New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (15), 2 (19), 3 (24), 4 (21), 5 (28), 6 (24), 7 (20), 8 (22), 9 (23), 10 (26),
11 (29), 12 (26), 13 (13), 14 (14), 15 (31), 16 (20), 17 (16), 18 (18), 19 (23), 20 (18),
21 (4), 22 (18), 23 (32), 24 (22), 25 (14), 26 (24), 27 (22), 28 (18), 29 (22), 30 (23),
31 (23),

Archived questions from: 31 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from October, 2011)

Dating: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

Am I just a convenient arrangement for him? Or am I being over-sensitive and too demanding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Am I just convenient? I have been dating a man for just over three months. He is 36, I am 34. At first everything seemed brilliant - he was attentive, complimentary and in constant contact. We were seeing each other for about two months before w...

Where do I go from here? Broken hearted. How long should I wait for to contact my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of one year recently broke up with me. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost the entire time, although I've bought plane tickets to visit her several times, and she came to stay with me for 8 weeks over summer where we ...

Does he like me or am I just "plan b" if he doesn't get her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - ok so my ex and I broke up and during this relationship my other ex(joe) and I stayed good friends,we often wrote on Facebook, he was often flirty and it seemed like he was waiting for me to become single again.(he is/was making out with a girl h...

Does this girl like me or is it just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - We work together in the same office. She likes to leave silly drawings on my desk, and has even drawn on my hands and arms at times (in front of other people). She can be quite touchy-feely and likes to hug me or pretend shove me. She texted m...

Could this be true? My friend is trying to convince me that "yes, this guy does love me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Alright so I have a slight problem. There is this guy that I really like... He and I have just met at the start of grade 10 and We've somehow become really close, we talk a lot, and we walk home together everyday, or when we can. Recently about two ...

Why does my boyfriend's behavior change every time his female cousin is around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have a question if my boyfriend starts to act funny with me every time when female cousin of his comes around I mean to the point that he avoids my touch and doesn't wanna kiss me or he turns to see if she is in the room or watching him should I ...

Boyfriend likes me to refer to him as daddy is this a red flag?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes likes to refer to himself or have me refer to him as "daddy". Is this a red flag that he's someone i should never have a child with, or am I overthinking this? ...

How do you feel it is or isn't appropriate to express affection to your loved one around family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I'm in a serious relationship for the first time in my life. Our families have never met or seen us together but they will soon. His family is very openly affectionate and so I wouldn't worry about sitting with an arm around him now and then or ...

Why does he want to have a baby with me and not get married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for nearly a year, and living together for over 6 months. He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's. We both have been divorced. He recently expressed that he wants to have a baby, and we agreed ...

I've developed feelings for my girlfriend's amazing new best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i ...

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (?) - Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...

Guys don't mention rings this casually, do they? Why would he do this at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I was relaying things that happened at a wedding I attended Saturday to my boyfriend via text. The bride and groom entered the reception hall on a Harley. My boyfriend sent a joking text asking if the bride's wedding ring was chrome. He then...

I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...

Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...

Should I choose to not marry him? And take action to get him to give me my money back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - ive done something really stupid and need some advice as to what i should do. My boyfriend who i havent known all that long is from a diferent country. Possibly quite jealous and possesive. He works and so do i, but i make more money than him. he ...

In Turmoil. How can I resolve my Commitment issues? my girlfriend has given up on me :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - Hi Folks, Commitment issues of my own have caused my girlfriend to give up :(! I'm after some advice, not sure if anyone can help, but basically the story goes like this: My girlfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We had a long ...

Seeing the guy I like again soon.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I'm 18, and I've known this guy for almost 2 years now. I have of course liked other guys before him, but this was totally different. I pretty much feel like he's the one (in the back of my mind at least) but we go to different colleges now, and ...

After 2 bad break-ups I don't want to get serious with anyone because I don't want to be in love again, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - This post won't be very long, I just need a little input and help. I've had two VERY bad break ups within the last 4 years (I'm over them, by the way) and I've been sitting here thinking about why I'm not in a new relationship. I've been on man...

My bf is convinced I'm in love with my friend (which I'm not!) and now he wants to speak to my friend's pregnant and emotional wife to see how she feels about our friendship!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (I will name "Ned") for about 17 years. "Ned" broke up with me about two and a half years ago saying I wasn't "the one" and he wanted to find her and didn't want to waste more time with me. I had wanted to get ...

I'm afraid to bring it up, but how long do I wait to see how this relationship plays out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. We've been together just over a year. I know someone said you can't love the potential, you have to love the person where they're at now. But I find myself doing both. He really does need me for several reasons. And I need ...

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only been going out a few weeks, (i know im probably being silly about this but i want to be sure). we talked a ton before we went out (we were friends for 2 years). so over the past 5 weeks or so we would talk every night, ...