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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Could this just be lack of experience on his part?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I have a question about men and sex. Recently I started seeing a new man, he is in his late 20's and not very experienced. He told me he didn't really enjoy penetration and could take it or leave it. When he does have sex he tends to favour girl o...

Do I tell her I invaded her privacy and looked through her phone to get some answers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 4 months now and things have been great. I knew she had an x-boyfriend, as most people do by your early 20’s, but when she spoke of him it was never that she longed for him, there was mostly resentment for the way ...

Should I wait for him to text? Or should I text him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Should I text him? So, I met this guy, and I really like him. Apparently we've known each other since we were kids (which I don't remember.) and I've seen him lately, but I've never actually talked to him until 2 weeks ago. So, he and I really s...

I'm just not interested in having a relationship. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (?) - I'm just gonna' jump right in here... Almost a year ago I lost my Dad. At the time I was in a relationship that was coming to an end. Anyway, when my Dad passed my partner at the time told me she was pregnant. But because of the timing of my Dad...

What are the ethics of dating and intimate relationships in the workplace?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I would like to ask a question....what do ypu think of intimate relationships/dating between co-workers? for example are they right? should they be avoided? also is dating between a boss/supervisor and a lower worker ethical? also can some of the ...

Should you date again if you aren't completely over an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Is it wrong to start dating again even if you aren't completely over an ex? My last relationship was short term, but it me and her shared an amazing connection and our break up was purely circumstantial. The break up happened several months ago so I ...

My FWB is being far too casual with me. Is he losing interest?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I don't understand my FWB guy. He seemed really into me and said that he just wanted "a bit of fun" I am fine with this. But what I don't get is that I just hardly ever hear from him. If I text him he doesn't always reply we're supposed to be m...

I fell in love with my cousin's cousin. Should I try to pursue him or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I have never done this sort of thing before but I have run out of options and advice from friends. I fell in love with my cousin's cousin and need some advice from a stranger. So here's my story. I have known him since I can remember...

How should I control my jealously and this shock that my girlfriend defeated me in a game of soccer?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Six months back, I started teaching Soccer to my girlfriend. We have been together two years. Two days ago, we had one-to-one match and I got shocked to death that she beat me by 6 goals to 3, out smarting me in every aspect of the game. It got ...

My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...

Am I having a mid life crisis? It seems so important to increase the number of woman I have sex with. So would paying for it be a quick solution?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I am single and am no spring chicken anymore, although Im not exactly geriatric either. In my life I havent really had many girlfriends and can count the number of sexual partners I've had on one hand. Im starting to feel that 'I've missed out...

Help! Getting mixed signals from my man. Is it a casual relationship or more serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - OK, so this is a bit of a long winded one so bear with me and apologies in advance :) I am 29, have been separated from my ex husband for 18 months and have a two year old little boy. I met a guy, lets call him J, in April through mutual f...

Why did my last guy refuse to give me another chance? I know I cheated. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Since as long as I can think back I have cheated on every guy I dated. I had been with my soul mate now for 9 years. For 2 years I did resist cheating except for the first 6 months. We was about to set a date to marry when he found out I was sex ...

What is do the numbers signify? What's normal for you? Is more sex with more people success? Or is more relationship with one person more?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Out of curiosity, how many a) romantic relationships (i.e. dated for a while, no sex) b) full-on-committed relationships (i.e. with sex) and c) sexual relationships did you have by the time you were 22/23? This question is both for men and wom...

It's not official. So is it wrong to be dating two guys at once? and how do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am dating two guys at once and it feels like cheating to me even though I'm not officially with either of them and its just dating. I was assured by a friend (having been single a long time and out of the dating game) that if your a free agent ...

Am I too sensitive? Or is he insensitive? And when do you call it quits when it comes to a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I am engaged to my guy for a year and a half now. In the beginning everything was great, I was completely ready to marry my guy. However, the past 6-8 months is making me re-think this whole marriage thing. We're hardly ever intimate, we har...

She contacts me all the time. I ignore her. I am heartbroken. How do I move on? How do I forget her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - I Just recently broke up with the love of my life. We broke up about a month ago. I cant stop thinking about her. I want to so badly. I broke her heart and i want to forget her. I cant. I thought maybe I can get her back, But i realized the...

Don't want to scare him away. But how can I drive him wild and make him fall for me? Any reliable strategies please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now, we've been just friends, but recently he's been texting me about hooking up and being friends with benefits. But he even said a couple times that it would just be fun, nothing serious; so I guess that mean...

Everything was great, why is he pulling back now? Has he changed his mind or is this some sort of freak out that will run its course?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I'm dating this great guy, but he's been pulling back for a couple of days and I'm wondering what's going on. We've been dating for about three weeks. We live in two different cities so its about a three hour round trip for him to come visit. H...

Why do I have trouble completing sex in a committed relationship yet can reliably cum during flings and one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a bit confused here, I'm 20 years old, and have only had 2 SERIOUS relationships, the previous lasting 4 years, and one currently. In between, and before the relationships I've had several flings / one night stands, etc. I've noticed I...

My fiance is inexperienced in so many ways. Should we grow old together and learn together? Or should I call it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Would you be worried if your fiance was inexperienced? Inexperienced with life, relationships, and sex. Would it be enough to call it off, even if everything else compatibility wise was perfect? Any input would be greatly appreciated. ...

B/f recently told me that one of his girlfriend's was a prostitute! Now I cannot get the nasty image out of my head

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - During an argument, my boyfriend of almost a year, revealed to me, that in his past,many years ago, that he had a girlfriend who was a hooker. He could see in my eyes how disgusted I was, and of course I said I wanted to vomit. Now, days later, I ...

My crush isn't showing any interest, should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

6 October 2011 (?) - After you've known your crush for a month and after you've been talking to him and trying to get know him And yet he still doesn't really show any interest Would it be best to just leave him alone Or just tell him how you feel so that he'll know?...

My boyfriend is taller than me, and I don't know how to kiss him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Ok so i'm 13, never had my first kiss, but i have a boyfriend in 8th (i'm in 7th). We have been together for like 2 days but i know the kiss is coming sooner or later (dont judge). I'm a shortie 4'9" and he's 5'8" big diffrence to me. To get the ...