someone is so selfish how do you make them realise how they should be because I really don't understand and really can't think what I have done to be ...

I got a call from a woman who said my partner of 8 years was her fiancee! He said she was just playing a joke!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend? a few months ago he went to ...

I'm having trouble coping with my sons' drug addictions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - How can I be happy, when 2 of my son is a drug addict,and can die any time? I'm going for counseling , and they are keep saying, that is not my fault, and I should be living my own life, because it is his problem not mine.. I know , we gave ...

I'm aroused by my older sister's underwear

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - ok so i am 13. i have a sister that is 20 and she has big tits. And when she is not home I go in her room and go through her bra and thongs. one time i got one of her bras a 36 D and rubbed it against my dick and i kept doing it alll of a sudden i ...

Is it normal for my mom to be jealous of my mother in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi all I'm wondering if anyone else experiences extreme jealousy from their mother's when it comes to the mother-in-law? Is it completely normal for your mother to get really upset at any inclination of you forming any type of bond with her? ...

Is it wrong to like my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - is it wrong to like my cousin? we are related by mariage...not by blood and i like him a lot. i can tell he has some kind of interest in me and i want us to have a relationship but at the same time i dont want ppl to judge i mean its not like we ...

She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...

Why won't she let me support her through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and myself have been together for 6 months now and we are very happy together. Now Monday we were on a date and she got a call that her mom was arrested, and things between us haven't been the same... normally we text through out the ...

I get put on the back burner when he has his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He has a 4-year-old daughter from a previous marriage and I a 3-year-old-son. Chemistry was great between us and the both kids. We decided to move into together fairly quick and have been living ...

I want to live with him, but I feel so negative, am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I have a problem, my partner of 6 months has a daughter from previous relationship, the child is nearly 3,he has his little one 2 nights a week, we have kept this completly seprate from our relationship, he has now asked me to move in with him, also ...

What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married? I'm not looking for the obvious things here...Wondering what other engaged/married couples come to discover is important to know be...

How can I get him to see how nasty he is when depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mod note: OP'S own title: My partner gets very down and can be very nasty about simple things. I mentioned that I would like to take my son, 12, camping for a couple of nights. He started telling us off and saying how ridiculous this was and how ...

Suddenly my height is a problem for my boyfriend, why is he letting his family affect our relationship like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i'm 26 and my boyfriend is 27, we have a beautiful babby together the problem is his family. they think i'm older than him be'cos i'm taller and a bit fat. now i can see that it affecing him because now he always say how tall i am? something that ...

I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...

I cant get involved with my family problems but my mum's life is in danger, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I need some help now because I finally have a dead end, see i'm far away from the rest of my family, the problem is this ~ i am a momma's boy, which means i always look out for my momma, anyways, i have seen this one problem, my parents have bro...

My boyfriend's mum hates me and she hasn't even met me yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriends mum hates me! i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18. his mum just hates me and i havent even met her yet! i have been going out with him for 2 months and he lives 2 hours away from me. i havent met his mum or dad yet and when he is talkin or ...

Who do I choose, my boyfriend or my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we been together nearly 6 months. i was talking to my cousin who is 28 on a social networking site and my boyfriend wears glasses and my cousin basically said something really nasty to me about my boyfriend wearing ...

My partner left me after I asked for him to show me more affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I am posting this topic to receive as much advice as I can. I have been involved with a man for 6 months now, he was an ex cop but left the force in order to take care of his child full time and I had taken on the immediate role of an unofficial ...

My girlfriend's parents wont let me see her!

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28 July 2010 (M) - About a year and a month ago i started dating my girlfriend. From that day i knew she had protective parents, but not as bad as they are now. We had a pretty normal relationship until winter came, then between my reap hockey and her competitive ...

Do I have the right to make my son have my last name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I am 18 yrs old feel in love with my son's mom, we were together for 4 years. we ended up breaking up and months later I found out she was pregnant, but she claimed it was not mine. I told her it was mine the whole time but she denied it until the ...

I really dislke Moms boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hello. I'm a teenage male and I strongly dislike my mother's boyfriend. I just really, really, dislike him. For starters, he's always around and I mean always. He's currently without a job and my mother is always helping him fill out one job appl...

He is being friendly because he see's I'm sad, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - i have been going through some things with family and even personaly..so at work i haven't been the happiest..if someone approaches me or talks to me i have no attitude; i think i am pretty sweet and kind. I don't take my problems out on anyone. I ...

Am I Fighting a Loosing Battle??? PLEASE READ!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Ok so...Me and my now ex-boyfriend had been dating for a little over a year. He is 22 and i am 20. He is white and i am black(this alone has caused some strain with my family but not enough to break us) We broke up because I t...

My son doesn't want me dating his uncle, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - need help on what to do regarding moving on with my life, im 35 and have 5 kids my husband commited suicide about a year ago and i'm confused about what to do with a relationship. i started getting close to my husbands brother after my husband ...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...

My Brother is Lazy & Selfish, & Abusing Me on Facebook!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Please Help! I know its long but i'm desperate...I dont know what to do about my brother. I am a full time University student working full time for the summer even though I am considered as being a student with a permanent disability(due...

My Sister Bullies Me, But I've Been Forced to Invite Her to My Wedding

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - hey i need some advice. my problem is i hate my sister and my mum made me send my sister an invite to my wedding. i dont want her there! shes always been so jealous of me, to the point she used to physically, mentally and emotionally abuse me. ...

How do we tell the family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - i have been seeing my cousin and we are in love. how do we tell the family?...

I don't want to regret having his baby when he can't support us now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi i just turned 28. i have two children that i love dearly an i been with the father of my kids for seven years. im the only one workin an has been for the last two years. my boy frend is a great father to his childrn, witch he has three, my 2 and ...

What do I do about the towel/tampons?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops ...

I don't know what to do about staying with the cousin that I barely know...we were both abused by his late father...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok guys heres my problem . earlia on in the year i was sexually abused by my uncle . this led to months of depression and even a spell in hospital - as i couldnt deal with the aftermath of what he had done . well it turns out there have been ...

How do I deal with my crazy neighbor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - why is he (my neighbour) a complete psycho ok guys heres my story . i have a nasty neighbour who shouts abuse and like intimidates , bad mouths me and my family . it all began before i was born . basically he was rascist towards are ind...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandp...

Brother's illness really depressing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - The reason i'm writing on 'Dear cupid' is because i feel like i need to talk things through with people who don't necessarily know me because all i do is cry when i talk about it with friends. So here goes... Last month my brother Jake was diagnos...