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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't feel the same, I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I want to tell a guy i,ve been dating I love him but I know that will finish us dating 4-5 months now and I really love him and I know he doesn't feel the same. How can I approach this with him or should I leave it alone...

Should I tell him that I know about his activity on the swingers' site?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - hi, my bf and myself are in our mid forties, and been together for just over a year. I am very attracted to my bf and i can honestly say that this is the first man i've been with that i really don't want anyone else and never look at another ...

Worried about visiting my mother without my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi there! I need a little bit of help! Im a 21 yr old female at uni. I live with my boyfriend who I met at uni 2 years ago and we have lived together from practically the first time we met! I'm very attached to him and I know I love him lots, an...

B/f flirting with friend and now we've had a falling out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I need advice. So i just posted a question about the same topic but the problem has grown and got worse. So a knew boy came to live near me, i have known him form being tiny, our familys know eachother and they knew eachother as kids. His mum was ...

Contact fizzles out after a date, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I have been a member on a dating website for a couple of months now,and have met a few different people,and the same thing seems to happen. There seems to be interest at first,and then it fizzles out. I actually made it through a few dates with t...

I like a girl, but her cousin is my friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Hi So im here to talk about my issue and i do know its not a huge problem but it does mean lots to me. So i'v seen this girl many times and iv always liked cute girls so anyway this girl lives in my neighborhood and when i mean with seen the gi...

He doesn't speak for days after we've seen each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - i only see my boyfriend once in a while, but when i do see him, he doesnt really talk to me for like 3 or 4 days afterwards. We are both grown adults. Why do you think he does this?...

Commitment - Phob - a load of BS??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I have been "seeing" this guy for about six months now. We sleep together regularly...we spend a lot of time together...alone and in groups - we share many mutual friends. We have never labeled what "We are" but we both acknowledge our care for one ...

B/f says I'm not his rebound, but I worry about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi. Well this is a strange question, I guess what I’m asking is if my relationship seems normal and that I’m not being used as a rebound. Firstly, we have been together ten months, nearly eleven. I met him four months nearly five months after he had ...

What are some of the easiest ways for a 23 year old man to get a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - I am just trying to brian storm on how I can meet some desireable women? Meaning young ladies who are good hearted and not sassy in their attitudes, are not male bashers and have a sweet and loving attitude towards guys. I'm very forgiving so I ...

Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...

do guys even want to be in a casual relationship with a girl who doesn't want to offer him sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - i've recently starting hanging out with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl. this works for me as i'm not interested in anything serious, i just enjoy the flirting and the company because we are both attracted to each other. the ...

B/f wants to give me oral sex but I feel insecure about it

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi :) So just wanted to talk about a problem im having and hope you guys can offer some reassurance.. Iv been dating a guy for about 3 months now and its all going great. we've been sleeping together for about a month now and really care about ...

Why do I have the worst of luck in everything, including love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - My main question here is why do I have the worst luck. I wonder, am I cursed? I mean, I haven't had one girl say that they liked me, I also was rejected once. I don't mean to start any religious conflict, but does someone "up there" hate me?? Let me ...

23 and never been kissed or in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Why am I single? I feel like everything I do gets effed up or something. And really badly too. The guys that are into me I'm not into. The guys who it was mutual with either didn't want to be in a serious relationship or there was a whol...

How to win his heart back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - what do you do when he claims he doesn't like you anymore, but deep down you know he does...how do you win his heart back, or atleast get him to admit that he still has feelings for you, i've seen it in movies but movies lie :(...

Should I let him say he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend, and he says he loves me. I'm 16 and he's 15. It's probably not love rather than it is an infatuation...But do I let him say that he loves me? ...

Is spending most of his free time with me how he shows his love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - We've been together 1 year--overall it's been good, but because he's so reluctant to verbalize his feelings and can't financially really buy me "stuff" (that I really don't need or want to be honest), I grasp for other signs of his love. I ha...