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writes:I seem to be getting involved with the wrong men I have aboyfriend now but he will move out next month he cooks cleans and we take turns doing the laundry and dishes I have a 18 year old handicapped daughter he is demanding and to me overkill with being clean he is separated and has 6 kids we are not compatiable I am more of a home person don't drink smoke never used drugs.He drinks smokes he is not nasty or anything to me when he does drink its just his ways and with my daughter who recently started having seizures its to much stress he gets mad over silly things so how do I find the right man every time here lately think I got one the wrong one and I am not living with the next one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): just knowing you deserve to be treated like a princess , the truth of the matter is if your not happy with him don't feel your obligated to stay with him , break up with him even how hard it will be it'll be better for you and your daughter and it's probably best to do before they move in sit him down and have a chat tell him what you want in a relationship and you don't see this going far , and if it did you wouldn't be happy . just don't be afraid to leave him because the way he treats you when he's aggravated will never change unless he see's that he's doing something wrong and really wants to change for the better.
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reader, lovely2 +, writes (8 May 2011):
lovely2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello thanks for your answer I do not understand what you mean by put out that put together woman look and personality explain that if you do not mind he is not nasty or anything when he drinks towards me or my daughter but the last 2 times he has come in he has wanted to fuss and he's not endangering her health just him being demanding and I see certain things she does makes him mad.
Like I said I got enough on my plate and she cannot go back to school until Fall what I don't get is why he cannot move in with his daughter before next month I know she just moved
Wednesday and all but why we got a lot of days together still this month and I do not know so if you can tell me that sure would help thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): it's the signal you put out as well who attract those men know what you deserve now there's nothing wrong with drinking on occasion and in at a timely matter but when it gets to the point of the abuse of the drink is bad I'm not sure which your meaning, if he is in any way in endangering your daughters health you have to give him up because she is your priority , but also with attracting more men that are put together you have to put out that put together women look and personality. you get what I'm saying? whatever message you put out will probably be the one you get back.
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