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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

After some tough times and relationships, when is it going to be my turn to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - In my life so far I have tackled being bullied when I was young and growing up for being overweight suffered with really bad acne and I got teased for being ginger.my dad left at a young age and hes not been bothered since. Ive got a daughter whos 6 ...

Does who I am attracted to matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - ok...i noticed mostly i'm attracted to white guys and i'm african not afrrican- american...i'm from nigeria...is this ok?...

How do I assess his intentions without bringing up the word "commitment"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - I met this chap and he likes me and I'm beginning to lower my guard and like him back. At first, I wasn't too keen only because of the fact that he's almost 7 years my junior. After we spoken and got to know each other I'm considering giving him a ...

Does he seem interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - So i'm in this Film Club where we watched the movie "The Birds" by Alfred Hitchcock. While my best friend and I were waiting for this movie to start, my friend noticed the guy I like came in. I could not stop blushing! During the intermission, I wa...

Do I pursue her even though I don't know if she likes me or start afresh with another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Ok so first off, I Really like this Girl, (We'll refer her tas Girl 1) But, I dont know if she likes me, she says she loves texting me and such, But she flirts with other guys and it sucks, Now on the other side, Theres this girl (Girl 2) that says ...

My girlfriend is telling me she is being abused, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is telling me that she's being verbally and now psyically abused. What is the best thing to tell her or do?...

How do I get a British girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - British girls fascinate me a lot due to their hot British Accent. I have tried several dating sites find a British girl friend for myself but it hasn't worked since I am not located in UK thats why I guess. Even I tried to go to UK on visit visa ...

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...

Hould I get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last 17 months. Just yesterday I broke up with him because I felt I didn't love him enough. He has always loved me like crazy. In fact he was the one to initiate the relationship in the first place. He ...

It's been one month and a half and my ex has contacted me out of the blue - should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Sorry it's long but... help? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. We talked everyday. But then... two and a half mon...

How do I gain my confidence back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - right, long story, i was with my boyfriend for less than a year, we clicked, got on amazingly, great sex life, the only problem was his retrograde jealousy... i had had a few serious relationships and sexual partners before him, however i was his ...

I'm not sure of his ex's intentions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - i need some advice... ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are living with each other now. one problenm - hes friends with his ex.. well not really an ex, a girl he used to love but she had a boyfriend already while he was "friends" with ...

Does he just want me to help him pay the bills???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - dear aunts. I have been with my partner for four years. Three years ago he proposed to me and it was like a dream come true. We had a rough time after that with him losing his home etc. I also suspected cheating although he never admitted it. I had ...

How can I make my first time more comfortable for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Okay lets get to the point: I'm a virgin and me and my long time boyfriend have decided to go ahead and have sex (he's a virgin too). We have almost done the 'dirty deed' but I'm a chicken. I'm scared. I don't really know of what, but I'm scared. ...

Does marriage need more than love? My B/f Mom scolded me for wanting financial stability, education completed too, before marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriends mom scolded me and blamed me because my boyfriend wants to get married before he finishes his education and i told him that i want to get married after he finishes his aeronautical engineering licence, because then he can fully ...

3 problems- money worries, my boyfriend who doesn't want to commit and my family who never visit or consider me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - hi sorry.. this is abit of a long one! I have 3 problems.. money worries, my non-commital boyfriend and my family who never visit or consider me! I live in a small house with my 17 yr old son and am finding life very hard! I came out of a lo...

I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you ...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

Is he worth the wait to date? He's 17. Or should I just move on? He only wants to talk about sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Ok so there's this guy, I've liked him for about 4 months. His name is X and we met at a battle of the bands back in January. In June we started texting and getting to know each other. (: He turned out to be a really sweet guy, and always said cute...

Should we connect? Dont want to break his marriage but I need someone to make me laugh

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Thanks. I lost my hubby of 5 years a year and 2 month ago and i have 2 kids. just before i met my late hubby,i dated a guy i loved so much and i believed liked me for 3 months,i had to relocate some where far so we were not seeing but communic...

Got cheated upon once, and now I am paranoid it will happen again in my present relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Is this what one may call trauma? Two and a half years ago, i found out my ex was cheating on me which left me so scarred, it took me a year to accept what happened. He was my first bf. Anyway, i am fully recovered now in terms of any emotion towa...

Which dating situation is better out of these two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I met two guys and I didn't end up with either of them. I often think and compare and contrast and I wonder...which situation do you think is worse? Obviously no one would want either to happen but... A guy having a first love that hau...