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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Was my reaction appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I am deeply hurt and can't think straight. I broke up with my boyfriend last year because he was using another girl picture(he claims to be his cousin) as his profile picture on facebook and i suspected cheating. When I told him I was ...

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been...

How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not s...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

Left my pot head, cheating boyfriend. So why do I feel upset that he's already talking to other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Okay, I am the same girl who wrote about my pot head cheating ex boyfriend and I thank you all for your lovely and supportive feedbacks :) So lastnight, I couldn't sleep. I had a lot on my mind. I was talkin to a friend of mine about him and sh...

I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bill...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

I don't want him back. Yet feel like I was never important to him. What are some coping strategies I can use?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So im currently single going through a breakup. my ex and I have been dating for about 4 years, and we have been broken up for about two months now. At first i was really strong about the whole thing and im completly sure about my decision but...

The feelings of infatuation I had with my boyfriend have gone. Should I end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Have any of you ever dated someone who at first you were so infatuated with and thought was this amazing person that couldn't be better for you and made you so incredibly happy... but then over time realised those feelings you had have faded and ...

Feeling bruised but not broken. How do I move on? And why is moving on so hard after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Why is moving on so hard? My ex and I broke up in November and now I found out he has a brand new girlfriend. Even though our romance was short-lived,I'm still heartbroken. I'm doing all that I can to move on. I even unfriended a mutual friend of...

He "remembers me how good the sex was"? Was that all I ever was to him? I'm so hurt by this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So it’s been 1 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up and I've slowly started to rebuild up my strength until he decided text me last night out of the blue . He was just asking what I was up to and if I like any boys. He mentioned how word got out...

My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rud...

Please help me get him back :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - there's this guy that I dated almost a month. we went to highschool together but we never talked . but we have mutual friends and that's how it all started. it started off as just hooking up and then I told him how I felt so he asked me out this is ...

Our marriage deteriorates day by day. Sex is almost non-existent. Problems beset us. What can you advise? Because we need help now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I am having difficulty sleeping with my husband. We have been together for the past 6 years but our relationship seems to deteriorate by the day. In the beginning we couldn’t keep our hands off each other but these days the very thought of bein...

I've been flirting with guys the last 6 months. Should I leave my husband and start afresh in a more meaningful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I met my husband when I was seventeen and married at 21. Now 28 with a child I am so unhappy! We argue a lot, over stupid and small things! I will admit I am bad tempered and may indicate things! Sex life gone down to a point I ask and be let ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

Ended affair last night.What can I do? Is there any point in hoping she could leave him? Or was I just played by her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 December 2012 (M) - I have no one else to talk to. For past year I have been in affair with coworker. Last summer we agreed that we will leave our partners and be together. I did it, she did not so I went NC for next two months. This autumn she started chasi...

Was he over the top to break up over this after 2 years together? Was he looking for an excuse?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in April of this year. He had found out I was on dating sites again. I did not want to meet anyone, because I was in love with him. I used to go on dating sites to tease the guys on them and had no intention of meet...

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another wome...

Our sex life is in the doldrums, are we doomed? He has the start of ED. His suggestion is a threesome, but I'm not so keen.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My husband and I were talking about our sex life just a moment ago. He mentioned how sore he is from all the sex (which has been almost everyday...and I know he masturbates as well, but I think he has done that more in the last week than we have had ...

Upsetting breakup. then the silent treatment. Is she putting up emotional barriers just to push me away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after I broke her heart by writing a goodbye message to her and ignoring her for two weeks, then showing up like nothing happened. (I was angry at her for a number of reasons, which I should have talked to her ...

I'm second guessing my decision to leave my cheating husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - Hi. I've just separated after being with this guy since I was a teenager. Now in my 30s with 2 kids he's all I ever knew. He claimed cheated on me and when i said im leaving, he claimed to be gutted, said he was seeing a counsellor, and taking a...

How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me. He is not worried about our son,my...

My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing...

What can I do to deal with my flirty (but not with me) husband who will not make love to me yet masturbates regularly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - I have had it with my husband. We have been married for 16 years. The first 6 years I would say was great especially trying to have kids at that time. We ended up having 2 children. After our second child I noticed my husband wouldn't make an...

Broke ex, or well-off baby daddy or neither of them? Help me choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I am more confused now more than ever, I split up with the one guy who kept asking for money and he did pay me back and said he was sorry that he shouldn't have done that and that he truly loves me and wants to work things out but they are still ...

If he sees me as 'old' now, what will happen when we marry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Good day everyone. I've got this concern and need to understand what does it really means. Today as I was having a breakfast with my boyfriend he surprised me with these words as I was only wearing a towel only, he told that I'm now old and I don't ...

She cheated. I don't want to lose her, but at the same time I think I should leave. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - ive been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years. we live together, we're not married and have one child(10 months) together, and two more that she had in a previous relationship(8 and 4), that i now care for. i fell out of love with her a while ...

He's changed. I'm not sure whether he loves me now. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Ever since I have finished my major examinations, he became unhappy that I spent more time with my friends/Computer and afterwards unhappy about me not taking enough initiatives. And then about hi...

Stuck in a cycle of loving and loathing each other. We fight. When is enough, enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - We have been together on and off for 6 years. We got engaged 6 months ago and things are not good. We don't fight well at all. We both say things that we shouldn't . She keeps telling me she don't have that feeling for me, yet she don't want t...

My new boyfriend isn't meeting my needs but I'm afraid of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

16 December 2012 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for past 4 years but i broke up with him some 8 months ago. I was feeling very lonely and depressed meanwhile a decent guy (who is my friend) approached me, now i am in relationship with this guy for 2 months, he ...

I'm tired of being rejected by girls. What is it that I'm doing wrong with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

14 December 2012 (M) - girls, a question for you... why is it that girls can complain so much about things guys don't do, but then when a guy does those very things girls cry? i have been in four relationships, still in the fourth one as of now. but every girl i've...

He thought we were on a break but I thought we were broken up and I had sex with someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) - About five months ago, my boyfriend of two years and I had his a very, very rough patch. We couldn't speak, never truly "clicked" like we used to, but still, both of us were committed. One night, we both broke down crying over the rough patch, ...

Is he using me? I just don't feel special anymore.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - Been seeing a married man, on and off for 4 years...did try ending it but we soon got back together, I guess we missed each other. We are in contact on a daily basis...emailing for hours on end plus texting by phone. Iv never asked him to leave his ...

Fading feelings in a LDR, maybe he's not my true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - Hi, ive been dating this guy for a while and we love each other but we've gone long distance for four months now and although we talk about marriage and spending our lives together, lately my feelings have been fading, i just don't know with him ...

Is it that he is no longer attracted to me the way he used to be? I find it very hurtful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years .. Sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore .. I feel that way because I have noticed him looking at a few females and he really doesn't look...

What can you suggest? I'm faithful always, but I feel like she holding my sex life hostage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 27. We've been together for 5 years, lived together for 4. Our relationship is and has been going well in most respects. We rarely argue and suit each other nicely. Unfortunately we have fairly different sex drives...

Scared I'll miss him if we break-up. But I feel neglected and second best. Any advice on how to manage this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I think I should leave my boyfriend of 3 years but I'm scared to because I know I'm going to miss him so much. Can anyone give me some advice on whether this is normal or if it means I shouldn't do it? Here is some background on the reasons I have ...

Did my Ex ever really move on? Why does he still get so mad at me? How am I annoying him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Ok everyone, here it goes. Sorry if I am rambling a bit. Lately, I have been having trouble with my EX. I should add that it has been a year and a half since we split…..we are both in our 30's. He broke it off with me, saying he wasn't ready...

Is he just bored and curious that he's looking up all these women on Facebook? Or should I be concerned? I'm losing trust in him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I have an issue I'm needing help with. I've recently found out that my husband has been looking up his ex wife, my ex best friend and several (even our next door neighbor's daughter who used to work at hooters) other chicks on Facebook to the exte...

He was so happy about the baby. But will he still be there for me now that he's moved on? I can't let go of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - hi I'm new in this thing. Five months pregnant, my bf of 5years just broke up with me. When this happened I found some msgs in his phone to another gal telling her he wants to sleep with her, I confronted him about it he admitted it. And I apologis...

Can I fix my marriage? If the answer is "yes", then what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - my wife and i are at the end of our marriage, I think. I made mistakes. When I was dating her i was also dating another. I proposed to her with hickies from another woman on me. While married i felt feelings for her sister for 2 weeks and just r...

Did I ruin the relationship, due to my dislike of porn? Or are there bigger issues of concern in this relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Disclaimer: This is long but I really need advice and help. Please! I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex boyfriend. We were together for 20 months and just broke up last Sunday. We were living together the past 2.5 months. He was my first ...

How can I handle my feelings over this? He sent me a nasty email detailing all I did wrong in the relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

7 December 2012 (F) - Hi ... I need some help and useful advice .... after almost 4 months ( no contact previously ) after a painful breakup with my ex whom I loved dearly I have recieved a nasty and scathing seven page email from him, stating EVERYTHING I did wrong ...

I love my boyfriend but his behaviour has changed. Am I being taken for granted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F) - hello, Our relationship got serious 5 months ago. we've been best friends for over a year. We never fought. We did have our different opinions, but we respected and accepted all that. When we realized we love each other, he told me he will alwa...

I'm afraid this man will think badly of me now that I've told him about my past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4401 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - Hello everyone I am feeling really down now. I really like this guy at the moment and the feeling is mutual even though we haven't made any commitments because I wanted to know him better before committing. He is a really special guy. Caring ...

How can I express my dissatisfaction with my boyfriend more effectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - how do i tell my boyfriend of 3 yrs im not happy, he hardly touches me anymore, i want to try for a baby but he dont, it dont seem like we r in a relationship its like we just exsist, we live together we argue 50% of the time, aand half the time it ...