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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he really love me at all even with him behaving this detached way? Can he love if he's so detached?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy for about 8 months now. The first few months he was very detached and when I spoke to him about it, he made more of an effort to open up. It was going well, and then a couple weeks ago he tried to break up with...

Want him in my life. But he respects me more than I respect mysef.I want spects me more than I respect myself. How can I make this go forward, respectfully?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - There was a guy who I wasn't interested in who was pursuing me, i told him i didnt like him but wanted to be friends, 2 months later i fell for him....and 2 months later he slept with another girl. He eventually told me that he was pursuing me only...

I feel overcome with guilt for failing my values. How can I move forward without guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - How is it possible to experience sexual tension if you've never had sex? I don't think that everyone would believe me if I were to tell them but I'm 32 and have never had sex with a man. I'm starting to feel so overcome with sexual tension t...

I think I have got into a sexual rut. And I am at a loss,so what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I think i'm in a sexual rut. And I think this has been going on for a long time. Alright well basically a few days ago, I was masturbating, and had sexual lesbian thoughts. This has happened before, and it freaks me out. Mainly because the thou...

I feel I am projecting a fake image. Are my solutions going to fix this issue or is more needed to not project ''fake"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - Am I a horrible, fake person? I actually am starting to hate myself. This guy came back to mine last night and i realised I had hair extensions in, false eyelashes on, contacts in and dark makeup on!! It was projecting a complete false image, that i ...

I don't understand why I don't feel the same as I did toward her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - Funny thing...i always thought relationship were easy to read...and now however i am very confused... I've been with this girl for some time now...18 months...there was a spark at the begging...or mutual understanding...something that lead us to ...

How should I ask this girl out over facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - Over the past couple of days I’ve met a girl at university. We seem to be mutually interested in each other and I think I have a more than decent chance of successfully asking her out. Despite the fact she’s on my course, we are doing completely ...

Does it sound like this guy might like me, or am I imagining it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles. I have a problem: I'm really, really dense when it comes to knowing if a guy likes me! I've been trying to figure out what kind of signals this one guy is sending and I just have no idea... Can you help me? I met thi...

I need breathing space!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - How do i tell my bf to give me a breathing spaz without hurting his feelings...

Do I make plans without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I've been with my guy for nearly 3 months. We spent all the time we could together for the first few weeks, and it was amazing, loving, we felt very close. Then he had to move away temporarily for work for 4 weeks. We met up last weekend and had ...

I like both these girls,but I don't know if either of them like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I'm having girl problems at the moment. There are two girls in question here girl 1 and girl 2. Girl 1 I've liked for about 3 months now but because she lives about 30 miles from me we don't talk much, however I have heard stuff from her...

I feel like I'm not being fair to her. Our free time doesn't match up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - May i please have some advise? I haven't had much time to spend with this girl I am dating. And I feel real bad because I am always busy. I feel like it isn't fair to her. She really likes me. And I really like her. but our free time doesn't ...

She said we couldn't be together. Should I bring the subject up when I see her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - I am normally a confident cocky guy who knows it all when it comes to women, but i must admit i need your help. I met this girl and after spending some time with her I could tell she was the type of girl I wanted to be with. I am a guy who often in...

Girlfriend, ex-gf and bf problems! How do ask for my time and money back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - Hi, Girlfriend problem, So to start, we have known each other for 2 years and started dating 8months ago and we have been perfect all the way through. We live apart (50miles) but see each other once a week/2weeks. We are set to be engaged in the s...

I like her a lot, but I don't want to wait forever, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - Hi. I'm hoping I can get a little help with this situation I've found myself in. I met this girl a few months back. She started working at my office and we became pretty good friends, we would often tease and flirt a little with each other. I wa...

We were "together," while he had a gf, then he split, what was the story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - It had taken me a long time to get over a guy that I fell hard for. We had great chemistry but never wanted to make me his girlfriend. He's 34 and has joint custody of his son with an ex. I am just thirty, independent, hard working carreer woman. I ...

My Facebook posting upset our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I am in an LDR. It has been over a year since we met. Have been struggling a lot. It is more because of self created thoughts of insecurity even when he is honest, loyal and totally committed. I know this also but I just feel jealous of the people ...

I am not sure what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - I'm so torn... I've been dating this girl for three years, and things are great, except when they're not. For a good part of our relationship, we spent countless hours fighting about stuff that, in my opinion, shouldn't have been issues in the fi...