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writes:So I like this guy in school but I've never talked to him in person. I only text him and he says he likes me and says I'm hot. but then he just goes out with a bunch of other girls. I'm so confused. And he knows i like him but..i don't know I'm just confused.
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reader, Xx_$t3lL3R_xX +, writes (5 September 2010):
Xx_$t3lL3R_xX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionkay,thankks guyys
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): NO! don't try to be his friend. Don't text him. You said yourself you guys have never actually spoken. Friends actually speak to you. DON'T TEXT HIM! delete his #. Don't tell him why, or how you feel. Just let him wonder. You will only end up feeling dumb if you talk to him and pour out your feelings, and find out then that either 1)he doesn't really care, or 2) he says he does, then down the road, you still feel the same way you do now. If a guy likes you, REALLY likes you, you're not going to be this confused or have to wonder. trust me. IF he wants to be your friend and really know you, he'll make much more of an effort. you're a convenience right now. Which, you shouldn't be. Move on. You don't deserve a "friend" like that.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 September 2010):
 You can try but even those girl friends he has he will still flirt with like no other because that's how he is. Giving you false hope he's into you, you'd have to really control your feelings. And that's hard to do at your age.
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reader, Xx_$t3lL3R_xX +, writes (2 September 2010):
Xx_$t3lL3R_xX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut Do You Guys Think That We Could Just Be Friends?
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reader, Xx_$t3lL3R_xX +, writes (2 September 2010):
Xx_$t3lL3R_xX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys. and thats what my friends say that he is a man whore and that i could do better.
but you guys are right i should just try to ignore him because he`s just using me.
thanks(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): This has happend to me recently with this boy ): its soooo confusing !!! I really didn't kno what to do , like him or just ignore him.. he always would flirt and all those things but idk if he rlly rlly meant ya know what I mean??? Its so confusingg.. well I went out w/ him for a day but he broke up w/ me cos he heard his ex was crying cos of me && him so yea.. but what I did is like him go out with him and stop... but what I should've done (and u should do) is stop talkin to him cos he'll break ur heart. I cried so much , and the least u could do is stop talkin to him or jst tel him like ur too good for his player status lol (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): You like him but you've never talked to him in person? Stop talking to him. He doesn't really like you if he doesn't talk to you in person and you go to the same school. He will text why aren't you talking to me. Don't text back. Just leave him alone and act like you don't need him and are better off without him. Either he'll straighten up and treat you like a person, or, you'll get over him doing this, and realize you'd rather be with someone who treats you with respect.
Whatever you do, don't try to talk to him about this and tell him how much you like him, and how you thought he liked you, but you don't understand...etc... If he only texts you, he doesn't care. It will only make you sound needy. Have some respect for yourself! If he says he likes you, but acts like he doesn't-remember, actions speak louder than words. Don't try to change him, there will be plenty of other good guys who like YOU, but you've got to love yourself first! It's not that you're not good enough for this guy, but that he's not good enough for you, if that's how you're being treated. Chalk it up to "liking him" because, maybe he's attractive-but, you know you can do better.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 September 2010):
This my dear is what you call a "man whore" or the nicer term "ladies man". Be careful of these guys..They like all kinds of girls and don't settle for monogamy or just one at a time..they've got at least 2 other girls they date or are talking to besides you. They're a big flirt with every female, love all of the ladies. These guys are usually big players/ cheaters too and don't make very good boyfriends. So beware.
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