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writes:Hey everyone, My name's Joe and i'm just starting my 2nd year of University. Before My Uni life began I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. It had it's ups and downs and ended ok. But the problem was during that relationship I was doing my A-Levels at College and the stress that the relationship added really messed with my studies.After the relationship finished I decided I would not get into a serious relationship again, until AFTER university. That way I would be free of commitments and no relationship stress would effect my studies. So I had been seeing a guy sexually (fuck buddy I guess is the term) for about 6 months. We both agreed it was just a sexual thing as neither of us was looking for anything serious. But over time we started getting more intimate and our feelings grew, and last weekend we started officially "going out". Admittedly he is an amazing guy, and I haven't felt like this in a while. So at the time I said yes. A week later i've been thinking about it and feel a bit annoyed that I didn't stick to my "No relationship" policy. Now i'm confused because I've thought about it too much.Part of my likes the fact that we're going out, whereas the other part wishes we had stayed casual and then started going out after uni. I don't know what to do. Anyone got any suggestions or a different view point on my situation??ThanksJoe
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 You can't choose when someone you like comes into your life and you want to date them. Don't pass up an opertunity because you just don't feel like you should. The best place to meet someone is at university. I met my gf at school and although the relationship does add stress I couldn't imagine having to look for a relationship outside of school.
Definitly try it out this guy may be perfect for you and there might not be as much stress as you think, it might take some of the stress away from school.
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