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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's flirty on videochat but then gave me a raincheck for a kiss, said he's not ready for a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. He is in a couple of my friends classes and we met several weeks ago. The thing is that we both just got over relationships. He says he needs time but we video chatted for hours late into the night. I asked him to tutor me. ...

Her parents are trying to split us up, because they say our horoscopes don't match

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - hello everyone, please help me...please help me out.as i write this i have tears rolling dowm my eyes...guys please advice i am 23 years old..freshly passed out dentist and live in mumbai,india.i have a girlfriend since two years.she too is a d...

Should I ask her out? Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - I used to be really close to a group of girls and suspected one in particular 'liked' me. We were all about seventeen and used to play around together, doing things like spin the bottle, and felt dead comfortable. One night we all slept in the bed ...

I'm falling for a coworker while working abroad. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I recently started working an overseas job that will last for about 7 months. Unfortunately, I am really starting to fall for a colleague. We have so much in common and get along really well, but since I don't know how he feels about me I have kind ...

A girl at work is very touchy-feely with me but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - A girl I like text me to wish me happy birthday. She works with me and is quite a bit younger than me (I'm late 20s, she's early 20s). The texts were really informal, call me by my short name and had lots of x's in them. She even sent a text (the ...

Does he really care... so confused!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - ok heres my problem, i have known this guy friend of mine for five years and we have always been just friends but, he is the sweetest thing such a gentleman always bought me presents never asked for anything in return. we lost contact for a couple ...

I'm in the closet and like my best friend. How do I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - Im 16 and gay (closeted) and i have a huge crush on my best friend. I just need some advice on how to go about getting with him or at the least coming out to him. I dont know his sexuality. Everytime i see him i i just want him more and more. Pl...

She moved in with me after her divorce, am I being used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - Well I'm at a real loss here About a month ago I moved in this girl I met online like 6 months ago,because she is getting divorced,and was kicked out of her place,along with her 2 kids both under 2,anyways during the course of our short "friends...

Ladies: describe your PERFECT date!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - This one is for the ladies - Just wondering, how would you describe your perfect date? Be as original or cliche as you want i'd just love to get some real life ideas! :) Thanks...

How can I ask her out in a non-intimating and non-pressured way and have the ability to keep a good friendship going if it goes wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - Now i'm sure this is a question that pops up here CONSTANTLY but it's troubling me and i'd like to get 'personal' answers. I've been friends with a girl for a couple years and we've had on/off feeling for each other however never at the same tim...

My boyfriend is always eyeing other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I have this boyfriend who is always eyeing woman... he has posters and wallpapers and always rubbernecks anywhere. He's mentioned "I don't need any restrictions." And I'm sitting here feeling even lower then I do because I know I don't look like ...

Nice guys finish last

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - Nice guys are divided into 2 catagories. The first is the "self proclaimed" (SP). this is the guys that seems to scream, "I'm a nice guy!" These guys are oozing charm on the surface but when you get down to it they are just your "typical male". They ...

Had my first kiss with a guy I like then I find out his ex is having his baby....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - This guy in my college class has been flirting with me for the past few weeks. He's 26, I'm 20. His flirting hasn't been inappropriate just some "You look beautiful" kind of flirting. Yesterday I decided to go for it and we went to his house to ...

Are there any suggestions you guys have about getting to know someone you like a little better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

19 October 2011 (?) - Are there any suggestions you guys have about getting to know someone you like a little better? me and my crush we are cool and we talk frequently but he seems to be in his own little world and is always on his phone listening to music or texting ...

I'd like to let him know how I feel

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I went on a "date" with a man tonight. We went out for dinner, and played pool, spent a good 4 hours together, talking and laughing the whole time. He has made me dinner twice in the past month, and we have casually gone to the driving range once ...

Guys: What happens when a girl tells you she loves you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - Guys? What happens to you when a girl tells you she loves you? How do you feel? and what do you do about it? ...

Falling in love with my former cousin by marriage and not sure what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - I am quickly falling in love with my former cousin by marriage and i dont know where to turn, how to approach, if i should approach, how to present to our family if im reading the signs from her correctly, everybody still considers us cousins even ...

How do I convince her that I'm worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (M) - I am currently trying to mend a relationship that ended because she freaks out at any sign of commitment. We still talk everyday and hang out, she said she doesn't want anything but then says she wants to try and that she really likes me. every time ...

Could this just be some twisted way of ending the relationship with me because I was a bad kisser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I have this guy in a college class of mine and he has been flirting with me a lot. Yesterday I finally told him he should ask me out. We went to his house and watched a movie, ended up kissing and cuddling during the entire film. So he walks me back ...

Advice for pursuing men in their forties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (?) - I met a man a few weeks ago through a social group. I got a good vibe and find him attractive in an unconventional way. I would have guessed he was in his mid-thirties, but I've just discovered he's 46 via Google. I'm 30. The oldest person I've ...

You shouldn't have to convince someone to love you...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has told me twice in one year that he loves me. We have talked about possible future plans and he has said it really freaks him out to say how he feels about me. I think he's afraid that he may be on the path to marriage but is not ...

How the HELL did this happen!?!?!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 14, turning 15. Today, I realized I like (like as a bf) someone that i thought i hated for a long time! Me and him always argue about something but we have mutual friends so we end up together a lot. Recently me and him ended up actually ...

I've been very good to my boyfriend from day one, but there has been a constant lack of appreciation and investment at his end..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I've been very good to my boyfriend from day one. I have the ability to anticipate his needs or actions to a fault. He told me to ask him for what I want in the relationship. I don't need much, but the few times I have asked, he hasn't followed ...