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writes:I'm 15 and I've liked this guy sinse I was 13. I told my friend that I liked him about a year ago and about a month after that he asked her out and she said yes! I wasn't mad at her or anything cause I mean he liked her not me. I was just that sad you get when you find out he doesnt like you. anyways, they dated for a little and broke up. now one day she likes him the next she hates him!so its been a month or so and he asked me out. I want to say yes but she says thats terrible of me. am I wrong in this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I don't think my friend still likes him, they went out for 3 days and the whole time she talked to him once! and he broke up with her because she didn't really like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Yeah the rule is don't touch. Don't go near him.
You do know that he picked her right? I mean he already could have had you but chose her instead. You do know this means you're just a fallback for him right? That he's only after you now because it didn't work out between them. That's not exactly the sign of a guy that really likes you. He's probably just doing this to hurt your friend or make her jealous. Don't play his game, say no. He had his chance with you and he chose someone else.
Is that really the kind of guy you want to be with or the kind of girl you want to be? He liked her more than you.
Now as for your friend and the way she went out with him even though she knew you liked him, we'll she has learned her lesson because look how it turned out. Do you really want to lose her as a friend for a guy that only sees you as second best to her. A guy that might not even like you but might be just trying to use you to hurt your friend?
Find yourself a nice guy that chooses you over any other girl and don't let him convince you that this is not the case because it is.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 September 2010):
The rule on a friend's ex is don't touch, especially after just a month and knowing that she's still hurt. You'll lose your friend for the sake of this guy.
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