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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What exactly constitutes a "first move"? And how can I be sure that I have not made the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I was just reading another post and one of the answers was to NEVER make the first move and I suddenly thought "S***! I don't know if I accidentally made a first move or not!" I understand the psychology behind this idea - that some guys l...

Sometimes I feel like I'm never going to have a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - I'm very nice, mature, really sweet, really cool, smart, funny, strong, and tough. I have the confidence to ask out a girl. Do you think I'm likable to girls? I never had a girlfriend before and sometimes I feel like need one. I always wanted to...

He said he'd come over, I gave up, he then left a message. I ignored it. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hi I just started dating some one! He called me last night said he wanted to seeme before leaving town. His daughter called him and wanted him to come and see her before he left town. He ask me if he could come over when he got back from his ...

Why does my B/f still have pictures of his ex girlfriends on his laptop? Would it be unreasonable if I asked him to delete them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together one month, but we were seeing each other before that for about 4 months as I moved away and we had liked each other for a year previously, now were finally together I couldn't be happier, although I seem ...

How do you tell your boyfriend you were a text sex maniac?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I,ve decided to come clean with my boyfriend. we're dating nearly four months and he deserves to know the truth as He told me all his secets. I used 2 be a sex text maniac. I used to text guys off the internet and we'd send each other pictures I,ve ...

Please help me figure out the female mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - Why do girls act so strange? I have a huge crush on one of my co workers and I have been told by 2 of the girls we work with that she likes me too. We hang out all the time at work and even recently outside of work. I month ago I asked her out and ...

I'm confused as to his true intentions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - i have been hanging out with a guy who's normally used to casual relationships. i told him from the start that im not the type of girl that is okay with casual sex, but yet he still asks to see me almost every weekend. when we hang out we talk most ...

First (proper) date. A kiss - yes or no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - Essentially, I met a girl a few weeks ago who I took to straight away. We text every day - pretty much all day (with a few exceptions). We've also been out for a drink (just the two of us) and even though I wouldn't have classed it as a date, I ...

She started off friendly but now she's reserved. I wanted to ask her out, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - Hey, i started uni a few weeks ago and in my first week, met a really cute girl. We got talking and exchanged numbers and chatted with each other a few times a week in person and via text. I was thinking on asking her out – go for a walk and get a ...

Why is my G/f behaving like this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - The first time discovered my girlfriend on the internet asking for quickies and affairs she became angry when I tried to discuss it and she just told me I`m paranoid and was being mentally abusive by making allegations through my own guilt, and I ...

I haven't had many boyfriends. Where is the best place to meet someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I'm 26 and not had many boyfriends, i'm quite shy and don't go out much - most of my friends have moved away and i prefer saving money. Where is the best place to meet someone? Are any online dating sites good?...

Is my B/f thinking about marriage and should I bring my feelings up in conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months yesterday. We have know each other since we were 13 and 14 respectivly, got to know each other better mid teens then became very close friends from the ages of 18-20 and now are a couple at 21 and 22. ...

He was cheating on me so we broke up, but then he contacted me again. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - hi,i am 19 yrs girl.i was in a relationship to one guy.he is my senior in my college.i love him a lot.i was in a relation only for 1 month..i understood that he was cheating me.his friends told that.and i heard from his mouth that he was cheating ...

When someone loves you, how do you really know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - hello all. I am going to be completely honest because I truly need advice or insight. I'm 33 will be 34 in january and I just broke up with my 21 year old ex. he just turned 21 this month also. But I guess I'm just confused about everything that ...

Should I tell my B/f about my dream?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Last night, I had a dream about me and my boyfriend making out. It was obvious we were going to do more in my dream, but I woke up before we got intimate. I need my fellow ants and uncles to give me their opinion. Should I tell my boyfriend abou...

He seems really interested in me, yet looking at his Facebook account, there are many signs pointing to the fact that maybe he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy at a club last night and we were interested in each other so we swapped names and numbers (I didn't kiss him or go back with him or anything, just talked). This morning he added me on facebook, has been texting me LONG texts all day, and ...

Should I be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I'm wondering if I should be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on. Here's the background: - We've been dating for almost 6 weeks - We live two hours away from each other - He told me...

Friendly flirting or more to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - Hi. I have a question about a girl I like. We work together in the same office. She likes to leave silly drawings on my desk, and has even drawn on my hands and arms at times (in front of other people). She can be quite touchy-feely and...

Pointers for a meaningful, healthy relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I dont claim to be a relationship guru, but I've got a few pointers that have worked for me. These are the five points of maintaining a meaningful, good relationship, and both males and females can get some use out of this. 1. Honesty- A relation...

Is it time to ask him if he likes me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connec...

Is it true that A Man can't win? Why does it seem that women are ALWAYS right? Feels like that to a guy !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - We've all heard the saying that a man can't ever win. But no-one ever explains why! So, quite simply, here it is. Women make the rules. And even if the man makes the rules, Women enforce them. For example, Have you ever had a situation that spa...

Do I need to explain to her that it will not always be this way? She ends up paying too often. It's temporary.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - So, i'm a teenager, in full-time education. I run a band, and the Band is getting more and more popular by the second, and have just signed onto a label. Unfortunately, this actually means being really busy, and getting literally no money. However, ...