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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I tell the girl I've been seeing for a month, that I have herpes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - Ive just found out ive got herpes, ive been seeing a girl for about a month. we've used protection every time we've had sex how do i tell her i have it. Shes a old friend as well and i feel really bad about having it, i don't know where its came ...

My first boyfriend ... And how do I tell my overprotective dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I have just started to go out with this boy. This is my first ever boyfriend. My overprotective dad says I can't have a boyfriend till I'm 15?!? But he knows I'm trustworthy and I've told my mum already and she said she is ...

He's really slow at taking the hint

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Ok I'll get right to it! My boyfriend is the shy, quiet, reserved, sweet, tall, mysterious, handsome type of guy. We've been good friends for a year and started *officially dating a month ago. Thing is I'm his first girlfriend and he knows I've had ...

My boyfriend doesn't want my ex on my facebook friends list

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I am dating a guy who is very jealous. We have been dating for 2 months and during this time he kept on telling me that I should delete my ex from my facebook. Because, my ex called me many times when I was next to my boyfriend and told me that he ...

Why are guys jerks like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - So I started dating this after finishing school, we live in different states. I went to visit him in his hometown and we fell really hard for each other, he told me that he loved me after about a week. I said that we couldn't have a relationship ...

I feel unwanted and under-appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years, we have 2 children, weren't planned, but we are happy. The problem is he never shows affection to me very much, he will tell me he loves me and wants to be with me forever and sees a future, but ...

She doesn't think I love her as much as I do, how do I prove it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - Hey, um okay. I reaaaalllllyy love this girl. My girlfriend. We've been together for almost 7 months. Everything is going great except, she doesn't think I love her as much as I do. So what can I do to make her see, theres no one else for me? I love ...

His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to make our relationship official on the social network

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to make our relationship official on the social network. He's the son of a pastor and the same age as me and he says the reason is because he doesn't want his church members to know. But his family knows! His family doesn...

How can I draw boys attention to me without turning into a slut?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - how can i draw boys attention to me without turning in to a slut? ive never had a boyfriend, not even a little girl relationship, i think im ready for one now but i dont have the confidence to tell anyone that i have the hots for them, i myself dont ...

How do I word something to her that makes her realise that it's not appropriate to cancel dates at the last minute when a lot of prep has gone into them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - I met a girl through internet dating. She was lovely and I'd really like to see her again. We've been texting each other etc and seem to get on ok, but she doesn't seem as keen to chat as before we met up. Having said that, she's been ill and - ...

I feel like a used rag!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - i really need some honest constructive advice. over two years ago i met a guy at work. i had come out of a dreadful relationship and my confidence was low. i work hard at work but am always given a hard time for it so this guy seemed to like me and ...

Am I releasing all my sexual tension onto my guy best friend? Am I cheating by doing things with him that I don't do with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hi. I've got a boyfriend, and recently I asked about relationship advice about our almost non-existent physical relationship. We don't hold hands, and we've never kissed. I got back really good advice. The problem lies in the tips I got from the...

Shall I just keep silent or shall I voice my insecurities about his Boy's Night Out ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My bf cheated on me 2 years ago, we argued it out and said we'd give it one last go. Since then it's been fine, and I am steadily starting to build up trust again. However, he mentioned going to another part of the Uk for a lads night out. He's h...

I'm not sure if I'm "playing the game" right with this physically affectionate man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I really like but I'm not sure if I'm sending him mixed signals or not being affectionate enough towards him. Let me explain, he's really affectionate towards me most of the time: taking my hand out of the blue, hugging me, kiss...

Why would my boyfriend consistently and deliberately lie to me? What benefit does he derive from lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi there ive been with this man for almost 2 years now he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever but the thing is he never opens up to me at all never once. i always open up to him. He denies things that are true like he will deny s...

My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...

I keep striking out with the ladies, need help! is being 40 pounds overweight a factor? What needs to be done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - so in my interaction with the ladies, I've heard this line WAY too much: "you're such a great guy, a girl would be real lucky to be with someone as nice and real as you are." All the while I'm thinking, "if i'm such a great guy, then why don't y...

Since the birth of our son he's changed. I want to work things out. How do I cope if he continues to want out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I been in relationship for five years an just had a baby now my boyfriend says his feelings for me have dropped and he don't want to be in the relationship no more and he cheated on me with 19 year old when I was 8 months pregnant I just found it o...

Eleven years together. I am seriously clucky for children. He wanted children. Now his mind is closed to the idea. what can I do?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I'm feeling extremely maternal at the moment and it's causing problems in my relationship. I'm 28, almost 29 and I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years. We've only been living together for just under a year. I know. Things have moved slow ...

Why did my girl friend not try harder to talk this through? She wants space. And different things. But could more discussion help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for a little more than a year and a half. We do everything together, We are both living at my parents house, we work together (because my family has been friends with the GM of a company, so it was a easy job)...

He wants to stay home. I want to travel. How can I modify my thoughts or behaviour to better cope with our differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, My boyfriend is not keen on going on holidays, ever. Not even to our beach houses (ie. its not cost that's a factor). I would love nothing more than for us to be able to go away, interstate, maybe overseas, but it just seems like it won't...

Does my boss want something more from me or is he just being friendly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi I am a 30 y/o woman from india and travel often on business. Recently, when i was abroad on a new project, i and my boss on this project went out sightseeing together. He is english and 56 years old. We got along well and a couple of days l...

She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...

She is the one. I want to be honest with her, but I'm ashamed of my past. How can I be honest and not lose her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I guess this is a question about dealing with my past and its potential consequences on a relationship. It is also about how much you need to tell about your sexual history. For just over a year now I have been going out with this girl and sh...

A guy my age? Or one much older and working? The guy my age is really nice and sweet and very gentlemanly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I really like this guy but recently started talking to him less because he works and i play basketball and the piano. Okay to get more to the point i like this guy but he is much older than i and we started talking less and this new guy i met like...

How could he change so quickly? He says I'm an awesome friend but he thinks thats all its going to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me out of the blue. (yesterday he was talking to me about going to his dads for dinner and making christmas lists, and the next day i saw him he broke up with me) he says that he feels like nothing has changed betw...

Could we get back together after a short term relationship? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I was dating a great guy for seven weeks, and we broke up about a week ago. We were exclusive very early on (he brought up the conversation). We live two hours away from each other which was difficult, but things were great. There was chem...

His ex cried that he didn't visit! Should I ask him to distance himself further or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My BF's best mate told him that when we came to visit him, my BF 's exgirlfriend cried and cried that he didn't go see her. Would you expect that of a 50 yr old woman who says she's just friends with your BF? What would you think was going on ther...

I never played him. how can I get to be the girl I was (with self esteem) before I met him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - dear friends... i need some advice... i broke up with my bf 5 months ago and can't get over him. our relationship had it's problems and i decided it was time to end it. the thing is, i started to regret my decision... so, i asked him to get b...

Where are all the nice guys hiding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I live in Ireland and I can't find any nice guys! All the guys i meet just seem to use me. I feel as though I,ll never be loved for who I am or what I like doing. Like I,m a night person ( Not like clubbing but other stuff ) I,ve not met a guy who ...