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30-35,
*dziee
writes:Ok so yeah i'm bisexual, this guy is my first sort of boyfriend..except this is the problem i don't know if it is a relationship or not..Everything was fine, one of the problems though is the distance, he lives 3-4 hours away from me on the train so its expensive to see him. I like him alot and i know he likes me too, i've met his friends they all referred to me as his 'new fella'. But now i'm at home, the other day on MSN i tried to hint about what he thought of long distance relationships and he said they work for some people but they don't with him, and my heart sank a bit, but i don't know if he is considering what we have between us just some fun or a long distance thing, that is where im confused :( Anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice on what to do next The next time i am seeing him again is on the last weekend of september..What could i say to him? It would be alot easier to make sure i get a honest answer then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): Communicate with him face to face. Be honest and demand an honest answer in return. Stop trying to guess or read him and be straight forward.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Why don't you ask him if he's exclusive to you. Sometimes the simplist question will get a straight answer. Then if you can't cope with that you will have to let him go. Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain at the best of times. Hope this helps
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