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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....

He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...

Could I have a little "Green" in my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Im currently in a long distance lesbian relationship. Nancy (girlfriend) is wonderful to me. I feel insecure about my weight. Im a big girl. I keep getting this sick feeling in my chest that Nancy may be losing interest in me. When I visit her we ...

For how long am I expected to work at making this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi. I have some relationship probelms, including my bf's financial probelms, having to bail him out, the nagging ex wife and massive fights he has with her and so on. She even sent me thretening messages. We don't live together so althogh I get ...

No affection, I am trying to deal with it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I am ashamed of myself. I know that what he is going through is worse than any pain I could have, but it doesn't make my pain go away. We have been living together for a little over a year. Things were good before he moved in, then we had the ...

How can I get out of this unhappy situation? He says a divorce will be worse on the kids than us being unhappy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and have 3 kids under 10. My husband and I dated for 6 years before getting married. I am absolutely miserable in my marriage. My husband is emotionally abusive...a true narcissist. It has taken me too long and ...

He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn'...

We've been together for a few years and now I just don't fancy my boyfriend at all. Is it just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I have an issue with my boyfriend. I have been with him for a few years now and just dont fancy him at all. is it time to call it a day on this relationship? i havnt told him of my concerns but basically sex is just clumsy and i find myselk avoi...

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I think my partner has some sort of personality disorder. We have know each other yrs and have a couple of kids together. We have had a volatile relationship in the past as he was a bit of a mummy's boy. He is 44 and we only started living p...

I'm feeling claustrophobic in our relationship and regret having said 'yes' to his proposal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - Hi everybody. Im in a spot of bother... Ive been with my fella for nearly 3 years, at first he was everything i ever wanted, the complete opposite of my abusive ex but now my feelings have changed. We have been through so much drama and break up...

When he tried to break up with me I started crying so hard he started crying to and said he would stay but now he doesn't text or call like he used to.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now. Everything was okay before one of his ex girfriends decided that she wanted to "reconnect". From the actions he is showing he doesn't want her back but she has basically pushed him ...

My boyfriend tells me he doesn't love me as much as he used to. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm pretty sure there may be lot's of questions like this here, and pardon if you're tired of hearing it ^^; What do I do, if my affectionate boyfriend suddenly says that he does not love me as much as he used to? Last night, he told...

How can I make my husband love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - i love my husband more than anything. i am very possessive for him. i do not like when he take very interest while talking to any other women. when v go out he always look at other women admiring them. i just hate this about him. he always dress up ...

My boyfriend is emotionally distancing from me due to fights over insecurity issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. We've had our ups and downs like every couple but things have changed. Over the last few months there's been a real distance between us. I'm mostly to blame due to jealous and insecurity issues that started caus...

He tells me it is my fault that he abuses me. What causes people to become abusive? And is the receiver of the abuse to blame?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid Why do people become abusive after being few years in a relationship. Is this abuser's fault? Or the fault of the person being abused? My bf of 3 years was good to me for 2 years but now has become so emotionally abusive. I cry m...

Who to choose, my controlling bf, or the one I always wanted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now,and i love him incredibly, but at times, he makes me extrememly misrerable, especially with his controlling attitude..i've been cring for the last week because i feel like a bird trapped in a cage. To make ...

Can I move on from my resentment towards my ex boyfriend and his lies and this other woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - Even though we had broke up again, this time he had a threesome with his up stairs neighbors. He said it happened only one time. The husband and my boyfriend had sex with her that was her fantasy My boyfriend denies ever being with her befor...

Do girls speak with their actions not their words? I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - I have a complex question or to me its complex. I have no idea where i stand maybe someone can help me? I am 20 years old. I have been with this amazing girl for 2 years. We both are in school. She started last September me just last week in Feb...

How can one tell the children about divorce when your spouse is too emotional to be rational?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

12 February 2013 (M) - For many years now I have been unhappy in my marriage. My wife and I have been together for twenty years. After our children were born my wife became very emotional, and she tends to react to situations by shouting, swearing and crying. She's bee...

I feel like the spark has started to go out. Has anyone else been through this? How do I get through it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4299 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - Hello:) Before I tell you my problem let me tell you a bit of background, I've been with my boyfriend X for a year now, however when we first met when I was already in a relationship, but he confessed his love for me which made things a ...

I lost my virginity to him, but now it seems he's ready to move on. Do you think he is breaking up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and dated for two and half months. I loved him and thought he loved me and I lost my virginity to him the second month and three weeks later he sends me a message saying he hasn't been feeling hisself lately and that he is overwhelmed ...

Boyfriend now seems more interested in his XBox than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 year and 10 months but for the past month or so he has been really distant. he always plays his xbox and always ignores me. im not to sure i feel the same way i have before. were in a long distance ...

How can I ever learn to trust guys again? And find a Genuine guy? My last Bf was a liar and a cheat.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

10 February 2013 (?) - My most recent ex boyfriend was a liar and a cheater. He was super good looking and charming so I always fell for whatever he said and couldn't tell what was really going on. I am only just now starting to see what really happened. It's b...

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...

It seems like I'm the one doing all the chasing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) - I met a lad who's three years younger than me in September last year, and we hit it off right away. We found that we have lots in common; some things freakishly in common (our mums have the same birthday), which only led to strengthen our ...

After five months he broke up with me, for doing all the things I thought made me a perfect girl friend. What did I do wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - Basically ever since I was younger I've always had this preconception of guys as hard and unfeeling and only wanting sex. So when I picked a boyfriend, I picked one who wouldn't be emotional or sensitive or want me to open myself up, nor one that...

What can I do about my girlfriend, who is so jealous of the relationship I have with a sweet guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - My girl friend as been so jealous about my relationship cause it going well for me. Her boyfriend is a close friend to my boyfriend, and they both work in a construction company and see most time at break, without knowing abt my friend jealousy...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

How do I get past this traumatic abusive depressing relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I finally broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I started dating him during a very traumatic time of my life and I was looking to be saved and he was a charmer. Soon into our relationship I noticed very possessive jealous behaviour. He was not ...

Are relationships that exist with absolutely NO violence towards one another?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - Aunts and Uncles... Have any of you (honest answers please) had a physical fight with your current spouse? I just want to know if there are relationships that exist with absolutely NO violence towards one another. Again, please be honest. Th...

What are the key factors to keep a Gf interested? I'm afraid my Gf will eventually lose interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

3 February 2013 (M) - a simple question, i'm a very nice guy. too much of it. i please my gf in every single way but im afraid she eventually, with time, will have taken me for granted and lose interest. what are the key factors to keep her interested?...

Even 18 months later I don't have a clue how to trust anyone I meet. How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - about a year and a half ago, i got out of a two year relationship from hell. from the start, she played me for a fool. only a few months in, i saw hickies on her neck that she convinced me were pinch marks from her mom (even got her mom to actually...

What's wrong with me? I've lost interest in guys and dating. Could I be risk averse due to memories of my ex cheating and lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - What do you think is wrong with me? Please help me understand:)? For 2 years now I haven't felt like having a boyfriend. I've been single for 2 years now I just don't want to get to know a guy or go on dates. I've just lost interest in guys ...

I don't know if I should be patient and understanding or just stop this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

1 February 2013 (F) - Hello, I have reached a point where I am at a lost and I don't know if I should continue this relationship. Well, I agree that he's having serious money problems as he has borrowed money from the bank as well as from friends that he cannot repay. A...

I found a receipt for heart shaped jewelry, so whose got it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I are going through a very rough time in our marriage. About a year ago he came to the conclusion that "marriage just wasn't for him". Although things were not great, this totally took me by surprise He later filed for divorce, but ...