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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I move forward in our relationship when I can't stop thinking about her? I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - So here is my story. I will cut some stuff out but it will be a long one. My ex and I started dated for about 5 months. It had been a while since I had been with anyone and she had not been with anyone seriously since her divorce about a year ago...

Going to meet him. To talk. But can I get him to like me as more than 'friends'?i don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hi i'm a 23 year old female. I met my boyfriend 3 years ago as (then) just mates no emotional connection just friends. His little sister passed away and i was there for him. 3 years later i moved to a new city and it was a shock that he was movi...

My ex always tries to befriend my new boyfriends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My ex is so annoying he doesnt like it when i go out with somone else even tho the relationship has been over for nearly 2 years now. Whenever i get a new boyfriend he acts as if he is their best mate and never likes me to talk to them or be near ...

I want to get in shape!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Alright so I've been a little overweight for a couple years now and I'm beyond tired of it! I just want to get started on a healthy lifestyle and shed these 30 pounds off so I can be healthy and feel good about myself and have confidence. ...

Is he making excuses for me to not go out with him and friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have gone through some issues, mostly with me and my trust issues. Then when we were going through those, he became less and less sweet. He hasn't become mean; he's just become nonchalant and blah about everything, like he just ...

I can't guarantee I won't cheat on my boyfriend if I visit my ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. I wasn't too sure about going out with him at first, as he wasn't the type I would usually go for. I went for it, and found it the best decision I'd ever made. He is the most caring, ...

If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...

Where do I stand with this girl? Friend Zone? Or more if she re-thinks her stated intentions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - The first few weeks of university have been a true whirlwind experience and yesterday, I went out with a girl who I really like. We had a few drinks and then headed back to her appartment where after a drink she told me that she "didn't want to ...

Is he interested or just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Me and this guy went to two parties, made out at both if them. We went on a date on the weekend, he paid for cinema, food and cab. I said I liked him and he said that he's not looking for a relationship, he has uni applications and a business...

Am I a loser? And is it wrong that I no longer miss my ex-girlfriend? Is that normal after 14 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend me dumped 14 months ago, saying I would never get a good job thus wouldn't be able to give her financial stability. She used to call me a loser which would make me laugh. I am still doing smaller paying job and I am fine with this los...

What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you" after an argument?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you _____ (my name)"? We had an argument on the phone last night about his hot and cold behavior with me which has been pretty consistent throughout our entire relationship (pr...

When someone just wants sex, do they avoid affection like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - How does a man act if it's "just sex"? I've been seeing this man. We slept together once and since then I've tried not to see him, but I keep ending up seeing him and we kiss. We can never be together - there are so many reasons. Our situations i...

How do I not ruin this relationship, due to my insecurities over failed past relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I have had a really bad relationship in the past that was emotionally abusive and resulted in me being very insecure. He cheated on me repeatedly, lied about even basic things and put me down constantly, when he kicked me out I was left pretty d...

I think I've made the biggest mistake of my life ending my affair. Don't want to be hated. But how do I make this work out right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - Hi, not sure how to start this but hoping to get some good advice. I have been with my wife for 9 years married for 4 and last year i had an affair for 3 months with a woman who is friends with one of my friends. There was a connection from ...

How do I get through to him? He doesn't want these two people at our wedding, Because he thinks they dislike him and his son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and plan to get married. We just had a huge argument because he feels that one of my friends and one of my family members do not like him and his son (from previous relationship). He thinks this...

I am Jealous of my boyfriend's sister! Am I out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I am 17 and I have been with my boyfriend (20) for over a year. His sister is my age and she has hated me ever since we started dating. His sister and I used to go in the same school (now I'm not going to school because I can't afford it, my fath...

He loved me. Is he over me now? Would it be OK to tell him why I could not respond? And ask for a new chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - About 3 months ago, I met this really great guy. I'm not just saying this either, he was very genuine and sensitive. The problem was that I had recently gotten out of a 4 year relationship (7 months prior) and still had my "guard" up. I never really ...

How do I show my boyfriend how much I appreciate his kindness to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Today my boyfriend bought a computer for me knowing I desperately needed for my college. I have spent most of my time at the library, I don't have to now, thank-you to him! I said thank-you so many times today, I feel I can't say it enough. I have ...

My jealousy is getting in the way of the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - hey dearcupid.. im a very jealous person , and i see my boyfriend almost everyday. When my boyfriend and i are apart, and hes with his friends , i seem to always get an attitude because of me being jealous , and i try not to show it , but he still...

I'm terrified that I'll never fall in love again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

7 October 2011 (?) - Ever since I broke up with my ex 2 years ago I havent been able to have feelings for any other guy. I was madly in love with him and he broke my heart. I have been on many dates but when it becomes remotely serious I just back out and think I can'...