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Can a guy be so sure about someone in the first 6 months?

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Question - (13 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2010)
A female New Zealand age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I don't know what my question is exactly but here goes

After years of bad dating experiences and not one long term relationship, I've now been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I've never met anyone like him, he's just amazing. I've met all his friends, and I'm also part of his family now. He also includes me in all his future plans.

A few weeks ago he told me that he can see spending the rest of his life with me and that he's never been more certain of anything in his life like he's certain about me and our relationship.

I do believe him but because of past experiences where guys seem to have changed their minds so suddenly and left me, I sometimes question how he can be so sure about me.

What I want to know is whether a guy can be sure about someone within 6 months of the relationship.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2010):

He sounds pretty sure of himself to me, especially if you've met friends and family and includes you in all his future plans. Those are good signs. My advice is to just go with it. If you worry, he might worry you're not into him.

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