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writes:So I am a new cadet I started pretty late and there is a chief that I really like who is there. He is probably one of the coolest guys I have every met. I dont see him often because hes a really high rank and doesnt teach classes and the other thing is that hes a bit older than me by 2 years im 16 and hes 18. The thing is that because I rarely see him i havent had very much time to get to know him. In fact I tried improving my drill (marching and what not) just to impress him and actually he doesnt really notice. Im trying to get better so i can join the guard because he is the guard commander so I can be in his division. But the thing that could send all of this in flames is that fact that we are cadets and it is like cadet law that we can't fraternize (no lies its like written in stone) Honestly though there are people there who dont follow that rule and i mean even some of our officers have dated. But he is one of those guys who really takes cadets seriously. Its sad because when he was walking by he looked at everyone and then looked away from me (I always take a look at his eyes theyre like a really nice blue but they look amazing in moonlight How can I get him to talk to me more? I only see him at the beginning and end of cadets. When he is around sometimes I get a bit scared and dont look at him :(
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reader, Rawrsie  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Awww ;3. I have friends in JROTC that are high rank too :D. The thing is, you can keep on improving rank. Keep on going up with the quizzes and community service and you get to be in his squad. Since he's two years older than you than it will be hard to talk to him outside of school. The best solution I could think of is to get a schedule change and get P.E. That way you'll be out of it and the Cadet handbook won't catch you. First, rise yourself in ranks. Then when your in his squad talk to him about how to march and do commands. When he falls for you (I think) quit the class. He'll be wanting to talk to you some more if you became friends. Afterwards you can try to be a couple. This will take A LOT of time if you're up for it.
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