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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Good day everyone. I've got this concern and need to understand what does it really means. Today as I was having a breakfast with my boyfriend he surprised me with these words as I was only wearing a towel only, he told that I'm now old and I don't look the way I was 7 years ago, point is I was okay until a month ago as I'm now staying with him full time. My point is if he now sees me as an old in a months time staying together, what will happen when we are married. We are not married or having a kid with him and this is how he sees me, just imagine in a month time and what will happen in 10 years to come.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 December 2012):
 if you marry he will see you as older as you get older...
it will not mean he does not love you or find you attractive. it means he has no filter and says what's on his mind.
did you ask him what he meant and why?
you are after all older now than you were 7 years ago.
as a 52 year old woman with a 39 yr old husband I know that looking old is inevitable. it's not a big deal to me because I'm his wife, he didn't marry me because I look young and hot.. he married me because he loves me for all the right reasons...
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