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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and ...

I really want to get on with my boyfriend's family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have a problem.. My boyfriend is a different nationality to me and his mum and dad speak a different language to me and know limited english. I've met them a lot of times but have barely said anything more than 'hi'. I don't know what to...

My wife refuses to go to marriage counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - My wife said she won’t go to marriage counselling with me: she’s convinced that we have solved all our problems (even though I tell her that I don't believe this is true), and she doesn’t want to talk to a stranger. I’m still going to make an ...

How do I deal with my girlfriend's interfering family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Im a 33 year old man with a 14 year old son. im gonna get straight to the point. I was single for about a year then I met a beautiful 25 y.o. woman whom now im deeply in love with and she loves me too. now the problem. her parents have such a hold ...

How do I regain my parent's trust? They found a hickie on my boob.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My parents recently found out about the hickie on boob from going through my text messages. My mom already had a talk with me which didn't go so well but now its time to have a talk with my dad. I dont know what to tell him and they have already ...

I feel so left out! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - ok what do i do im at my wits end. heavily pregnant, still a teenager, my brother goes to the football with mum every weekend and leaves me at home, dads not in the scene, my boyfriend is being difficult at the moment not even sure what im going to...

Do I listen to my aunt or do I follow my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok on vacation i met a close friends brother that is now staying with her at first glance i liked him alot.then days went by ididnt see him well one day we had a bbq and he was there well all my cuzins their gfs a friend his sister him and i decided ...

I'm having trouble managing my income with 4 kids! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have 4 kids and no help!!! I was praying one day that the father of my two little ones would just leave me alone, he has had a drug problem for the entire 7 years and has ruined my life we have been together, finally I came home one day and he w...

Sister and husband moved in with family and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My problem is family related, my sister recently moved back home with her 4 kids and her unemployed lazy husband , i still stay here at home with my parents , she's been back for about 2 months now, i guess i'm thinking of moving as soon as i get a ...

How do I get my daughter to respect herself more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - How can help my daughter,to respect herself more? I see, she would do anything for getting a friend, including flattering and favors. I see she has some really nasty ''mean girls'' friend, who would never approve her,and she is endlessly running ...

How can I have a better relationship with my dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hey, well this is gonna sound pretty stupid... its about my Dad. Basically when I was about 10 my parents split up. At the time I wasnt really bothered, I dont know why really, because I'm sure I loved him... anyway at that point he was quite ...

I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion. At first we got on well, I'd heard of her before, she is one year below me and is known for having a bit of a bad reputation. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and last month af...

How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let ...

My teenage son enjoys child pornography. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Well, this is embarrasing too say as a mother for starts. But I will anyways.. It all started with me finding my son who is 14 years old, with my finding porn on his computer, in his drawers. Stuff like that.. sounds normal so far, right? B...

15, 7 months pregnant and afraid mom is stressing out my baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im 15 and 7 months pregnant.me and my boyfrind are so happy together,and he always helps me out when ever he can. but something has poped up that he cant help me with.my mom.i know she loves me but what she is doing isnt right.see me and her argue ...

Controlling psycho mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Seeking advice on my controling mother. I am 26yr old college graduate with a full time job and my mother still feels the need to run my life. All be the fact she and my step father helped pay for college and other financials during my growing up my ...

My life feels so empty, will I ever find happiness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello and thanks for reading :) You see, basically i feel very, very alone and unimportant and empty...and i am only 20 years old.You may think that at my age there's nothing really worthy to worry about, but i get depressed quickly. I feel ...

How can I get over this fear of living as a single mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ever since my ex husband walked out of our then apartment, I have been unable to live on my own with my child. Instead I pay rent for an apartment I don't live. I stay with my mother. I don't understand myself. I wish I could live my beautiful newly ...

My mom learned about problems with my b/f; I want my family to just let me make my own decisons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My mom is usually laid back, she doesn't let me get away with everything, but a fair amount of things, she would never tell me who i could and could not be friends or, or who i could or could not date.. until my boyfriend came along, i made a ...

I feel utterly alone and worthless and I don't know how to make it go away. Can someone tell me what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I think I have a big problem. All I feel is loneliness. My father and mother have been split since before I was born. My dad has this girlfriend who treats him like crap and talks about me and my sister all the time. He always tells us what she says ...

I'm chinese and my bf is indian, parents would disown me if I married him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am Chinese and I've been dating my secret indian bf of nearly 2 years . I told my parents about two years ago (I'm 21 now) that I was in love with him and my dad threatened to disown me. So I said I would think about and deal with it myself and ...

Follow up to my sister who left her husband for a guy with a gf

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29 June 2009 (F) - hi i am writing to you again about the whole sitiuation of me and my sisters husband my sister has already moved on and is seeing someone who has a girlfriend!she does not speak with her ex husband and we would keep it secret is it still very wrong ...

My sisters act like my mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My sister is eighteen, and I am fifteen. When I got into my teenage years, my sister kind of took on the role of being my mother. Nobody asked her do so, as I do have a mother who is ALIVE and who I live with. My sister constantly lectures me a...

Is this betrayal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My sister and husband are separated, I think I've fallen for him and in the past he has told me he feels the same is this wrong? Is it betrayal?...

I can't believe the dream I had!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hi, this is about a disturbing sexual dream, I wonder if it happened to anybody, I still can't even believe it. So I dreamed I had the wildest erotic sex with my husband father, who is close to 90. And It was so dirty, when I woke up. I almost f...

How can I handle my four year old? He's uncontrollable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - hello i'm a single mom with an unrully four year old who seem to be as controlling, and disrespectful than a rebelled teenager. The child yells at me, throws things at me, and ignores me when I say no. I try to put boundaries but completely goes ove...

Am I just homesick?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Basically i wanna know if this is homesick or not. I moved in with my bf about 3 months ago. I have never lived away from home before. Since i've been here i have experienced my first ever late period, my first ever panic attack and been rushed ...

I fell in love with a guy who is my long lost brother and I had no idea about it! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - you might think this is a bit weird but i feel so down! about 14 months ago i was in a nighclub with my girl friends, we had a really good night, and i pulled lol, i met this really funny, drop dead gorgeous guy! and we got on really well. we went ...

Shocked by my fathers reaction, is he being selfish and not care about my mother at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My mother and I had a big row recently and she ran out of the house saying she couldn't cope anymore and wouldn't be coming back. I was horrified by my Dad's detachment of it all. He had a weird grin on his face and was saying how it had mucked up ...

Is it wrong to be with a married career military father?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hey all. My question is a career military man with a young daughter a horrible idea? Ok here's the scenerior.... Let's call him brian. Well brian and I met on myspace and became friends he lives an hour away. We've known each other for about a year ...

Am I being protective like a brother or am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My step-sister just got a boyfreind. Befor I even met him, a felt mad at him for no apparent reason. When I met him, he already seemed unconfortible around me, so I wanted to further scare him. I didnt becouse my step-sister was there. I havent ...

What do I do about his drinking problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Am i worrying 2 much? Me and my bf been together almost 2 yrs got a gorgeous daughter but the prob is he has a drink problem! He has gotten loads better, but i cant help but feel that horrible knot in my stomach that he might go back again. His ...

Should I suggest we reconcile our relationship, while both of us are on a holiday in Jamaica?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I recently found out from my hairdresser that my child's father is going to Jamaica for the summer to do voluntary work. I saw him last week and mentioned that I willl be going on holiday to Jamaiaca. I did not mention that I heard he will be. ...

I have deep feelings for my cousin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started ...

How can I deal with my "monster in law?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My mother in law hates me, though i am the best son in law, (she even made some comments in the past). None of my brothers in law treated her daughters like I treat my wife and I was so kind with her as well. In the beginning she started the blac...

In love with my older cousin, what can I do to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I am in love with my cousin after he broke up with me and started dating another girl. He's 3 years older than me. I love him. No matter what I try, I can't seem to get over him. What do I do?...

New baby but don't love the father. I still love my ex! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter ...

My parents don't like him because he lacks motivation! How can I get them to change their mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a true love story......we met online and i got lucky. well my parents loved him at first and then after 4 months they started to say he doesnt have a car, and he doesnt have a desent job.....but the working world is harsh and ...

How can I win over his parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and just started living in an apartment together about a month ago. I know its too soon to say for sure, but I can picture myself spending the rest of my life with him. Everything has been great so ...

Parenting and etiquette advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My daughter is having her 5th birthday party next week, and I am taking her to see a stage play. The tickets are not that expensive, but there is some travel. what I was wondering was if I want to invite her friend, am if I responsible to buy the ...

How do you deal with the mother of your husband's child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i got married last year to a wonderfull men, He has a child with another women. Now we a planning to take the child to come and stay with us. Now my husband want us to go and have a meeting with the mother of his child to discuss arrangement, I ...

How can I gain her mums approval?

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26 June 2009 (M) - Theres this girl at work that i like and i am pretty sure she feels same way bout me as weve been txting non stop for like 2 weeks well i asked her to the movies tonight and she said yes but her mum wont let her go with me unless there is another ...

Parents will not accept the man I'm dating because of race

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - i am 25 years old white girl,and just graduated my master. during my studies i met and felt in love with a black man. our chemistry and our relationship is amazing and we even talking about our future plans and that one day we want to get married ...

He's been visiting the mother of his fourth child without my knowledge!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My husband had 3 children before we met. We went out for a while and then seperated to give each other time to figure out if we wanted to be together long term. While we were seperated, he entered another relationship and had a child. Shortly before ...

I'm lost and heartbroken that her parents are making her marry someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - We were in love for the past 10 years,we are from different religions and now my girlfriends parents are forcing her to get married to someone, she really cant go against her parents wish and wants us to call off our relationship.Its been 10 years ...

My mother accused me of flirting with her friend! I was only being polite. What should I do/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - Tonight, before her going to bed, my mum accused me of flirting with her 55 year old male friend when he came over to dinner. She was drunk and called me a bitch and overall was completely irrational. I find it disturbing, disgusting and upsetting ...

Husband left me for a younger woman. Will it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - i was married for 24 years and the first of the year my husband left me for a younger woman. He is 50 and she is 19 and illegal to top it off over 6 months pregnant. Does not take a rocket scientist to figure out the he was sleeping with the both ...

They always left me out and now we're meeting again..what do I do?

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25 June 2009 (F) - When i was younger through childhood to about 13-14 i always felt left out when me and my two sisters would meet my cousins (two girls) ... all roughly similar ages but i am the youngest. Everytime we saw them i was left out and felt soo horrid one ...

Do you believe we were treated unfairly? Severe problems from bullying...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I am 16, i used to go to this site for comfort that i wasn't alone whilst getting bullied when i was 13. I was severely bullied in 2005 which resulted in me being hospitalised in early 2006. I was bullied cyberally, mentally and emotionally. The ...

Overprotective parents and Sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so. Me and my boyfriend are almost 18. We have been dating for the longest time and I can say I have never felt like this before and I love him. But we have one (or two) problems. Overprotective parents. We both still live with our parent and I...