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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like I need her to be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I met this girl when I was 16 (young, I know) and well we were friends for a year, then after realizing our feelings as more than friends we dated for 2 years. She left me in a complicated process for another guy whom she had liked before she met ...

I feel so alone and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - sorry for this being so long, but please read and hopefully give some advice. ill start with my personality, im not very confident very shy and get very anxious. My school life was ok i wish i was back cos id do so much different but since leavin...

Played a bit of a game and afraid it's bitten me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - What do I do? i really like this guy. please help? ? I've been getting to know this guy for a while now. First we use to speak on the phone everyday for about a week. Then he asked if he's the only guy I was talking to and I said no, am talking ...

I've forgotten how to flirt?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, here`s a situation: I am 20 years old, have been in a relationship last two years and now we decide to split up. I met a new guy who is absolutely gorgeous, smart, funny etc. But I feel like I have kinda lost my ability to flirt. I...

I'm in an open relationship. my friend's brother and I had sex. So why did'nt he reply after our great night?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My husband and i agreed to an open relationship not too long ago after being married for 6 years. I met my friends brother at a club few days back. He was flirting with me, buying me drinks, dancing with me etc. I told him about my relation...

Do I listen to my friends? Give in to my doubts? Alarm bells, not wedding bells are ringing in my ears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing? He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me? ...

Help me get over these 3 "speed bumps" so I can ask her out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - alright, kind of a long question here. There is this girl in my class at university who is really really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things, first, i am really really shy and usually have problems starting conversations ...

We messed around and ended up having oral sex, now he isnt answering any of my calls or texts! I've never felt so cheap in my entire life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I had known my friend and her brother for almost 7 years, and although I wasn't as close to him when we were younger (due to the 3 yr difference) I used to have a big crush on him. After years of not talking, we messaged each other back and forth on ...

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I know guy for about 11 year we never talk before i though he hated me bout 8weeks ago he gave me is number and we being having sex since dose he like me or is he just using me for sex please help me ...

Is it unreasonable that I'd like sex with her every so often? She's stopped all sex now she is a Christian

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with this amazing girl and have been for over a 18 months, when we first dated we were having sex twice a week. This carried on until about 12 months later when she asked if we can stop having sex as she is a ...

Is he lying? Says his kiss meant nothing. But my friends say he talks about me non-stop. Is he smitten?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - So this boy kisses me, and then when I try to question him about it, as I like him, he tells me it's nothing and we'd never be anything. Yet every single one of his friends and my friends say he talks about me non-stop, and stares at me, and gets...

Confused about my massage therapist's behaviour....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hello, My ex crush is a massage therapy, nd I was there last week.He was then very nice nd calm, nd I felt that he wanted to talk more to me, but we talked little because I was nervous. He looked all the time into my eyes even when I looked into his...

Should I approach him based on his body langauge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I usually prefer trying to give advice rather than ask... But there has been something- rather someone- on my mind since last January. I'm basically asking if he's interested (typical I know) by the signs I list, or if I should...

Can I date my ex-girlfriend's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me ten months back for no reason and I was fine with it since I don't believe in dragging along people against their will. Now I have realized my mistake that I shouldn't have fallen for her and now get the feeling that her...

Does she like me or was I just a fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for the last month or two, we had been talking online for a while and decided to hang out one day since we both live fairly close to each other. I thought we hit it off, we've been on a lot of dates together, having...

Why did he stop talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - so.. there is this guy i like .....i only have him for one class he used to say hi but not anymore he acts like i don't exist.......i never did anything mean and i didn't disrespect him at all why did he stop talking to me?.....and he has a ...

She said I have to gain her trust, how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I'm talking to a girl that I really like, and today I told her how I feel and she said she feels the same way but she is not ready for another relationship yet, and she said I have to gain her trust. I really like this girl but I feel like she ...

Dating disasters.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I'm in my early 30s. Never been married have no kids etc A couple failed relationships early in life abs believe me I'm glad they fell through looking back now. But I worry that I'll never find a good long term realtionship or have a family of my ow...

Its only been a month but we are in love, and now I find out he is never willing to leave his small town....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now, and we've already fallen in love. Problem is, he lives four hours away from me in a small town. With his parents, and just recently finally found a job. Me on the other had, I have had a job of four years, ...

I went on a training course. Unbeknown to me he went on a trip with his ex. How do I cope with all the turmoil in me over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I feel as if I have somehow lost myself. I am an almost thirty year old woman, and have lived a fairly adventerous life. I have traveled, studied, and most of the things people talk of doing. I have never had a serious relationship unt...

How do I cope with the downsides of a FWB relationship? tips please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - For those of you in a long distance relationship, how do you cope with saying goodbye (til next time)? I normally get a few days with my man every couple weeks but I only got one day this time around and at the risk of sounding like a big, fat ...

Is his choice just a convenient way for him to continueliving his single life and enjoy benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - About 7 months ago I got out of a long term relationship. Almost as soon as that relationship ended I began seeing a co-worker and friend of my ex-boyfriends (they are not great friends but they do work together and they have mutual friends and some...

Is his Ex trying to talk her way back into his life? If I confront him, he'll know I snooped.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Please help :/ A little back story: I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and we have known each other and been friends for 12 years. He broke up with his gf of 1 year about 2 months before we progressed into a relationship and made things o...

Over-reaction? "what girl did he get this from?" Suddenly he's lifted his game in the bedroom. Should I be worried that he may be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or I should be worried. When it comes to sex with my long-distance boyfriend, he's always been really simple/traditional/I'm not sure what to call it. Foreplay isn't much of a factor, barely any kissing, and we alwa...

Yes, drunk, I kissed a boy. Shall I tell my BF? But worse my BF did the same a year ago with a girl I know. Do I confront him with this new info on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - This is long. but please bare with me. Here it comes, the age-old question, manifested into one very weird situation: What is worse. emotional betrayal or physical betrayal? Here's the story. I am at university right now, i'v just finished ...

To Text or not to Text? Does it work for all or only for some?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Hi All. I was wondering what you think is an acceptable amount to text your partner? See, I was once in a long term relationship with a girl who would always send a text each day with 'Good Morning' and then 'Good Night' later on, as well a...

In love with my ex who I can't have, but I slept with someone else. Head is messed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - In love with my ex, but I slept with someone else. Here's the story. Long story short, my partner dumped me over 3 months ago now, but we carried on having sex until about a month ago, and now the ex seems to have lost interest in sex with me as t...

Dated him, dumped him, cheated with him, dated him again, I found out he was cheating, dumped him, then decided not to try again. But what if I should have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i liked this guy who use to be a player until he met me i dated him for a month, loved every min of it, and then i dumped him for my x.....a month later i ended up cheatin on my boyfriend for this guy, and then we ended up datin a month after that ...

I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend. How can I change both of these problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Here's all my relevant background information: - I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never even had a girlfriend. - I'm 5ft10 and weigh 150lbs. - I used to be a loser who was friends with losers. However, after I graduated high school, I abandon...