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writes:So there's this guy. He's friends with my one friend, Vaughn. Vaughn and I haven't hung out in a while, but he asked if his friend, Eric, could tag along. I was ok with it. So when we met up Eric would NOT stop staring at me. Honestly, Eric isn't my type.But, the boys were talking and I was just there, listening in. Eric bragged about how he slept with some girl he met, and some other girl he dated briefly. We walked around the town for a while, and I got to know Eric a little better.So, Vaughn and Eric were leaving and Eric asked for my number. I gave it to him thinking, "Ok, so were pretty good friends now. That's good. Now the 3 of us can all hang out."So Eric texted me the next day asking if I wanted to hang out. I figured that it was going to be Him, Vaughn, and I. I asked if they needed to be picked up. He assured me that it was just going to be me and him. So, he and I are supposed to hang out soon.Like I said, he's not my type. I don't really find him attractive, but I do think he'd be fun company. I KNOW he wants to make a move, but I don't know if I want him to... I mean, I guess I'm ok if he kisses me or something. But, he slept with some girls before, I don't feel like he's a "player" because he's too nice, but you never know.I don't want to get involved with him. I want to stay friends.What do I say if he wants to be more than friends?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 September 2010):
What Honeygirl says. If there was ever a guy who was after sex, this is the guy.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Hun,tell him straight out - you like him but only as a friend.
Honestly after hearing him boast about his conquests, do you really want to be one of them???
Dont go out with a guy just because he is there, if he just doesnt make your knees turn to jelly and butterflies in your tummy - then dont get involved with him!
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