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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I think I hit and abused my gf while under the influence of alcohol!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - My life long best friend has been a girl we will call Jill, when we were 16 we decided that we would start dating. We have always had an amazing friednship and relationship. We are the type of couple that can go out with our friends and have fun ...

How can I keep other girls away from me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - yo, I've been having problems with girls eyeing me and asking me out. i keep telling them I'm with some one already. how can i keep them from asking me out when I'm already with someone?...

My friends think I'm a slut, I'm just trying to get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - It's been a year since, i guss you could call it a fling ended. For the first 6 months I couldn't really talk to any guys let alone flirt, now it seems i can't stop flirting, but i'm not at all attracted or want anything to happen between the guys i ...

I don't want this guy to think I'm one of the easy girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - He took my pin and number at a party like 6 months ago, and we talk on BBM. He called me once breifly. I find him attractive, and my feelings vary. Sometimes he puts ne off because he's so blunt and I find it rude at times. And other times he's ...

What can I do to look older so girls won't think a school boy is asking them out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - hiy guys so i'm 18 but i really don't look it people always are shocked when i tell them i'm 18. i don't have much a problem when people say this but when it comes to girls i feel like they think its a young kid sort of just looking for them...

I want to get better at socializing and get a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - I'm 25, and I have Asperger's syndrome, and I'm enjoying life now. Compared to high school and my teenage years, it seems better (and that was almost a decade ago). However, I want to get better at socialising; although I can do so in work (I ha...

He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...

How do I get some balance, peace, more social activities and some friends into my far too busy and exhausting life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - This is a bit long but this vent is a long time coming. Please... try not to look at this as "another loner bitching about pointless shit". I'm really desperate right now and I need some advice. Thanks in advance. A little background befor...

Why? He Suddenly changed his attitude, from being positive that things will turn out well to being negative about our chances

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I been in 3 yrs long distant relationship with this guy. He wasn't doing well in my country and left to go back to his own country. I visited him two times. we live half the planet away. it took 18 hrs to fly to him. We even plan to apply for work...

One week? silence. why hasn't he called me, text me, or asked to hang out again since our make-out session ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Ok so I went on a group date with another X It started off as just hanging out and catching up but it ended as a date. Anyways.. I thought we hit it off realllly good. He was complimenting me all night, we were talking all night, and he pointed ...

Will no contact work? To see if we miss each other or are better off ending the relationship? She is resistent to the idea.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - Been dating same girl for 4.5 years now. We dont live together and dont have children. Over last 2 years we have grown apart. Today we had a long talk and we both agreed we need time apart from each other. We decided a month of no contact would be...

How can I be more fun with my g/f? She thinks I'm boring

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - Hello I been running into a problem lately with my girlfriend and she thinks I'm boring. I don't know why I try to have fun she likes to sing dance and tell jokes(raunchy kind) and just be hyper and what not. I myself like to do these too maybe not ...

Am I horrible and selfish for not sleeping his way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - things have been rocky with my boyfriend lately. Our last fight was on our anniversary-month. He came over surprise me with a flower, letter and chocolate and in turn I gave him letter and a key chain bear. He told me he had to wake up 7am in the ...

Will lack of trust ruin everything? He keeps in regular touch with his ex's (plural). Our sex life sucks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year. We've both been in serious relationships that were not that great in the past. We've discussed marriage/kids and he's even asked me my ring size. Our relationship is perfect, except there's been a ...

Does he have commitment issues? Or do I wait longer for him to use the 'love' word?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend last year, via a mutual friend. We were introduced online (3 way convo on msn) and after 1 month, we decided to meet up. We got together two months later and have, so far been a couple for nearly a year. my problem is this; after ...

Do I keep going with her? Or give up on her until she is over her ex? Am I just the nice rebound guy to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - ok so feel a bit strange about doing this but really need some advice. I'm 31, pretty normal guy. Have had a very normal relationship history up to now - few happy long term relationships, few shorter term things. My issue is with my current ...

How can I get less nervous about sexual things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Recently, me and my bf started gradually doing more than just a soft kiss here or there. He's a gentle person (to me, at least xD) and he respects my boundaries, but I'm still nervous about these things, and talking about them, or hearing him talk ...

How do I instigate an maintain a long term serious relationship with a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - Hello There's this girl that I have been talking to for about 2 months already. She is wonderful and also a sweetheart, so you're wondering what's the problem here. The thing is that I have never been in a serious relationship before. I have o...

Girls around 18 how do you feel about thick black eyebrows? Should I trim them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - hey guys this question is mainly towards the girls around my age. I just came back from holiday and I've got a really good confidence boost just from relaxing. I have dark hair and big thick black eyebrows because I am black irish I sometime...

He seemed pretty disappointed. Even though he got real close. Does this happen often? How do I give him support over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so today me and my boyfriend got to third base. It was clear what his intentions were after a while, and I didn't really mind, I guess.... Only problem is, I couldn't...You know...and he seemed pretty dissapointed, even though he got me real ...