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41-50,
anonymous
writes:How can I start believing that I deserve a good man? This fear of not finding one has paralyzed me (through therapy) I got to the problem that I'm so scared to be alone- so much I've landed in the arms of men that are - well not very classy. It's all I think about and want. It's so important to me to be with someone that I even forget why I want it. My parents have a failed relationship and they're miserable. They are so sad. I fear being alone so much that nothing is working - online hasn't - friends haven't - work hasn't - it's always someone is taken - or I'm always in the wrong place at the right time so much that I just give up - I'm so tired of searching and it's made me paralyzed - I'm so scared of being alone every year that I get older that I get even more desperate. I never show these emotions ha with a man but inside I feel these - and it's these emotions that have led me to the arms of men that are really bad - does anyone have any tips on a girl that has tried everything on the exterior to try to now buildThe interior? I haven't dated or seen a man in a year and a half. I tried online and honestly that did not work for me. I don't feel comfortable with it and I don't have much of a social life so that is why I'm losing hope. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2017): Be happy.
Good men are very hard to find these days (and trust me sister, I should know)! Good women are not hard to find, you sound like one of them. So... Be Happy x
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (23 June 2017):
 OP, you need more therapy. Volunteer. Enrich your life through achievements, not materialism or a boyfriend.
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