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*andomando
writes:I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. It was my fault we broke up. I take full responsibility. I was drunk went on the computer and talked to this girl inappropriately and she looked through my stuff and found the conversation. We broke up and for that month we talked all the time she texted me and cried at me and stuff.The beginning of october I saw her for the first time since we broke up. we talked mainly yelled at me and we started to make out. a week later this guy asked her to a dance. and as of yesterday they are dating. We dated for a year and she already replaced me. the girl i was talking to on the computer drunk, this guy is her ex. He cheated on her. he then had another girlfriend over the summer. They broke up two weeks after me and my girlfriend broke up. he cheated on that girl with two girls! so basically my exs new boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend and she just broke up with me. since we made out the beginning of october she basically moved on within a couple weeks. is that messed up or what?!we dated for a year. and she was the love of my life and meant more to me then anything. I loved her. I treated her like my princess because she was. and beside what i did, i did love her. What do u make of this? she said hes better then me shes rubbed it in my face. i cant believe she is already inanother relationship....her bf before me they dated for 4 months. he cheated on her. it took her 5 months before she dated again or started to talk to anyone. we dated for a year. and she moved on in a couple weeks.... This hurts so much. its like i meant nothing to her. she just moved on...What is this. is she falling in love. is she just lonely. How can she do this to me. How is she emotionaly ready for another relationship? I need help plz
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reader, landomando +, writes (24 November 2011):
landomando is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses. Funny thing is i went to a football game on the 18th and she had her friend ask my friend if i was gona be there. Then I went tho this party the next day It started at like 8 and a i showed up at 845. at 11 the paarty died down and just as we were getting ready to leave she showed up with her boyfriend. Pissed me off and pissed me off even more when I was looking through my phone she said 3 weeks before she got into a relationship "I cant live without you" ... This just hurts alot and i think it hurts more for me because I dont remember doing what i did. And i dont think i deserve this at all. But thanks for your responses really enjoyed reading them and hopefully I am able to just learn from this
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Chill man. Yes u made a mistake n manned up. Now ill tell u something. Its for the better u were off on the wrong foot with her anyhow. Ill save u possible years of anger n frustration. Do not treat women like gold yet dont treat them like dirt. Do.not be soft n nice n all that bullshit. Study their psychology. That woman would not have been attracted to u for.the long term and judging by her actions u may not have attracted her at all. Dont beat urself up and dont mope over her not being around. Reflect on ur mistake n learn. Apply n move forward.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Am pretty sure she is not ready but you hurt her a lot. She was cheated on in the past so you just made her trust issues worse by doing what you done, you are the one that made the mistake here not her. She is just trying to move on now the best that she can. No she may not be ready, and no it does not mean that she did not care about you but she is trying to get over it by moving on. I know you never meant to hurt her and am sure you regret it now, but it is done now and she is moving on with her life so I guess you need to try and do the same now and learn from your mistake. Good luck.
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