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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Date night plans may not work with football! Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing this man who is roughly the same age as me (two years difference in age - he is 25, I'm 23) for a couple months now, after speaking to him for a month via emails and texts. He is due to come back from a weeks' holiday a...

I think he's technically be cheating. Should I be concerned? Considering that he is completely satisfying me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hey... I am in a relationship that has been going on for 9 months and it has come to my attention that my bf is 'cheating' on me. I know it sounds strange but I am unsure of how I feel about this. Basically the situation is, my bf is lovely, ...

I find it hard to believe this girl is totally inexperienced!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I'm reposting, because I accidentally posted this as a girl. I'm a guy, so if possible could you post this question again but as a guy asking, sorry for the inconvenience! I don't understand it, I met this girl who is breathtakingly b...

Would women 35-45 be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I am 28 right now. Since teenage , I have been really attracted to 34-45 age group girls. I find them extremely hot, polite and mature. I am dying to have girlfriend and wife being coming form this age group. I always compliment them ...

Will he call? Or is he afraid of rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - 1,5 months ago I was in the ER (I work as a doctor). I had a patient who, upon arriving was in a lot of pain. When it was all over a few hours later and he was pain-free, he told me a big thanks for the way I had treated him (by this time his father ...

I would love to see him again! What do I say or do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - On a cruise there was a very young entertainer half my age -we e mailed occasionally and now he is off the ship and in the city and I said I would be in the city for a day so we arranged to meet up in the afternoon for lunch and catch up with ...

Got through first date - now need advice for second date venues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Hey Aunts and Uncles - I asked the other day about first date advice. It obviously worked as I've got a second date next week!!!! So, the new question is where to go for a second date? The first was at a nice country pub for a meal (so not as ...

I need some ideas of where to take my girlfriend for New Year's Eve!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is coming to Manchester (UK) to spend New Years with me. Were both staying in a hotel from 28th December - 5th January. I have things planned to do for the entire time she's here.. But I'm struggling to think of what to do and ...

It hard to tell what his motives are

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - I like this guy in my Law class, but he's friendly with a lot of girls and it's difficult to tell if he feels for me properly. He has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, hugs and flirts a little with them (he does this with both sexes actually, ...

My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...

I'm not sure I like him staying with his 'mates' who has a sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi i have been with my bf 3 months now and i reeeeeli like him were quite close and passionate wen we see eachother! he's the type of guy thats almost too good to be true! he is really busy with uni work so we hardly see eachother maybe 1ce a week ...

Not Optimistic about Dates but any Thoughts??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - I started going out on dates with an old friend. We've known each other 5 years but things never moved on before now. He pursued me asked me out to a party and we had a great time. He wrote the next day to say thanks and asked me out again the next ...

My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please ...

My date is dating someone else! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, I met a girl online and struck up a conenction over a few weeks we corresponded one way or another everyday if more than anything she seemed keener so much so she was curious as to how many other people I was chatting with and teasing me a...

Why am I feeling such a strong sense of loss if I didn't even plan to have a baby and I know I wasn't ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi Im 21 and found out i was pregnant on Saturday, both me and my bf were not ready for a baby and it wasn't planned but we accepted it. On Monday I miscarried, it was only 3 - 4 weeks. Since then I haven't stopped crying, im not sleeping well and...

Should I consider Saving a Long-distance Relationship or Should I let it Sink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has recently brought up to me that the distance is tearing her apart, and she doesn't know what to do anymore. She talked about upcoming semesters and how much longer it will be until we see one another again. I asked her if she still ...

What can I say to this 20 year old guy who is interested in me? I'm hesitant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - I know this guy, he's 20 and am 31 i was just wondering why is he interested in me, when he can have anyone he wants? I am worried about the age difference when keep asking me out. i say sorry I'm too old for you and he says I'm not old. What d...

How can I trust him knowing he was sneaking around on some dating site?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs. Well just the other day I found out he signed up for a dating site. I know that it was somewhat recent because in his description it said has a kid and we have a 4 month old daughter together. Well I co...

How often do I take my girlfriend out? And where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I just got into a relationship with this amazing girl. She's funny, smart, nice, and beautiful, and we went on a first date, we held hands, went roller skating, it was nice, now this is my first gf, so I don't know what to much. My friends say that ...

They tolerate each other. And I should be able to choose between the two. But who can I choose and live with my decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship off and on for years with my ex. we could not seem to communicate effectively and I fell out of love with him long before I asked him to leave. only due to conveniences I lived with him. He kept a job and prov...

Good Friends..... into lovers despite her parents arranging a marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Hi, Basically, me and my best friend, who I met through a mutual friend, back in October 2010. (Mutual friend is not in contact with us anymore, moved country) We both wanted to be friends, and she is my type, and she is 20 and im 22. Me and he...

Does her actions mean she doesn't think I'm a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - I met this girl some time ago during a rough point in my life. Everything was great. She was independent, beautiful, sexy and sophisticated. Above all real. I don't know why but once she showed me that she liked me I stopped seeing her. I have ...

18 in love with a man 30 years older than me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...

Should I try to work out something to be where this girl said she'll be or just bide my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I met a girl at a party the other week and we've been speaking for some time now. I asked her out for a drink to which she responded "yeah, sure if you go to mahiki next week you'll see me there". I'm unsure what to do, should I attempt to fix ...

How do I tell if my boyfriend wants a long term relationship or just likes stability?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm not sure if my bf wants to be with me for me, or if it's just the idea of a longterm relationship and stability that he loves. How do I tell the difference? I've been with my bf 1.5 yrs, we live in the same town, see each other about...