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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

It started as a rebound. Then we broke up. Now we are trying again.Can this relationshionship survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - What are the chances a relationship will endure if a couple break up because of character differences and unacceptable behavior (alcholism, etc.) but, get back together because one or the other is lonely? Is it possible in the long run, if the...

An ex has approached me. Should I let my Bf sort this out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Okay so here is my problem.. i have a boyfriend of a month and nearly 2 weeks, but one of my ex's has started saying things to me. He is an ex from about two years ago. He was saying things like, "i used to get lost in your eyes" and "i cant stop ...

Cadet crush. How can I get him to talk to me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - So I am a new cadet I started pretty late and there is a chief that I really like who is there. He is probably one of the coolest guys I have every met. I dont see him often because hes a really high rank and doesnt teach classes and the other thing ...

Wondering for the future: Would a 5yr age difference between a 23yr old woman and an 18yr old guy be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering what people think of 4/5 year age gaps in relationships? To give you a bit of backstory - I used to suffer with really terrible anxiety. At 15 I had a sort of breakdown, dropped out of school and just stayed at home. For about...

How do I keep my family close while I keep my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - hi everyone. this isn't a major issue, but i don't know. Amd I know there are many kind ,caring agony aunts here who maybe could spare some thoughts and their experiences. i'm 19 yr old girl .i'm the only child to my parents ..they love me d...

Should I have a woman to woman talk with his ex? he talks to her every day. What should I do about him not answering me when it comes to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. Our relationship moved pretty fast, we seemed to click right away and began spending all of our time together. While he did disclose that he was separated and getting a divorce he failed to tell me that he ...

How do I get over it? Nothing hurts more than realizing she meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. It was my fault we broke up. I take full responsibility. I was drunk went on the computer and talked to this girl inappropriately and she looked through my stuff and found the conversation. We broke up and ...

I don't want to end up getting attached to someone who I'm going to end up having to take care of like a baby when I'm older.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, To make it kinda short and sweet, I'll just get right to the point. I've been dating this guy who's two years older than me for about four years now. I'm 18, he's 20. Being a Senior this year at high school, it defiantly go...

A little primer on women and sex...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...

Anyone have experience with a partner that has abandonment issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - We've been together a year. My boyfriend has significant abandonment issues (mother left him for several years as a child and father passed away). I do everything I can within reason to ensure he feels secure in our relationship and to prove to ...

Where can we go to get him a girl and what can I do to help him stop being so negative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - My friend is 21 years old and he constantly moans that he can't get a girlfriend and that every girl he's been with only lasts a month!He keeps asking me whats wrong with him and I lie to him saying I don't know but the fact is He's a very needy and ...

I have recently met a lovely guy, I like him a lot and we have a lot of chemistry... but he's married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone:) Just want you opinions on something... I have recently met a lovely guy, I like him a lot and we have a lot of chemistry... but he's married. He has been separated from his wife for a few years and they are in the process of sellin...

I have a boyfriend but have a major crush on another boy! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hi! Okay, I'm having an issue. There's this boy. Let's call him Tom. I used to be bestfriends with his sister and I used to have a MAJJOR crush on him. I was like IN LOVE with Tom. I thought he felt the same about me, but then people spread rumors ...

Do I go for a man who has long term suitability or one who I feel attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - In such a dilemma!! Im 23 and hav met a lad who is 25,get on so well with and he has a really good job, a nice car and would def be a good long term partner. I am attracted to him but not as much as a lad i work with and this is my problem, he is on...

Have I loved him or strung him along? Do I wait for him now or try and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - So I've got an issue, and I'm not sure what to do. Really quick five year history... When I was 16 I was in a relationship with a guy. His mother passed away two months into our relationship, and I helped him as best I could through that. A year ...

I can see myself falling for him but do I need to cut my losses now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hello. I just need to write this out and check that I'm not being stupid/naive/optimistic/all of the above, and hopefully get some sound advice. Having split up from an unhealthy relationship earlier this year, a few months back I decided that I s...

I'm uncomfortable getting naked, will it turn him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Ok. So my boyfriend invited me over to his house next week. His parents are going to be out of town and we're going to have the house to ourselves. I've gone upto second base with him but I think he intends to go further this time (not that I have a ...

How do I tell my co-worker that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Please help me. Im in love with a guy at work. The problem is we both work for the same company but in different branches. And we meet only once a week when he comes to visit the branch where i work. I dont know much about him. All i want to know is ...

My Gf wants to get a tattoo of her ex who died and it worries me that I'll always be a second choice in her life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - Hi i am in a dilema my girlfriend wants to get a tattoo of her ex 's name who died it worries not cause im jealous but because im afraid of being her second choice and not being able to make her as happy as he did i dont wana tell her not to get the ...

Ideas for a first date? Would it be too forward to invite her to my apartment to watch a hockey game?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - alright so there is this girl in one of my classes at university and i really want to ask her out. We have gotten to know each other a bit in the 2 1/2 months that we have been in class together, we usually end up sitting next to each other and get ...

I want to go back to being straight. But I'm confused that I may be bi-sexual? How can I be sure I will end up with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - hello everyone. i'm 31 year-old, male and i'm confused if i'm a bisexual man, gay, or still straight man. i've been into a relationship with a guy for 6 years. we started as friends became close and we just love each other. he gave me extra atte...

I'm in love with my dad's 70 year old friend and I don't mind if he's out to have fun with me, because I still want him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - hi, I truly have feelings for someone who is about 70.He is my dad's friend.At first, he showed an interest in me.then he managed to get me be alone with him.He said stuff like, he's never taken to anyone like he did to me.He was so romantic...

I would hate to fall for her and find out she's playing me.Am I a convenient fantasy or a genuine love interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I met a woman online in a chat room. It wasn't any sort of "Adult" chat room. It was just casual. She lives one state over from me, but we have never met. At first we were just friends, but over time our conversations became more intimate and ...

Why does my friend think I will be old & lonely? It hurt when she said that..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Why does she think I will be old and lonely when am older? kinda hurt.? I met this older friend at work and there was this guy there that liked me and I liked him. I left work for college now. But the guy has stood me up 3times and I'v...

He'll help his ex who is ill. He chooses to encourage me to pay off my debts. Is he just being kind? Am I making things out of stuff that isnt there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Ok I know this may sound trivial but given the past couple of months in my LD relationship I dont want to mess anything up. I have posted quite a few times on here and always got good advice. I saw my LD bf last week and had a fanstastic weekend....

Have I been an idiot for trying to restart this? Or does it look like I have a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I would like to get some ideas about the following. Yes, I already know I am a fool. No need to tell me again. About 6 months ago I have been dating a woman. We went out for 5-6 times and I had the idea everything was going fine. One day she send me ...

The guy I've been dating isn't very well endowed. Any tricks/positions/hints/anything to make sex more pleasurable for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - I need help ASAP! The guy I've been dating/hooking up with isn't very well endowed. I've been trying to add things such as foreplay into it but he is quite terrible at fingering me but is very very talented in eating me out. So, just wondering, what ...