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female
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30-35,
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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for three years, which is a very long time because I'm only young. I love him to pieces but I don't know if I want to stay with him. He isn't very romantic and has never treated me, we have never been out for a meal or done anything romantic. He has told me that he will never change because 'that's the way he is'. I don't know whether I have just wasted three years of my life? And I don't think I'd have the guts to end things with him. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 I think you should tell him you are tired of the way he treats you and that you're looking for something different, if he really loves you as much as you love him he might try to change or do his best to treat you better (like you deserve). And if things still don't get better then maybe you should move on, and meet new ppl. Once a friend told me 'theres plenty of fishes in the sea' and its true.
Don't see it as a waste, these years give you wisdom, experience and that's what life is about.
But yeah don't get stuck with people you are not happy with, you're still young and you deserve better!
Good luck!
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