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*ebeccaa
writes:Okay so here is my problem.. i have a boyfriend of a month and nearly 2 weeks, but one of my ex's has started saying things to me. He is an ex from about two years ago. He was saying things like, "i used to get lost in your eyes" and "i cant stop looking at you" he also said called me gorgeous and he said he wouldnt mind if i kissed him.I told my boyfriend as soon as i saw him but now i feel bad because i feel like im going to cause a big argument, my boyfriend says hes going to have a word with him and tell him to leave me alone. Was i right in telling him or have i done wrong? Is me ex starting to like me again? What do i do about it?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 That sounds like a good plan to me.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (12 November 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou, i made out to my ex that i didnt realise what he was doing because i thought it might have been awkward if i did since it has been so long since we split up. Even though if he does continue to say things like that to me i will tell him im not interested and i've moved on.
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (12 November 2011):
Telling your boy friend was a great move. you should have told your ex yourself that you didnt want anything from him because you have a bf and asked him to stop approaching you in that way first though. So if I was you I would tell your ex that he is intervening in your relationship and to stop. Then tell your bf that you handled it he will be proud and feel like he can trust you to do the right thing when he isnt around
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reader, The Realist +, writes (12 November 2011):
What you should do is make it clear who you want to be with. Your bf should not be going to confront your ex about this as it will most likely end in nothing getting solved.
Your ex may want many different things right now but what is important is what you want. You don't get to have them both and the less you mix the two of them the better. YOu really have to deal with this one on your own and make sure each one knows where your mind is at.
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