A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok so this one is a little complex so thanks for ur time.. i will make it short.. i love my girlfriend and we have a great relationship.. she wants to wait till marriage to lose her virginity and i am fine with that (this will be important later). so at first we made out 24-7, but after almost a whole year.. i dont feel the urge to make out with her anymore.. i mean just the touch of her skin against mine excites me to no end! but i just dont feel the need to make out with her anymore.. but i really love showing her how sexy she is so i want to fix it. how can i fix it? and do you think its because i know it wont go any further that i have lost the urge? thanks so much for ur time.. o p.s. i am 20 and she is 20 so plz dont think this is a dumb middle school question lol i know it sounds kinda young. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 September 2010):
This just happens after you've been together for awhile. When people first get together they can't keep their hands off each other, and this is called the honeymoon period. So long as you still get excited by her and still want to make out, losing that urgent need is nothing at all to worry about. It just means the honeymoon phase has worn off. It's not a bad thing.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Leave her alone. She is wise far beyond her years.
She has chosen to belong only to her husband, and looks like it won't be you. Otherwise you'd be happy that she's waiting.
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