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writes:I have been dating a guy for a couple months already, and i really really like him, at a point were i love him. but i moved three hours away to go to school. And there is a guy who likes me and hes alright the thing is hes here where i can see him everyday .. where the other guy/bf is three hours where i see him ?once or twice a month! what should i do!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): You're under 22 and single. You can date mote than one guy and it's no ones business but your own. If a commitment goes farther then fine date only one, but until that guy moves closer for you or you are engaged you should keep your dating options open. You're still figuring out what you want out of life. Good luck.
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reader, GhostChild  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 This all comes down to convenience essentially. Do you want to be with the boyfriend you love but who lives far away, or the guy that you like that is close by.
How well do you know the guy that you're living close to? It might be more convenient to see him, and you'd definitely see him a lot more often, but do you think it would last? Do you see yourself loving him the same way that you love your current boyfriend?
On the other hand, 3 hours is further than most couples are from each other, but you could still see each other a few times a month. You have to decide if you think you can handle long distance.
Would you still break up with your current boyfriend over distance if you didn't have a guy near you wanting to date you? If so, then maybe you're not up for the distance. But if not then it sounds like your going for a relationship that's more convenient.
Either way, maybe try to get to know this new guy a bit more, if you see a future with him then maybe that'd be for the best. But if you really do love your current boyfriend, and he loves you, then you should try and find a way around the three hour distance.
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