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Archived questions from: June, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Does looking at those websites means cheating

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have been living together for a year. We are both 26 yesterday, I borrowed his phone ( with permission) and saw he was on Craigslist looking at w4m in our city. After that I loo...

He lied to my face, only admitted it after I told him I had seen proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We broke up for about a month or so in between, in which he admitted to kissing a girl. That's it he says.I don't care about any of that, we were broken up. However, I found a condom in his backpack. We ...

Do you think my ex-roommate will want to date me again if I put zero pressure on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - So I dated my roommate for a year. It never progressed very far because every time I put pressure on him (which I have a habit of doing) he freaked out and pulled away. We really liked each other though so I always assumed the problem was living ...

Is a man without a big wallet a deal breaker for you?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have recently met a great man. We've been dating for a few months but we have met each other's parents because we are serious about each other. Recently though, my worries have been our financial status. He is a hard working chef a...

My boyfriend left me for another woman in the past, we have since made up but I can't seem to get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - I've known my boyfriend since high school so about 8 years or so. Last November, my boyfriend broke things off with me and within a week started dating the woman he was talking to behind my back. Now, I don't care that he was talking to another ...

I can't tell if I'm dating a really odd social butterfly or a man whore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about four months. We spend most of our time together. I don't usually feel jealous or insecure about myself. I know I'm pretty and smart etc. So when I do feel insecure I tend to think it's probably ...

How do I react to my boyfriends passive aggressive comments about fitness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - I weigh 42kg. I used to be a previous model however always been naturally petite. My boyfriend has naturally a slow metabolism and he can gain weight quickly. While he does talk quite a bit about him getting fit as he's definitely on the ...

My boyfriend always admires other women, its been going on for years. Am I over the top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - Sorry this is kind of long. When I go out with my bf, he seems to scan the restaurant, grocery store, gym, wherever, for attractive women. He has a couple of signature looks he gives when he sees an attractive woman. Sometimes it's the excited...

He wants to be friends with his female co worker and doesn't take my feelings into consideration

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - Ive known a man for the past 6 yrs, we lived together for three years. the fourth yr we broke up. he was talking about marriage but never really asked me. then one day a new female came to work at is work place. slowly things changed between us. ...

Things changed when my BFF got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was ...

He keeps staring at me. Does that mean something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - So here is my story. I encountered a guy at my university whom I have posted about before. I caught him staring at me when I was buying something at the student bar shop. He was sitting right behind us and I saw him look at me couple of times. This ...

I'm always the gateway girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - OK, I don't know what I'm asking here, maybe hope from people in / or were in similar situations. Basically, long story short, I'm the gateway girl for guys to find true love/marriage/happily ever afters. I'v never had a relationship last lo...

He wants to record us having oral sex and then send it to a friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2680 days ago

27 June 2017 (F) - Been seeing a guy right, everything was great.. Until he asked me a few days ago to let him record himself giving me "oral" in the not so usual place..to send to his guy friend! Is this relationship between them normal? Do guys do this with their ...

I have a gf but still think about my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

26 June 2017 (M) - I feel so bad for thinking about my ex and I know people are going to bag me out for it. If it was someone coming to me, in which I am often the person, it is what I would be telling them. I tried to give myself time to heal after we broke up, 2 y...

Boyfriend did nothing for me on my 21st birthday and says I'm stupid if I expect things to be romantic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

26 June 2017 (F) - so i dont want to sound like a nag or like im being selfish but here it is. 25th june was my 21st birthday i had a meal and a night out planned. on the 24th my boyfriend didnt want to spend it with me but i told him if he doesnt try its over bec...

I'm confused about her behavior. She seemed into me but then would not get off the phone??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

26 June 2017 (M) - Hi, I met this girl whilst I was going to work. She works in an airport. I travel a lot on short flights. I noticed this girl was very friendly to me a few weeks ago. Also when I entered the airport the other week I noticed she had spotted me and ...

My friend doesn't treat guys very well and I don't like it. Should I just stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - Hi how do I tell my friend she's a little conceited? Or am I overreacting? She's one of my best friend's. We're both 18 and have both had our fair share with guys. I just mean like being at the texting stage and dating, that kind of stuff. I'm no...

He cheated, we broke up. He's never apologized and its weird being in the same group of friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - The guy I was seeing exclusively for the past few months recently cheated on me when he was drunk and I found out about it from my friend. At the time I was obviously very angry and upset when I spoke to him and so even though he apologised it ...

My ex boyfriend had me arrested for harassment charges! Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - I need some advice please. I was with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and the relationship was great, we had so much in common and were lovers but also best friends. I have abandonment issues and eventually started to self destruct until, after weeks of...

My girlfriend wants to wait but I'm frustrated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 June 2017 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she is married. She is a virgin. I am frustrated telling her how important sex is in relationship and how deeply emotionally we can be connected. She even used to give her ex bf liberty to have sex with...

Is my pedicure cause for concern?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - I am not sure if I should be offended or not? But I AM!! I just got a pedicure and I love it. I like the colour. It is bright and summery. My boyfriend did not share my enthusiasm. He said pedicures with any colour draw attention to feet, and he ...

I have huge mental blocks regarding finding a partner but I really want one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - Hello all, I turned 18 last year and I'm still a virgin. I crave to be with someone, preferably another girl. I'm just scared. I've tried posting ads and online "dating" sites but I never go through with anything. My main issues are 1. I'd get cau...

I need help being more choosy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - How can I start believing that I deserve a good man? This fear of not finding one has paralyzed me (through therapy) I got to the problem that I'm so scared to be alone- so much I've landed in the arms of men that are - well not very classy. It's ...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - Hello, I met this guy online, nearly 2 years ago. He's korean and I'm polish. There are quite a few things that my parents refuse to accept about him and they constantly try to make me break up with him. The main arguments are his short height, th...

Are we playing the "he loves me..he loves me not" game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I had been dating a guy for a year and everything was going fine. And suddenly he stopped receiving my calls or replying to my texts. After continuously texting he replied and said he didnt want to hurt me but he needed space and time.The next day ...

The man I'm dating lied he said he was 30, he's almost 44

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - Aunts and uncles! Please help.. So I've been seeing a guy for 5 months, I'm 25 and he's 30.. Things are a bit rocky here and there, but today iced the cake. I seen a comment on Facebook and decided to Snoop... I see him address his 38 year old brot...

I don't get his on-off attitude

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half years. He asked for space. He asked for space and then said sorry the next day, and again stopped contact with me for a week. Suddenly he texted me again when he needed me and now again has cut off contact ...

Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (F) - I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...

I'm dating a nice lady but all I can think about is my ex who ghosted me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 June 2017 (M) - I am seeing someone new who treats me wonderful, the way I've always wanted to be treated, but all I think about is my ex, who I treated great, she ghost me, what I think about is why couldn't my ex treated me this way, it could of been so ...

My parents are so strict and I can't talk to them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - My parents are really strict and I do not know what to do. I am almost 19 but my parents will not let me date or even be friends with any male. They go through my phone and I have to leave my phone in their room at night. I do however have a ...

Do I ask him about marriage? children? He says he doesn't ever want to marry again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to think about having children and getting married? We both have a daughter each, and he has been divorced for the last 3 years officially. He is 10 years older then me, and we met while he was in the process of g...

Am I selfish or is he trying to guilt trip me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - I feel my boyfriend has the most unrealistic expectations of me and it's really pushing me away. Hr told me this evening on the phone that his back went out of place so he had to take the day off work to rest as well as see a physio. He also ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (M) - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

A guy is visiting me from Europe, Should I be responsible for his accomodation and hotel bills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - It's my first time online dating and I met a likable European guy. He is 28 and I don't expect him to have much money. I really like him and I was to visit him first but because of my work I can't at the moment. He decided to visit first. I live in ...

Should I end my it with my cybersex buddy ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - Hello Dear cupid , I have a issue..... I have a pen pal in another country he is in the U.K. And I'm in the USA we met on Instagram it started out friendly but gradually got flirty and sexual we are both really attracted to each other and have ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

How can I stop being so jaded ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - How can I stop being so jaded and angry towards men - a little background I grew up in a disfuncfional home my dad was physically abusive to my mother and we do not have a relationship - I'm 29 and I've been with two men that well they have been ...

I have feelings for my friend who has a gf. I walked away.. did I do the right thing? Will he change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - Hi there! Thanks for taking the time to read my question : ) I am a recently single woman, just started dating again. It's been fun going on dates, but no matter how great the guy is I keep thinking about my friend. At first we just studied ...

If he liked me wouldn't he be texting me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

19 June 2017 (F) - I think i know the answer to this but would love some advice anyway. Ive been friends on facebook with this guy for a while, i actually went to juniour school wkth him. Hes actually now a minor celebrity- he has his own television series. Thats no...

Why am I so jealous ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

19 June 2017 (F) - I would like to know as I am trying to attempt the dating game at 31 to stop being so possivive-a little background - I have honestly been with three men and two in a relationship - one was long term and he was very manipulating and control- the ...

Is it right to ask her out now she is divorced?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

18 June 2017 (M) - I'm a single guy in my 40's. Two of my female friends have a friend that they used to work with who is in her late 30's - I'll call her Shirley. I met her a few times in casual social settings like going to the farmer's market and I always found he...

How do I put him at ease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

18 June 2017 (F) - Myself and a guy I work with have been dancing around each other for a while now, we've been out a couple of times and he's kissed me with a bit of Dutch courage on board! Thing is he's really shy and un-confident and he fully admits to that whe...

I broke things off with him because he isn't at the same place I am. I'm so heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - I started dating a guy about eight/nine months ago after meeting online. The first date was fine but I wasn't particularly smitten - he asked if we could go on a second date. I was hesitant at first - I wasn't really looking to get into anything ...

I like him but didn't want to date a guy who has kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - Hey guys, just in need of a little advice! I recently started dating a guy I somewhat work with. I work at a car dealership and I'm in new cars and he is in used.. I say kind of because I'll probably run into him once a week durin our Friday meeti...

What are some warning signs I should look out for when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - what are some warning signs/ red flags I should watch out for when getting into a relationship? I was in a short term relationship with a guy months ago that I got re- introduced with friends. There was a mutual attraction and I was very excited ...

Is she just being friendly or is she interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

16 June 2017 (M) - I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other...

I don't want my g/f to go to the same college as me. It will ruin me making new friends and having my independence

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

16 June 2017 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years of my life. This september I hope to go to university to study law. My girlfriend wasn't planning to go to university until 2 days ago when she moaned at me for not wanting to be with her through university ...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'd like her to be my first sex partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

16 June 2017 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. I’m defiantly into her. We do a lot of fun things together. I have not had sex yet. She has told me that she has. I would like her to be my first sex partner. I think she is smart, cute, beautiful, ...

I love my girlfriend but can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

15 June 2017 (F) - I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to pieces but I can't get my ex out of my head. I miss her and want to talk to her again. She had been upset about me for a long time but she may have gotten over me. I've ways loved her. ...