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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

What should I do? How do I think, she won't even talk to me, I know that she needs space but I'm getting killed here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My name is Greg and I'm 21 next month, Well a little over a year ago I broke up with my first serious relationship, she totally smashed me in every way but I played the good guy card and ended up hurting myself in the end and I broke it off. A...

Is there too much damage between us for things to be how they used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi, i need some help. I lost a baby after 15 weeks about 4 months ago, but had to go in to hospital because the baby had been dead for 3 weeks. ever since this has happened me and my fiance havent been the same since. We don't talk anymore and i fi...

He left me and our 3 children twice, for someone else, but now says he wants us back. AGAIN. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

31 August 2007 (?) - Hi I had three children with my partner of 9 years. He left me during my second pregnancy but I gave him a second chance and we got back together. He then left me when I was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child after having an affair with a (r...

I want to find my biological father - where do I start?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I want to find my biological father, has anyone got any ideas as to where i can start?? Plz help!!!...

Is my mother getting a buzz out of insulting me or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - My self-confidence is very low at the minute! And i think its because of my mother. She tends to put me down, i'm a generally happy person and wake up with a smile ready to start the day - then when i go downstairs she'll say like "Gosh, you've got ...

My sister and I are in love. Should we continue our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I've always thought of my self as an ideal big brother. My household has always been unstable home. Having a natural protective nature to those close to me since birth, In my infancy I had made it my silent duty to defend my little sister from ...

I stopped at my uncles and erased some stuff off his pc. Do you think he is still mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I recently went to an all expense paid vacation at my uncle's. He paid for the airplane ticket, and everything. It was a great vacation and I was very happy. The most important thing is that this was his idea. He wanted to do this to help me because ...

I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...

We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because ...

I'm not keen on my mother-in-law. My spouse would love us to get along. Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - How do i deal with a hypocrite mother-in-law and still have a great relationship with my spouse? he loves me and his mom and would want me and her to have a good relationship....

Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house. He was always here because he was retired due to ill health. I miss him so much. I come ...

My parters brother in law keeps coming on to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hello, I sincerely hope you can help as i do not know if i am right to be concerned here....my partners brother in law keeps 'coming on to her' he has once grabbed her and kissed her and on another occasion entered her bedroom while she was al...

I am 14 and fancy my 48 year old married uncle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 14 and i fancy my uncle who is 48 and has a wife and two children. everytime i see him i have to wait before i go out otherwise it makes me nervous and i dont know what to do! please help me. thank you Carla ...

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...

My boyfriend is breaking up with me cause he says I dont trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi,my partner said he is leaving me!!!!!!! he recently found out that he has an 18 year old daughter from a woman he went out with at school, then had a 1 night stand with her a few years later, i accepted he had a daughter, we havent got kids ...

I'm 14 and i can hear my mum and her boyfriend in the next bedroom. I also found some condoms in her bag! I'm sickened!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and my mom and dad are split up but my mom has a boyfriend and after about 3 months of them going out he started to sleep in our house sometimes, he is nice but at night i cry myself to sleep because i can hear my mom and him moaning and ...

I think my mum is looking at porn and joined a dating site, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I am 15 and recently i have found porn on the family computer, the only people who use it are my mom and brother who is 13 (my mom and dad are broken up but my mom is with someone now). i was on bebo (a site where you talk to friends from school and ...

So close to my daughter feel like I'm losing her to her boyfriend... Anyone feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hello, I have a daughter who has recently fell in love with her long time boyfriend. I think that he is a great guy, with some flaws of his past, but who doesn't. Anyway, I like him, but do not like having to share my daughter's heart...

I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE ...

Can I leave home, being 16?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Ok, here's the deal, i want to get out of my mom's house but i can't b/c im 16. Can i really do that? Just leave my mom's place?...

What relation is to me the mum's cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I am seeing MY MUM'S cousin what relation is he to me is he my 2nd cousin or 1st cousin. Can anyone share any light on this and help me....

We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we ...

How can you tell if someone is cheating? I suspect my dad is, on my mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How can you tell if someone is cheating on their wife...i suspect my dad may be cheating on my mom with a close relative. ...

My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we ...

My wife has lost her dad and I want to help her. Anyone know how I go about this in the right way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, i was advised to come on this site by a friend who said you lot where very good so hope you can help me out here. Well my wife has recently lost her dad to a liver failure, this has hit her and her fmaily very hard, infact its even made...

I virtually met my ex after over 37 years, without our spouses' knowledge, and we love each other again...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I found my ex-girlfriend after 37 years, she in Denmark and I in Canada. We e-mail, MSN and talk (hours every day) without our spouses knowledge. We are both happily married. Now we tell each other how we love each other agin and plan to meet. Any ...

My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring ...

I moved in w/ my gf and her family. All I do is clean for them! My gf notices my attitude. What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hello all, I have a serious attitude problem. I have had one all of my life I think?....Atleast I've been this way to my mom and my brother for as far back as I can remember. My mom always tells me, you'll be lucky if someone actualyl stays with you...

My mother hasn't spoken to me in a month and has been telling my children lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - A liitle confused. My mother hasn't been speaking to me for over a month due to the fact that I went back to my ex who she doesn't like. Mind you I have two boys ages 12 and 6 who she has been putting stuff in their heads which I think is not right ...

How do i tell her that i have snuck out of the house to go to jazz concerts and play in a few jazz concerts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - This really isnt a life or death question but ive been playing the trumpet for 5 years now and ive been told that i am really good at it. However my passion is jazz and my mom wont let me join a jazz band only a classical band. She actually becomes ...

Boyfriend's family party has got me worried. how should i act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and abit, and recently i have become close with his family! i am 16, his sister 20 has invited me to her 21st birthday I am scared because her friends will be there, who are quite different and be...

I just want to know if I was wrong to ask my BF to leave for about and hour while she was there, or was he just being an inconsiderate jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together after being together for 10 months. I have yet to tell my mom. But it is not just me and him, one of my friends is there as well as my guys bro and his friend. The thing is, my mom thinks that I live with 4 ...

How can I show him I care through the phone? How can I tell him how I feel without a fight and help him understand??????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, First to let you know a little about the situation, I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 2 years going on 3 years, engaged not too long ago, we're getting married in October. The thing is he's been 5 hours away by car...

I'm in the last stages of getting married and my parents don't like him. How can I get them to see him the way I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years and on the verge of getting married. My boyfriend's parents approved but my parents are hesitant on the grounds that they aren't comfortable with my boyfriend for no apparent reason. What should I do? ...

How do I tell my parents the guy I'm seeing is 6 years older than I am? I'm 17.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so this guy is 23 and I'm 17... I'm ok with it, and he's ok with it. My parents? yea no, they don't even know we're dating. What makes it worse? He lives about an hour and a 1/2 aways drive from where I live, and I always have to make excuses to ...

She is scared to hug me or be affectionate with me in front of her parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I have like the worlds greatest girlfriend but i am getting really annoyed because she is scared to hug kiss or do anything with me because she is scared fo her parents who i have known for a long long time and they both like me. how can i breakher ...

Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Just a quick question, out of curiosity... Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends? I've lost count of the amount of times I've had to reiterate to past boyfriends that I would never cheat and that oth...

My boyfriends little daughter wants to know why her parenst split. They have told her she will know when she is older. Do you think this is right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's daughter who is 7 years old told me she wants to know why her mom and my boyfriend got separated. She doesn't understand why everyone keep telling her they will explain to her when she is 17-18. The truth is her mom had an affair with ...

My boyfriends little girl sees me as a threat. I dont want to come between her and her dad. Any advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has a 7 years old daughter. She is from his previous marriage that his wife ran off with another guy. The daughter is now living with the mom who just had a new born baby. I’m in good relationship with my boyfriend’s ...

My girlfriends parents are trying to come between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - My gf/s parents are trying to seperate us (after almost 11 months together) because I have had a few minor traffic violations in the past. last being in 1994 and they act like they are all high society and people will think bad things if they ever ...

My step dad has drug problems and i cant face going back to school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi ive been on here before but in december of 2006 my stepfather became violent(yelling at everyone)and i was a sophmore in high school but since december he has been constantly mad and sneaky he has a drug problem serious drug problem...it has affe...

How can i deal with friends that dont return my calls or visits, without it sounding like a big deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - do you feel slighted if you visit and phone others, but they dont reciprocate. what is the best reponse to this situation? should you reduce the frequency of your contact...accept that they dont value friendship as much as they do yours, or should...

My parents dont like my boyfriend and now he wants to break up with me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I'e been with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months. ive known him for like 6 years and we have always had a thing for each other. Anyways my parents always have loved him, but when we started going out they didnt like him and do everything they can to ...

Our brother stole £20,000 from my sister, I dont want him reported to the police! How can we get thorugh this as a family???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Dear All, I don't know if you can help me or not, as this is a problem more around family relationships and the divide between family love and trust, and what is morally right or wrong. I have a devastating problem - this may take a while ...

My dad was in prison for sex offenses, I've never met him and my family wont talk about it! Any advice out there please???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - Hi There people! Hi, my name is Brian and I am 24 years old. I don't really know how to start this, but basically my problem in life is that I have never met or known who my real dad is. The only vague details I know, through speaking to my n...

My brother has ADHD. My mum thinks i will not have the same and end up ruining my life??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - I have a very stupid brother with the common sense of a fly....but he has a very bad case of ADHD and a bunch of other things...so hes labelled mentally ill,but hes not retarded. unfortunately though my mother thinks i am just like him and am going ...

Is it selfish of me to expect to be paid to babysit my sister's daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I am a stay at home mom with a 4 mo. old, and I'm also pregnant. My older sister works full time and whenever her day care woman is unavailable, she asks me to watch her 4 y/o daughter. She gets here at 6 a.m. to drop her off, and doesn't pick her ...

He is happy and going to marry another girl. How do I behave around him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hello, I was deeply in love with a boy from past 10 years. But now when we were around to marry,he has broken-up with me(9months back) saying that my parents are delaying our marriage and he can't wait for me.(Although they had genuine reasons ...

We want to move in together but my family are saying they will dissown me. What should i do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for ten months now (I am 18 and he is 19). Our one year anniversary is on my 19th birthday. Anyway; we are so in love, so incredibly in tune with eachother, and so respectful and caring of the other. He is ...

My mother in law told me she's having an affair, I told my husband. Now she is angry with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My mother-in-law confided in me that she was having an affair. I kept the terrible secret for a long time but finally broke down and told my husband about it. He told his mother that he thought she was betraying his father and he was disappointed ...