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writes:I have this huge crush on a girl and I have let her know several times but the past few days she has become very stressed by her large amounts of homework. When I ask if she wants to talk about her situation or if there is anything I can do to help her she just say no thanks to me. I know she is interested in going out on a date with me because I have asked her out but she was busy the night I was free so she made me promise to take her out on her night off. But now she is not herself because of major stress. I'm not sure if I should just leave her alone for a few days and not say anything to her to let the stress pass or try to get her out Saturday night for a fun date to get her mind of things? I really need some quality advice. Thanks.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 September 2010):
 School always stressed me out, especially college..so many hours your taking, multiple tests to study for, homework, going over notes, if you fell asleep in lit 201 then you have to text your friend in class to get the rest of the notes, drinking Starbucks to pull all nighters in the library only to fall asleep drooling on your $200 chemistry book. Ah I miss it. Anyways, give her time and some space to get through the school week. You can text her in the middle of the week or thursday and ask her out for Saturday night because she's going to need a break from the books.
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reader, Giovanni Valentina  +, writes (2 September 2010):
I agree education is important how about you help her with her homework that way shes stress free and you spend time together
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Education is very important, leave her alone for a few days, occasionally checking up on her if you think you need to. Then when she's stress free, take her on that date to relax her and make her forget the stress.
I hope that helps.
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