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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel ugly, insecure and depressed because all my friends have boyfriends and I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - Nowadays I feel as though I'm a jinx when it comes to finding love. Ever since my friends and I began college/uni, nearly all of my friends have managed to find boyfriends and move on with their lives, whereas I have not. I have had a male frien...

He's got a reputation as a charmer and I don't want to be a number to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - Hi all :) I've been seeing a guy for a while now and we both want to make our relationship official. However there are some concerns I have regarding his past and i am wondering I'm thinking too much about things. Basically he has been with a f...

Is it ok to date my 5th cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - ok is it wrong for me to be dating my 5th cousin.i told my mom and she says that is my choice of who i date but is it wrong?...

Help me to understand my girlfriend and how to get her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been in my first ever lesbian relationship for 3 months, everything was perfect apart from the fact that one of my mates has liked me a lot. I told her nothing would happen with her, but I didn't realize how much she liked me, so I ...

How can I become emotionally stronger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend advices me to be emotionally strong because of my past reactions to many situations.and whenever i have a problem that I share with him (about any difficulty outside our relationship or a problem I have related to him) ..he begins to ...

He told me he had a g/f but was he just letting me down easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I apologise if this is long and confusing as it is very confusing for me. I started college in august and have made some good friends but i got a crush on one of the guys on my course and i just kinda thought it would go away. Anyway it hasnt and i ...

Should I move in with b/f? Feelings are conflicted

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I am on placement in the city and he is in his graduate job so we are both hardworking adults in our 20s (I am 21 he is 22). He keeps mentioning us moving in together when I graduate, even looking at places we could potentially live (this would be ...

My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should I do? is she scared of committment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should i do? *warning this is gonna be long i apologize and appreciate any feedback*thankyou* Ok heres the situation.. Ive been with my girlfriend for 7 years and also have a beautifu...

Help! Does he love me or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - hey everyone I have been friends with a guy for three years and we finally got together seven months ago (life was good) ...we started have a sexual relationship about three months ago, i am just abit worried that he doesnt love me anymore and just...

He doesn't want me! How can I get him to change his mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - i want to be his girlfriend but he's not ready for a new relationship right now. i don't want no one else i want only him what can i do to make him change his mind and say yes i want you to be my girl before this year end ...

Is she playing games or not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how ...

He pursued his ex but won't pursue me. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had known each other for 4 months now. Before we were in a relationship, I was the one who texted him everyday and he will Text back. We also went out because I was giving him hints that i'll be in town on my days off( I used to ...

Should I be worried that he was talking on the phone to a girl? We aren't together yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - there is this guy its been almost 4 months since we've met each other we've been sleeping at each others place.and one night when was taking a bath at his place i felt something was wrong when i got out i saw him talking on the phone with a girl but ...

If my friend never pays heed to my advice, then why does she ask?? She hangs out with me when her B/f dumps her, and ignores me when they get back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) - I have a female friend, whose boyfriend is best friends with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have a healthier relationship than they do in that we give eachother loads of space. They dont go to college so they are together everyday, practically ...

I know he's not interested in me and I just need to put him out of my head but I'm finding it difficult....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice how to put someone out of my mind. Last month I was spending time up in my home town and was seduced by a local guy who is a couple of years younger than me. I was reluctant at first but spending a bit m...

I feel jealous when others find love so easily while I'm still single...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I'm 24 and my cousins are all getting married and have kids. My co workers are always asking me if I've met anyone yet. I have taken a break from dating as I feel disillusioned. I got out of a really bad relationship last year. I have dated a couple ...

What's an appropriate level of intimacy to have with male friends when you're in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I met my wonderful boyfriend during my gap year (2010) but now we're LDR. I love him to bits and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, but since starting college, I've been finding it tough not to be at least a teeny bit flattered by the sudden ...

He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a diff...

Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...

I need to find out if we're going anywhere or are we just friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - On another note, my guy friend and me have been talking for almost a month now. During this almost month we've kissed, held hands, and hugged. When we started talking, it was a day after my break up with my 2 year long boyfriend and my friend told ...

Was sex with my new boyfriend awkward because I just got out of such a long relationship? Or do we just not have that kind of connection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I just got out of a 2 year relationship to a guy that I was actually engaged to. I was very unhappy with the relationship and he was more concerned about his happiness than mine. I couldn't take it anymore so I left. I'm in a new relationship and ...

Do I still want him and does he want me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I've been exclusive with this guy for 6 months now and our relationship has been progressing. I've been recently contacted by a guy I used to see on and off. We would Have a good time then disappear from each others lives. We've been speaking ...

He rejected me, but still acts interested. What's his deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - See the question? Yeah, why do guys do this? It's not only irritating but disrespectful. I asked a guy out at the end of September that i had been crushing on for the whole summer. (he's 29 i'm 21). I was proud of myself that I was so straight ...

He was a player, should I just end things with him even though he has done nothing wrong towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last 6 months and in the beginning it was just meant to be a bit of fun. He was considered to be quite a player and when he started to pressure me I played along because I never thought it would turn into anything. 6 ...

He suddenly stopped all communication, should I give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy at University through mutual friends. We texted constantly for a few days and things were going really well, when suddenly one day he just stopped replying and when I saw him though we spoke he seemed distant. I don't understand what ...

Feeling really depressed and lonely, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - Hi. I recently started going to college, after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend due to her cheating on me. At the time, I was really hopeful that I'd be able to find another girlfriend at college. But I can't really find anyone. Almost every girl ...

Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...